Biscous Posted April 26, 2016 Posted April 26, 2016 So I went on a date with a girl last week. It was a fun date. Nothing awkward. I think she was trying to get comfortable with me. I know she divorced last year. So after the date she said she had fun and wanted to see me again. We kissed each other. I texted her and she gets back to me the next day. She seemed slightly disinterested so I asked her if she wanted to see me again. She said she had a real good time but didn't feel the romantic connection. I thought it was weird considering we did kiss. It wasn't forced. So I'm like cool. About 6 hours later she asks me what I'm doing. I end up hanging out with her and some friends. At the end of it I said I really like her, but I'm not sure where her head's at. She said "Well, keep in touch". Kiss on the lips again. I really think she is perhaps hesitant to move into anything given her divorce. It could be other factors but it is a slightly mixed response. Any thoughts?
carhill Posted April 26, 2016 Posted April 26, 2016 Here's the old fart .02..... 1. Don't ask a woman if she wants to see you again. Tell her you'd love to see her again and ask her on a date and accept the answer as real and final. 2. Don't hang out with women you want to date in groups. Dating is a one on one thing. 3. How do you know she divorced last year? Seen the dissolution order? 4. The confluence of what you shared has me opining 'back burner on simmer'. Just enough attention to keep you on warm to her contact should she desire another attention fix. I wouldn't mark her off with any extreme prejudice, rather accept business as usual and date other women. 2
Author Biscous Posted April 26, 2016 Author Posted April 26, 2016 Here's the old fart .02..... 1. Don't ask a woman if she wants to see you again. Tell her you'd love to see her again and ask her on a date and accept the answer as real and final. 2. Don't hang out with women you want to date in groups. Dating is a one on one thing. 3. How do you know she divorced last year? Seen the dissolution order? 4. The confluence of what you shared has me opining 'back burner on simmer'. Just enough attention to keep you on warm to her contact should she desire another attention fix. I wouldn't mark her off with any extreme prejudice, rather accept business as usual and date other women. This is a different girl than the one I met when I was out of town. The one I met while out of town the temperature with her is HOT HOT. This one in this thread I'm just lukewarm with. She mentioned the divorce to me and how they were 'friends'. It was very brief but I think I'm pretty perceptive of people. As for seeing her in a group, yep bad idea for me. I actually fought to control the situation as best as possible lol. Business as usual as you said.
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