oman0115 Posted August 25, 2016 Posted August 25, 2016 Had some personal bad news, spoken to friends and family about it but all I want to do is text my ex. Recently told her to never speak to me because she only seems to get in touch in times of crisis to discuss her woes with me. I got into thinking I'm her emotional tampon kind of guy. Right now, wanting to reach out is making me regret what I said. Is it really that bad to talk to exs when you're down and need reassurance, is it not in fact nice that you take that role with another person ( even if you're seeing other people ) starting to think she may just see me as a nice person who she can turn to how I'd like to turn to her too... ps I'm not going to text her, it's just sent my mind racing!!
Blanco Posted August 25, 2016 Posted August 25, 2016 Had some personal bad news, spoken to friends and family about it but all I want to do is text my ex. Recently told her to never speak to me because she only seems to get in touch in times of crisis to discuss her woes with me. I got into thinking I'm her emotional tampon kind of guy. Right now, wanting to reach out is making me regret what I said. Is it really that bad to talk to exs when you're down and need reassurance, is it not in fact nice that you take that role with another person ( even if you're seeing other people ) starting to think she may just see me as a nice person who she can turn to how I'd like to turn to her too... ps I'm not going to text her, it's just sent my mind racing!! So you told her to stop texting you because she was using you as her "emotional tampon," but you want to text her now because... you want to use her as your emotional tampon? 1
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