A Wolf in Sheep's Clothing

[Grisho]

I'm doing well...But I find myself feeling the need to get answers

 

Everytime I have closed the door on a relationship in the past...I never needed answers...I gave myself the closure I needed...but this time its different

 

I know this is bad....I know...but I feel like I want to know what I did to him

 

I've been using divination techniques so I have some answers....but I want to know for sure....with 100% certainty

 

I've never done this before....I've never needed answers

 

I guess this was just a big blow to my ego

 

I feel alittle stuck

 

Have you taken up any new activities in your local community to fill your free time? I put 2 good lists on this thread, and am happy to come up with more.

[Grisho]

I am really disappointed to see you agains insulting the woman on the thread here:

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/591545-why-does-guy-cheat-even-if-he-has-pretty-girlfriend

 

How on earth can you judge yourself to be so much more attractive? Why would that even cross your mind? I can only think you don't understand what compatible means. You still think your looks being, in your eyes, so wonderful should have made you a prize in his eyes.

 

Why are you so willing to demean this woman?

 

I'm blown away by your audacity to claim "I never thought poorly of that woman....never resented her...we as women need to be kind to each other in these situtations as the men who cheat clearly dont give a f*ck about either woman"

 

when on this very thread I had to point out you were making claims about her promiscuity and character! Why are you rewriting history? Why not admit you were offensive? I wonder what exactly you are learning from the time we're investing in trying to help here.

[Dis]

I am really disappointed to see you agains insulting the woman on the thread here:

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/591545-why-does-guy-cheat-even-if-he-has-pretty-girlfriend

 

How on earth can you judge yourself to be so much more attractive? Why would that even cross your mind? I can only think you don't understand what compatible means. You still think your looks being, in your eyes, so wonderful should have made you a prize in his eyes.

 

Why are you so willing to demean this woman?

 

I'm blown away by your audacity to claim "I never thought poorly of that woman....never resented her...we as women need to be kind to each other in these situtations as the men who cheat clearly dont give a f*ck about either woman"

 

when on this very thread I had to point out you were making claims about her promiscuity and character! Why are you rewriting history? Why not admit you were offensive? I wonder what exactly you are learning from the time we're investing in trying to help here.

 

After doing some divination I realized she has no idea of what was going on....so no I do not think poorly of her

 

Even though I lashed out at her in one of my posts... before I knew where she stood. In the nights to come I have sent her healing and loving energies...I dont place the blame on her...she had no idea...I'm not a saint Grisho...I'm human...I'm here to improve

 

Ok onto positive things...

[DrReplyInRhymes]

After doing some divination I realized she has no idea of what was going on....so no I do not think poorly of her

 

Even though I lashed out at her in one of my posts... before I knew where she stood. In the nights to come I have sent her healing and loving energies...I dont place the blame on her...she had no idea...I'm not a saint Grisho...I'm human...I'm here to improve

 

Ok onto positive things...

 

I didn't read everything, but walking in on them?

That kind of sucks, but at least it came to an end,

That's closure enough, I hope, for you to move on,

If needed, vent your frustrations and make a new song!

[Dis]

So after I destoyed what I used to hurt him....I had something happen....I realized that I didnt destroy the energy I had sent out in the first place...it was unreal

 

So tonight I burned 3 black candles (for banishing negativity) and 2 green candles (for healing) 2 white candles (for white light) and 2 purple candles (for peace) = 9 = the number for banishing

 

I took apart the energy I had created...which due to my own extreme anger had become its own entity

 

It was tough but I feel good about it now

 

I realized the severity of what I was doing to him and felt so awful....when the black candles burn down I'm burrying everything once again

 

It takes alot of effort the break something like what I created...I may be a witch but I'm far from perfect...I need to right my wrongs now

 

Positive energies from here on out

[DrReplyInRhymes]

So after I destoyed what I used to hurt him....I had something happen....I realized that I didnt destroy the energy I had sent out in the first place...it was unreal

 

So tonight I burned 3 black candles (for banishing negativity) and 2 green candles (for healing) 2 white candles (for white light) and 2 purple candles (for peace) = 9 = the number for banishing

 

I took apart the energy I had created...which due to my own extreme anger had become its own entity

 

It was tough but I feel good about it now

 

I realized the severity of what I was doing to him and felt so awful....when the black candles burn down I'm burrying everything once again

 

It takes alot of effort the break something like what I created...I may be a witch but I'm far from perfect...I need to right my wrongs now

 

Positive energies from here on out

 

What the hell. You're a witch?!

 

That's AWESOME.

 

Remind me not to piss you off.

[Dis]

That cool - I'm interested in alternative arts. Never looked into witch craft specifically but would be interested to know how did you get into these areas to begin with and what do you usually use the witch craft for exactly ? I had an old housemate and she was a school teacher but also described herself as "witchy on the side" and would have people come around to the house usually for treatment of illnesses. She must have got results as we had people regularly visiting.

 

 

 

Also just wanted to repost what Imajerk posted here as I think this is on point. This here ^^^ is my interpretation of karma. What we do to others tends to eventually get reflected back at us. We tend to attract the energy we put out. How we then deal with this shapes our future karma. Hopefully it teaches us a lesson about our own behavior and we change - if we refuse to learn the lesson however we will continue to experience the same thing on repeat. You see people who are almost in negative feedback loops because they can't break the cycle. Like Imajerk said - I think you get this but in my opinion the key to solving your problems lies in consciously acknowledging this was your Karma to experience and now you understand how your previous partners felt and you will learn from it for future relationships.

 

 

 

Sounds like you are in a much better place then when this thread started

 

Thanks for this I started reading about witchcraft when I was 13. Didnt start practing until I was 18. It takes alot of research before you actually know what you're doing and how to do it. I just liked how freeing it was....not alot of rules and regulations....very open to interpretation

 

I'm sure the woman you know does help people. While witchcraft cannot be a substitute for modern medicine...it does things modern medicine can never do. Once a witch practices for awhile she never doubts what she's capable of. And in this case I created something very bad. I had a dream about it and it woke me up out of a deep sleep. Which is why I spent all night undoing it. A witch's energies turn into "things" these things can be bad or good. In this case....the thing I created was bad. I really hurt him...I dont want to go into what wouldve happened if I hadnt undone what I created but....if I didnt...I wouldve never been able to live with myself.

 

I did NOT create his karma. So my excuse that I was creating his karma was BS...I knew what I was doing...I was just trying to justify it. I did black magic on him....I was in the wrong 100% and I've spent the past 3 nights fixing this so if anyone would like to comment and admonish me for this...I wont respond....TRUST me....I know what I did. I dont care that he cheated on me...the pain I inflicted on him was something much worse than what he did to me. I will have to spend alot of time redeeming myself in the days to come. As of now, I'm still undoing this mess.

[DrReplyInRhymes]

Back to the topic:

 

I just read through your thread and figured I'd throw comment if it doesn't make you wince,

but if you broke it off with this dude, did he think you weren't together exclusively since?

I mean, I don't understand why HE'D chase you after you broke up and ask to be in a relationship again,

If he had planned on being in bed with another girl so soon, unless like others said, it was means to an end.

 

It seems like to me, from my limited reading, that he may have met this new girl,

During the break you both had, and then decided to bypass you to take her for a whirl,

But still doesn't make sense why he'd do that after asking YOU for another chance to take,

Boggles my mind, maybe he just didn't care anymore and was looking for a way out, i.e. this 'mistake'?

 

EDIT: You just posted about witchcraft:I genuinely think it's awesome you practice witchcraft, but I find it hard to believe in truly. I think you just had a pinch of bad luck (or good luck.. in this case), I don't think your witchcraft manifested itself to play out this way.

Edited August 17, 2016 by DrReplyInRhymes

[Dis]

Back to the topic:

 

I just read through your thread and figured I'd throw comment if it doesn't make you wince,

but if you broke it off with this dude, did he think you weren't together exclusively since?

I mean, I don't understand why HE'D chase you after you broke up and ask to be in a relationship again,

If he had planned on being in bed with another girl so soon, unless like others said, it was means to an end.

 

It seems like to me, from my limited reading, that he may have met this new girl,

During the break you both had, and then decided to bypass you to take her for a whirl,

But still doesn't make sense why he'd do that after asking YOU for another chance to take,

Boggles my mind, maybe he just didn't care anymore and was looking for a way out, i.e. this 'mistake'?

 

Thank for asking for clarification hun. What you said is logical. After doing some divination....I found some things out...

 

He had met her previously....when he asked me for exclusivity he meant it....the woman he cheated on me with randomly texted her and he went along with it (which is his fault not hers) She didnt know about me....she didnt know he was in a relationship with me. The two of them having sex was a casual thing but she didnt know he had a gf (me) at the time. When I walked in on them he told her I wasnt his gf. He lied. When she found out....she ended things with him (friday night) She was angry...and rightfully so

 

Its amazing what we are really capable of...in terms of using our minds in a different way...if I hadnt used divination....I would be in the dark

 

It all makes sense now...I hope the woman he cheated on me with heals fully from this....she was a victim too

[LostOnes05]

I'll take a few good-natured spells if you don't mind!! No bad ones please...my luck is bad enough. Thanks

[DrReplyInRhymes]

Thank for asking for clarification hun. What you said is logical. After doing some divination....I found some things out...

 

He had met her previously....when he asked me for exclusivity he meant it....the woman he cheated on me with randomly texted her and he went along with it (which is his fault not hers) She didnt know about me....she didnt know he was in a relationship with me. The two of them having sex was a casual thing but she didnt know he had a gf (me) at the time. When I walked in on them he told her I wasnt his gf. He lied. When she found out....she ended things with him (friday night) She was angry...and rightfully so

 

Its amazing what we are really capable of...in terms of using our minds in a different way...if I hadnt used divination....I would be in the dark

 

It all makes sense now...I hope the woman he cheated on me with heals fully from this....she was a victim too

 

Well, ****, I mean, if you want to practice some witchcraft on me,

I'll let you do anything, just please let it be temporary,

Like, a love potion maybe, or some divination into me,

For I'm tired of finding women who only bring misery.

 

As for your situation, don't stress it, he obviously didn't care,

Which is fine, cherish the good times, and your future isn't bare,

Walking in on him like that is a gift, not a curse, for like you said before,

You'd still be in the dark not knowing he was looking for two with which to score.

[DrReplyInRhymes]

women waste too much time on exes

 

Not mine, nor should yours, if you make them hate you or just leave them alone,

Or you could pull a disillusionments' exe's move and get caught banging another mid-bone.

[Dis]

I'm not a wiccan, but I did have an interest in this sort of thing when I was younger. When a family member was sued, I admit, I went to a store, to see if there was anything I could do to protect my family (but the way I see it is that I was doing something that made me feel better - like I was doing *something* however small, since I couldn't control the outcome). The woman gave me a purple candle and a couple of things to make an oil out of, to rub onto the candle, but I ended up not doing it - I was afraid the oil would do something to it, and burn the house down. I've tried smudging the house in the past (five years ago), but I'm afraid it seemed like our luck grew a lot worse after that, not better. The worst years of my adult life have been the past 4-1/2 years.

 

If you can calm yourself, and find a way to deal with this that has nothing to do with him - and you successfully distance yourself from him, and end up happier than ever, you "win" no matter what's he's done, or will have or do in the future. I would have been a lot better off if someone hadn't affected me so much in the past.

 

Hun I'm very sorry to hear what has happened to you. Pls know that as long as you use good intention while doing a spell nothing bad will happen to you. Intentions are everything in witchcraft. You had the intention to protect your family....thats a good intention...nothing but good could have come from lighting that candle and oil

 

Pls dont get me wrong...I am not here to push my religion on anyone....everyone is free to believe in what they chose....I'm just trying to help you understand the realities of witchcraft whether you chose to practice it or not

 

To me, it seems like you need to banish some bad luck...and open your family up to prosperity and good luck. All of this is pretty easily done is you're creative and believe in yourself. Feel free to ask me here or PM me to get some direction if you want to. We as humans havent the slightest idea of what we are truly capable of. You are capable of helping your family in ways you never thought possible if you just believe in yourself

 

Best of luck hun...I'm here for you is you want some insight/tips...if not I wish you the very best

[Dis]

I'll take a few good-natured spells if you don't mind!! No bad ones please...my luck is bad enough. Thanks

 

Lol Unfortunately hun I cant do anything to you or for you because I dont know you on a personal level. The witches on the internet that claim to be able to practice spells for people they dont know are full of s**t lol. But thank you for the compassion

[Dis]

women waste too much time on exes

 

Isnt that the truth

[Dis]

Well, ****, I mean, if you want to practice some witchcraft on me,

I'll let you do anything, just please let it be temporary,

Like, a love potion maybe, or some divination into me,

For I'm tired of finding women who only bring misery.

 

As for your situation, don't stress it, he obviously didn't care,

Which is fine, cherish the good times, and your future isn't bare,

Walking in on him like that is a gift, not a curse, for like you said before,

You'd still be in the dark not knowing he was looking for two with which to score.

 

Awww hun like I said to LostOnes, I cant do anything for you because I dont know you personally.

 

You seem so sweet so pls pls have hope....you WILL find a wonderful woman...just give yourself time and think lots of positive thoughts...thoughts become things....put good thoughts out...you'll get good things in return

[LostOnes05]

Lol Unfortunately hun I cant do anything to you or for you because I dont know you on a personal level. The witches on the internet that claim to be able to practice spells for people they dont know are full of s**t lol. But thank you for the compassion

 

I hear ya! So you won't charge me nine easy payments of $49.99 for putting some positive energy into the universe for me? That's very kind haha. All the best Dis!!

[SpiralOut]

I think you already got back at him simply by saying "I'm going to **** you up now." The guy is probably wondering what you are going to do. He can spend some time being nervous and worried for nothing. Lol.

[Dis]

then stop wasting time

 

Refer back to my recent posts hun...pretty sure I'm spending my time wisely now

[Dis]

I hear ya! So you won't charge me nine easy payments of $49.99 for putting some positive energy into the universe for me? That's very kind haha. All the best Dis!!

 

Haha Thanks hun! :bunny:

[Dis]

I think you already got back at him simply by saying "I'm going to **** you up now." The guy is probably wondering what you are going to do. He can spend some time being nervous and worried for nothing. Lol.

 

Lol good point but...I'm pretty sure he knows now

[maryquitecontrary]

I'm just curious...did he ever try to make contact with you to try to explain? I broke up with my exbf for cheating with a married coworker and secretly hoped he would try to get me back, but instead he blocked me and became besties with HER. I would have loved to tell her husband and even over a year later I still think about doing that. I know they are still friends and it still burns me up to this day even though I don't want that jerk back and don't think about him very much anymore. It just angers me that he chose her over me.

[AMJ]

If nothing else Dr. Reply

I'm thoroughly enjoying these rhymes you write

It's an impressive skill of yours

I'm looking forward to reading more.

[Dis]

Note from moderation: These quotes are from posts that were deleted while cleaning up some questionable posting in this thread. I am leaving the quotes here slightly out of context to facilitate Disillusionment373s reply. ~T

 

Breaking up for 2 or 3 days, then having him ask to be back together,

In my mind, that's still being in a relationship, even if it didn't last forever,

But to turn around and get caught in the sack while she came to visit,

Either he thought they weren't exclusive...or he didn't care, don't know which is it!

 

I understand what you're saying, and yes, the caveat was certainly there,

It's definitely arguable that she caused this whole scenario, whether or not she's aware,

The kicker in my mind is the fact that she says he's the one who asked for her to come back,

With that information in mind, maybe this was his way of getting revenge... or his 'attack'.

(I think one of the girls mentioned this)

 

Hi DrReplyInRhymes! I agree with AMJ, I love your posts and think you're talented! I love reading what you have to say!

 

Yes he asked me to be exclusive....at first I told him I didnt want a relationship but he pushe for it which is odd considering what he ended up doing.

 

I think he just wanted sex because he knew I dont have sex outside of a relationship....I cant believe I didnt think that maybe that was the reason why he asked me to be exclusive....I feel like an idiot for that.

 

While I never shouldve gotten into another relationship with him....I didnt deserve to be cheated on. Yes, I was foolish for entering a relationship with a man who it didnt work out with the first time but him cheating on me was his wrong doing...not mine.

 

I think what was so shocking about all of it was that he really was a wolf in sheep's clothing. I've dated liars and cheater before....but he gave me no indication that he was this type of guy. I though...well god couldnt you give me some type of warning sign!

 

I dont know that he did this to get back a me. We were both to blame for the 1st breakup.

 

I'm going to ask my divination tool and get some more answers

 

Thanks for you're creative replies DrReplyInRhymes!!!

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[Dis]

Now I just want to know more about this magic. Can anyone be a witch? I want to cast a few spells

 

Sorry girly I meant to get back to this post but had forgotten

 

Being a witch is not something someone is born with....it takes research, practice, and lots of effort. You seem like a strong, independant woman so I'm sure you could be a witch if you wanted to

 

A person needs the following things in order to be a witch

 

-Original/progressive thinking

-Good visionalization skills

-Creativity

-A blind faith/belief in one's own personal power

-The belief that literally anything is possible....nothing is impossible when it comes to magic

-Confidence in one's work, no hesitation, no fear

-An appreciation of nature and animals

-Personal strength

-The utmost respect for the female race and the power of women

-Education on witchcraft....lots of reading

-Patience and practice

 

I'm not here to push my religion on anyone, I'm a big believer that everyone is entitled to their own beliefs...but I can recomend some books and tips to get you started if your curious and want to know more

 

Witchcraft is not really what people make it out to be. Its actually a really empowering beautiful process. We as people, are capable of so much more than we think we are....thats where witchcraft comes in...it allows us to solve problems in ways we never could without it. It opens up a whole different way of thinking/living/problem solving...its liberating

 

If you do start to practice successfully, you'll be amazed at the results of your spells. Like I said, nothing is impossible when it comes to witchcraft

 

Feel free to message me here or PM me if you want to learn more about it