jonaskings Posted September 7, 2016 Posted September 7, 2016 Hey everyone, So basically I met this girl a few weeks ago at a party, since than we talk alot and had a few dates aswell. The dates were nice and we both had alot of fun. I have the feeling that she really likes me alot. I like her aswell, but I don't feel enough for her to be in a relationship. She is not from my town but we live 1 hour away from eachother. At the party we kissed. Turns out I was the first boy she kissed, and yes, I feel very guilty for this.. She is 18 and I am 21. How can I tell her that I am not interested anymore, because she is very kind and I don't want to hurt her! Thank you, David
bummer Posted September 7, 2016 Posted September 7, 2016 At a few weeks, I think phone calls are acceptable. "Hey, listen I think you're a beautiful and smart woman with a bright future. I really enjoyed our dates together. I don't think it is going to work out however. I think it's best if we end this and both move on." If she insists on a reason, lie politely about the distance or whatever. Or simply state you don't think there's great chemistry from your end and you don't want to lead her on and make it worse. Honesty is always best, but white lies can ease the guilt. Good on you for not dragging it out. 2
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