Author Otter2569 Posted March 1, 2016 Author Share Posted March 1, 2016 Edgy, I am glad you liked it. Obviously there are a lot of great women out there of all ages. And of course everyone is a little different from the next. Just when you make a generalization along comes someone that changes that: Went out with a woman Ive known for a while (shes 52). We had hot sexting prior to the date and some over the top kissing and heavy petting after the date. You just never know...glad there are plenty of sexy women at all ages 1 Link to post Share on other sites
scorpiogirl Posted March 1, 2016 Share Posted March 1, 2016 Edgy, I am glad you liked it. Obviously there are a lot of great women out there of all ages. And of course everyone is a little different from the next. Just when you make a generalization along comes someone that changes that: Went out with a woman Ive known for a while (shes 52). We had hot sexting prior to the date and some over the top kissing and heavy petting after the date. You just never know...glad there are plenty of sexy women at all ages What is your obsession with sexting. It's so lowbrow. I'm in my 30s and wouldn't "sext" with a random casual date. I'm no prude and am sexually confident but you seem obsessed by the silliest things. 10 Link to post Share on other sites
joseb Posted March 1, 2016 Share Posted March 1, 2016 What is your obsession with sexting. It's so lowbrow. I'm in my 30s and wouldn't "sext" with a random casual date. I'm no prude and am sexually confident but you seem obsessed by the silliest things. Yeah i thought I was the only one wondering this. I don't get it. I mean. I've had a gf or two who liked it, and I played along. But honestly, I found it pretty boring. I would definitely not have any interest in doing it with someone I didn't know well. It would seen totally fake. Like calling one of those sex lines from the 90s. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
Summer3 Posted March 1, 2016 Share Posted March 1, 2016 This was an interesting thread for me, being in my early 40s, it was interesting to see the responses from all these fabulous 50 yo women and see that life can be great there too, thank you for that I'm 47 and I know 50 is just three years away. It seems like a really big number. I still think of my mom being in her 40's. I'm not sure how all of this happened. LOL Maybe, it's a joke. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Otter2569 Posted March 2, 2016 Author Share Posted March 2, 2016 Great point n the sexting. I really mean flirting vs hardcore sexting. It can obviously run the gammit depending on the people involved and your comfort level. I will flirt via text and throw out a few comments hoping to strike up a conversation but I make it a point never to cross the line or got hardcore. You bite or you don't in my opinion. Its just a way to build interest and learn about each other. The last person I went out with went to that next level but I also have a history with tem so not your usual situation. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Otter2569 Posted March 2, 2016 Author Share Posted March 2, 2016 Summer I hit 50 and the number still seems intimidating. I have to hear it and certainly don't feel like 50. Honesty I feel my best, have more fun and date more than ever. The number is scary, the fun is real - enjoy it! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Summer3 Posted March 2, 2016 Share Posted March 2, 2016 Summer I hit 50 and the number still seems intimidating. I have to hear it and certainly don't feel like 50. Honesty I feel my best, have more fun and date more than ever. The number is scary, the fun is real - enjoy it! Slow down yo...I'm 47. In fact, I am going to start growing younger. Next year I'm going to turn 43. A couple of years later I'll be 37. I'm a goddess don't ya know? 3 Link to post Share on other sites
BlueIris Posted March 2, 2016 Share Posted March 2, 2016 I have been listening/reading to a lot of Dr. Pay Allen's material. She discusses often studies from the 1960s and later about how women when they hit menopause stop producing as much estrogen. So they start acting a lot more like men. This also means they can have sex without the same level of attachment as younger women (and why you see cougars with boy toys). There is something else that helps the body deal with a lack of sex when that person hasn't had sex in awhile so that could be what you are experiencing with these women. But women peak sexually in their 40s. Men start producing more estrogen and less testosterone. So they actually become more emotional; less logic driven. They also start attaching during sex unlike when they are younger. There are some exceptions like left-handed men but most men will act more like younger women. That’s very interesting! I’m 55 and my girlfriends are all over 50. We’ve talked about how the over-50 guys we’ve dated have been much more attachment-oriented than we’ve been, for sure. It’s interesting to know that this is at least partially hormonal, maybe primarily. I’d thought it was about being empty-nested. Living alone for the first time in decades- no husband or kids (most of the time)- is so fantastic! Having a BF is more like a bonus, optional, than a necessity and the relationship has to be pretty fun to outweigh the benefits of complete freedom. The men I’ve dated have attached more, wanted to move in together, wanted to get married… just what you’re saying, Miss Peach. And here I’d thought that what OP is seeing as less aggressive (I can see that) is more ambivalence because we’re excited to be untethered. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Larryville Posted March 2, 2016 Share Posted March 2, 2016 The men I’ve dated have attached more, wanted to move in together, wanted to get married… Reminded me of an article I read… A Message For Men In Their 50s, From Single Women A Message For Men In Their 50s, From Single Women The one thing I keep hearing from women in their 50’s, their chief concern… health issues of the men they are dating... Many women I have dated, slightly older I’m 52, but my main target has to do with being with someone who lives a healthy active lifestyle, they go out, they have friends, maybe community interests in addition to having a “career” vs a job. They keep taking about being with dudes who just want to be taken care of and who are “unhealthy” and not active… physically or mentally. Goes back to article… Link to post Share on other sites
Lady2163 Posted March 2, 2016 Share Posted March 2, 2016 Reminded me of an article I read… A Message For Men In Their 50s, From Single Women A Message For Men In Their 50s, From Single Women The one thing I keep hearing from women in their 50’s, their chief concern… health issues of the men they are dating... Many women I have dated, slightly older I’m 52, but my main target has to do with being with someone who lives a healthy active lifestyle, they go out, they have friends, maybe community interests in addition to having a “career” vs a job. They keep taking about being with dudes who just want to be taken care of and who are “unhealthy” and not active… physically or mentally. Goes back to article… Good points in ten article, wish it was longer. I know I'm fat, I know I need to lose weight. When I've done OLD, the three things that turn me off about men my age and older: bad teeth, overweight and wearing a cap in all pictures. The first two deal with health and hygiene. I realize we're 50, we are past middle age. I know if I fall in love, get married I may someday have to take care of an ill spouse. I'd just rather it be later than sooner. Overweight brings on a whole bunch of health problems. Link to post Share on other sites
Dreamworld Posted March 2, 2016 Share Posted March 2, 2016 I have noticed that dating women who are over the age of 50 is different. I know I am generalizing and some of you will prove me wrong but my experience has been: They are more serious and less fun, are less aggressive, do not text or sext as much and sex seems to be less important. Just my observation / experience. A huge difference from women in their mid 40's. Well the over 50 that I know may not text or sext to my knowledge ( but I think that is more personal preference than age) but in terms of sex? They are having the time of their lives! One such woman actually told me that menopause was so liberating because she didn't have to worry about pregnancy anymore so all the spontaneous sex made her sex life soar more than when in her younger years when there was more to worry about. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
jen1447 Posted March 2, 2016 Share Posted March 2, 2016 I have noticed that dating women who are over the age of 50 is different. I know I am generalizing and some of you will prove me wrong but my experience has been: They are more serious and less fun, are less aggressive, do not text or sext as much and sex seems to be less important. Just my observation / experience. A huge difference from women in their mid 40's. Eh, I don't think there's anything to that. I've been w/some pretty sexually voracious women in their 50s. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Otter2569 Posted March 2, 2016 Author Share Posted March 2, 2016 Jen, I am sure you are right. For what ever reason, I tend to connect with / date women in their mid 40's. I often think "I hope this fun continues into their 50's". Glad to know that it does! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Otter2569 Posted May 26, 2016 Author Share Posted May 26, 2016 UPDATE: I am seeing a woman in her mid 50's who is the most sexual and sexually adventurous woman I have ever been with! The kind of woman that most men want: nice, professional and flirty during the day and an animal in bed. So told me that I can do anything I want sexually with her...and I am. It was worth the wait! 2 Link to post Share on other sites
jen1447 Posted May 26, 2016 Share Posted May 26, 2016 Glad you're having fun. What happened to the last one? Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted May 26, 2016 Share Posted May 26, 2016 I wouldn't expect anyone who was old enough to have a brain in their head to be sexting someone they were just dating. Many women are at their sexual peak in their 50s, but as they get older, they do get creaky and it becomes not as fun physically because of arthritis, etc. But yes, the parts still work fine. They're probably just tired if they're having to work two jobs like I am to pay the mortgage. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Otter2569 Posted May 27, 2016 Author Share Posted May 27, 2016 Jen, the last one: We ended up becoming like drinking buddies. There couldn't have been any less sexual chemistry. She was very outgoing and fun but ZERO romance or sex appeal. She cared more about playing golf than playing around. Link to post Share on other sites
jen1447 Posted May 27, 2016 Share Posted May 27, 2016 Jen, the last one: We ended up becoming like drinking buddies. There couldn't have been any less sexual chemistry. She was very outgoing and fun but ZERO romance or sex appeal. She cared more about playing golf than playing around. I must be thinking of someone else then ....I thought you'd done a lot of improvising etc. The anal girl? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Otter2569 Posted May 28, 2016 Author Share Posted May 28, 2016 Oh, the anal girl! Now I know who you mean! LOL You have a great memory!! She is the one that I am referring to as being over 50 and VERY sexual. Its like anything goes, raw, take me, kind of sex. Its very awesome. Plus there is no drama or BS which really is a bonus. It took me a little while to figure her out but with your help I learned that she likes guys who are more in charge which has turned out t be a lot of fun! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
thefooloftheyear Posted May 28, 2016 Share Posted May 28, 2016 I have been listening/reading to a lot of Dr. Pay Allen's material. She discusses often studies from the 1960s and later about how women when they hit menopause stop producing as much estrogen. So they start acting a lot more like men. This also means they can have sex without the same level of attachment as younger women (and why you see cougars with boy toys). There is something else that helps the body deal with a lack of sex when that person hasn't had sex in awhile so that could be what you are experiencing with these women. But women peak sexually in their 40s. Men start producing more estrogen and less testosterone. So they actually become more emotional; less logic driven. They also start attaching during sex unlike when they are younger. There are some exceptions like left-handed men but most men will act more like younger women. ridiculous... TFY Link to post Share on other sites
katiegrl Posted May 28, 2016 Share Posted May 28, 2016 (edited) ridiculous... TFY Dr. Pat Allen is a woman and just curious but are you a doctor? I have read studies in medical journals while in nursing school that mirror what Dr. Allen says. Also witnessed it in my own dad who became much softer and more sensitive as he got older. I am fairly certain it is a fact that testosterone levels decrease in men as they age. There are always exceptions of course. Edited May 28, 2016 by katiegrl Link to post Share on other sites
thefooloftheyear Posted May 28, 2016 Share Posted May 28, 2016 Dr. Pat Allen is a woman and just curious but are you a doctor? I have read studies in medical journals while in nursing school that mirror what Dr. Allen says. Also witnessed it in my own dad who became much softer and more sensitive as he got older. I am fairly certain it is a fact that testosterone levels decrease in men as they age. There are always exceptions of course. Who cares??...I was giving my own opinion...And what makes you think doctors know everything anyway? Great that your dad became a softie....The older I get the harder I get,....I've always been kind of a douchebag, now I am World Class...but I also have no dad bod or beer gut, and wouldn't know what a Viagra looked like if you put it on the table... Its just more anectdotal garbage, meant to feminize men...by a woman.....no surprise there... TFY Link to post Share on other sites
katiegrl Posted May 28, 2016 Share Posted May 28, 2016 (edited) Who cares??...I was giving my own opinion...And what makes you think doctors know everything anyway? Great that your dad became a softie....The older I get the harder I get,....I've always been kind of a douchebag, now I am World Class...but I also have no dad bod or beer gut, and wouldn't know what a Viagra looked like if you put it on the table... Its just more anectdotal garbage, meant to feminize men...by a woman.....no surprise there... TFY Good for you.... I said there are always exceptions dude no need to be so *sensitive* and defensive about it...... And just *my* opinion but I think your above post actually proves what Pat Allen suggests..... Trying to be the tough guy but really so so sensitive..... lol Chill.... Edited May 28, 2016 by katiegrl Link to post Share on other sites
thefooloftheyear Posted May 28, 2016 Share Posted May 28, 2016 Good for you.... I said there are always exceptions dude no need to be so *sensitive* and defensive about it...... And just *my* opinion but I think your above post actually proves what Pat Allen suggests..... Trying to be the tough guy but really so so sensitive..... lol Chill.... Sensitive??? over this?? lolz...... Nice try, though;) TFY Link to post Share on other sites
katiegrl Posted May 28, 2016 Share Posted May 28, 2016 Dr. Pat Allen is a woman and just curious but are you a doctor? I have read studies in medical journals while in nursing school that mirror what Dr. Allen says. Also witnessed it in my own dad who became much softer and more sensitive as he got older. I am fairly certain it is a fact that testosterone levels decrease in men as they age. There are always exceptions of course. Well let's put it this way TFY... a less sensitive man would not have taken ^^ this post so personally and become so defensive about it... as YOU did. And thanks for adding what a smoking bod you have, no beer gut. And that you don't need Viagra. That info was really relevant to the topic..... lol Too freakin funny. You are so transparent dude but whatevs .... Nuff said from me on that... but hey feel free to carry on if you wish..... Link to post Share on other sites
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