BettyDraper Posted February 9, 2016 Share Posted February 9, 2016 I don't think you're being selfish at all. You are clearly thinking of your wife. I agree with waiting until after the vacation. Might as well enjoy it. I hope that the biopsy turns out well for you. I had to have a liver tumor burnt away and the stress on my marriage was difficult; frequent MRIs, waiting for results and then the aftercare when the procedures were over. I still have the scars under my breast. The tumor was benign but very large and causing pain. Link to post Share on other sites
OneLov Posted February 10, 2016 Share Posted February 10, 2016 Like others have said, you know her best. But I'd consider waiting. Your protecting her from undue stress, that's not being unfair. It's one thing if you know for sure, but (hopefully) what if it's a scare? You will ruin your vacation when you should living life to the fullest. I truly hope for you and your family's sake it is truly just a scare. Link to post Share on other sites
dreamingoftigers Posted February 10, 2016 Share Posted February 10, 2016 How long until you know? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Mr. Lucky Posted February 10, 2016 Author Share Posted February 10, 2016 3 weeks. Doctor gone during that same time period... Mr. Lucky Link to post Share on other sites
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