Author jesslindy Posted February 26, 2016 Author Share Posted February 26, 2016 Have we sat down in neutral ground? No. Have I conveyed these things before, albeit at different times? Yes. I told her to stop sending me pictures of our daughter and her, I told her I have a camera, and my relationship with my daughter is my own now, and it has nothing to do with her. I have told her that I can't talk to her for my own well being. You're right, I just need to sit her down and lay it all out one more time, all at once. I just think it's funny that someone can act like this. It's so sad and sorry. Link to post Share on other sites
Downtown Posted February 27, 2016 Share Posted February 27, 2016 It is a painful feeling to figure out, at 37, with two children, with two GIRLS, that I have never been loved, or been in love. Jess, although that painful feeling is very real, you don't have to believe it. Even ignoring the love that is exchanged between you and your girls, both you and your Ex apparently loved each other very much in the beginning. That is what you said in several posts at the beginning of this thread. Yet, if she has strong BPD traits as you suspect, she was only capable of loving you in the same limited way that a young child is able to love. It is not the mature type of love that is required to sustain a close LTR. Link to post Share on other sites
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