mmx Posted August 19, 2016 Posted August 19, 2016 (edited) So basically I am trying to be busier with life and not be so available for this guy. We texted a little once I got off work yesterday and he was at work. Anyways, I asked how we was doing and he responded and such but, never asked how I was doing. He continued to text and told me that he had found something. I asked him where he had found it and he responded with the answer. I was busy at work today and did not respond. Should I respond? I don't want to play games, but don't know what to do. Wait and see if he texts me? Edited August 19, 2016 by mmx
Amelie1980 Posted August 19, 2016 Posted August 19, 2016 Is it this guy? http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/591787-we-relationship-am-i-his-girlfriend#post7019143 If it is, no....do not engage in any further contact. It is going nowhere.
Redhead14 Posted August 19, 2016 Posted August 19, 2016 So basically I am trying to be busier with life and not be so available for this guy. We texted a little once I got off work yesterday and he was at work. Anyways, I asked how we was doing and he responded and such but, never asked how I was doing. He continued to text and told me that he had found something. I asked him where he had found it and he responded with the answer. I was busy at work today and did not respond. Should I respond? I don't want to play games, but don't know what to do. Wait and see if he texts me? If you want to respond, you should respond. Tell him you were busy, that's all. You're really overthinking. 1
summertitparadise Posted August 19, 2016 Posted August 19, 2016 It's not a big issue. If you want to reply him, go ahead. If you don't feel to reply him, let it be.
Amelie1980 Posted August 19, 2016 Posted August 19, 2016 (edited) It's not a big issue. If you want to reply him, go ahead. If you don't feel to reply him, let it be. It is a big issue. Have you read the other threads? This guy has been friends with her for a year, hooking up for 4 months, not taking her on dates, just going over to her place and vice versa. He isnt doing anything, he is wasting her time. At 4 months of this, time to stop wasting her time on him. The more she stays in contact, the longer this will go on. Edited August 19, 2016 by Amelie1980
smudge21 Posted August 19, 2016 Posted August 19, 2016 Reading that other thread, you need to let this one go. It's becoming an addiction and that's very worrying. He's not treating you like anything more than a FWB deal and even that he's not fully invested. If you want more, then look elsewhere. Otherwise continue with this game playing for as long as you allow it.
Toodaloo Posted August 19, 2016 Posted August 19, 2016 Oh dear. What I think you should do is stop contacting him and go out with your other friends instead. This one has given you nothing, has not invested in you in any way and its going absolutely no where (unless you call down the swanny somewhere). What you do is you get active. You get social with others and you fill your life up. Then when you are at home putting your feet up and he texts you can text back that you are and you are glad as its been hectic recently. Thing is that you probably will not want to bother sending that text because by then you will be out having fun instead...
lillymae1010 Posted August 19, 2016 Posted August 19, 2016 Think of texting as having a beer or glass of wine. If you simply want to do it then go for it. But if you feel like you NEED to do it....you probably shouldn't.
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