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Original Post:http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/584043-have-i-lost-her-interest-good

 

I would like to thank everyone who gave their insight into my position. That door finally closed on me today :(. I was talking with Sarah today to find out what she was up to in which she replied "Nothing" this is after telling me she was busy the day before hand. I then straight up asked is she interested at all? which she replied "No".

 

I question her on why she wasn't straight forward with me much earlier she simply replied "Well you wern't really bothering me". After that I wished her well with life and unfriended her.

 

I will admit i'm pretty upset about the whole thing she admitted in her final messages that she was gonna let it drag out to which I realized she is not the type of person I would want to be with.

 

A few things I learnt:

 

1) No girl is busy for weeks on end if she declines 2 weeks in a row move on.

2) Girls will keep you around for nothing more then a txting buddy.

3) Don't put all your eggs in one basket that's how I ended up in this position.

 

I think it's best for me to hold off on dating for a few months now. I just turned 20 and only started dating at the begging of this year. I was able to get my first girlfriend have my first kiss and lose my virginity. By Thursday I will have slept with 3 different girls so all I can say is it's been a learning experience.

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Best advice I can give you is women who like you make it easy.

Sometimes yo gotta chase a little but once that fails you forget them and move on and let them chase you.:cool:

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Original Post:http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/584043-have-i-lost-her-interest-good

 

I would like to thank everyone who gave their insight into my position. That door finally closed on me today :(. I was talking with Sarah today to find out what she was up to in which she replied "Nothing" this is after telling me she was busy the day before hand. I then straight up asked is she interested at all? which she replied "No".

 

I question her on why she wasn't straight forward with me much earlier she simply replied "Well you wern't really bothering me". After that I wished her well with life and unfriended her.

 

I will admit i'm pretty upset about the whole thing she admitted in her final messages that she was gonna let it drag out to which I realized she is not the type of person I would want to be with.

 

A few things I learnt:

 

1) No girl is busy for weeks on end if she declines 2 weeks in a row move on.

2) Girls will keep you around for nothing more then a txting buddy.

3) Don't put all your eggs in one basket that's how I ended up in this position.

 

I think it's best for me to hold off on dating for a few months now. I just turned 20 and only started dating at the begging of this year. I was able to get my first girlfriend have my first kiss and lose my virginity. By Thursday I will have slept with 3 different girls so all I can say is it's been a learning experience.

 

 

 

Sorry to hear about your let down.

 

 

1) You are rght. No one is that busy to fire off a quick text. If you can take a dump then you can find the time on the toilet to send a text. lol

 

 

2) Yes girls like attention so a text buddy or "back pocket boyfriend" is really good to keep them company and wanted.

 

 

3) Yes, look around even you are dating someone early. Its call playing the game and at aged 40. Im still on the game!

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Welcome to the desert....of the real.

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