Erdbeere Posted February 5, 2016 Posted February 5, 2016 Absolutely spot on, couldn't have said it better myself. Why this is so hard for people to understand is beyond me. If everyone acted the way you do dating would be a much nicer experience. Totally agree with both of you. That's how I conduct myself.
Reitteg813 Posted February 6, 2016 Posted February 6, 2016 Absolutely spot on, couldn't have said it better myself. Why this is so hard for people to understand is beyond me. If everyone acted the way you do dating would be a much nicer experience. Thank you. And yeah I don't know why it's so hard either. Technology, online dating, an increase in the amount of crappy, immature people, not sure. I can say that I've never ever just broken things off with someone by just ignoring. 1
hippychick3 Posted February 6, 2016 Posted February 6, 2016 What i never understood is this line of thinking. There is absolutely NOTHING "nice" about being inconsiderate and not being honest. What it is is easy and avoids doing something uncomfortable. It is selfish, which is also the opposite of nice. Amazes me that people actually convince themselves that they are being "too nice." That is called rationalization and justification of bad behavior. Um did you actually READ my post? If you did, you would have read that 1) I was never inconsiderate to anyone and 2) I WAS honest when I realized the men preferred that I be direct. I was married for a very long time and had been out of the dating world for awhile. It took some time for me to learn how to date and how to "reject" the right way. There was no rationalization of bad behavior. Please.
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