bluefeather Posted December 26, 2015 Posted December 26, 2015 I saw in an other thread that this girl posted she was doing that on purpose to send signals to a guy she was into. I'm not sure I ever thought about this before. Do some of you ladies do this to us guys on purpose? Because this has been done to me many times while girls seemingly have no idea that they are providing an easy opportunity to look down their shirts...
Ic1 Posted December 26, 2015 Posted December 26, 2015 I'm a man, but I'll let you know: OF COURSE THEY DO!!! Inevitably, that move will be an unplanned move in some instances. But there'll be more signals than just giving a sight of that line if their interested though. Body language. 1
losangelena Posted December 26, 2015 Posted December 26, 2015 I'm more of a "bend over to show my butt" kind of gal, but yes this is a thing that happens. 3
Amalyn Posted December 26, 2015 Posted December 26, 2015 I can honestly say I have never tried that. 3
AspenBaldwin Posted December 26, 2015 Posted December 26, 2015 Do guys sit on their nuts to seduce women? 10
Amalyn Posted December 26, 2015 Posted December 26, 2015 Do guys sit on their nuts to seduce women? lmao 1
truth_seeker Posted December 26, 2015 Posted December 26, 2015 Yes, they do this. If they have big breasts, they'll do the cleavage shots... if they're prouder of their a-- ... they'll bend over in front of you. All signs that they want to get it on with you.
sin miedo Posted December 26, 2015 Posted December 26, 2015 Definitely possible. Before I started dating my gf, she would "accidentally" press her boobs against me to get my attention. Not exactly the same but they are both actions that, if done right (i.e. subtlety, not just bending over), are immensely attractive to men.
Brapting Posted December 26, 2015 Posted December 26, 2015 I have to say, a girl that I am interested in seems to have been doing similar things recently. They are pretty big anyway, but I have noticed her pushing her chest out when talking to me face on. I even remember her looking down to her chest and rearranging her jumper...pulling it tight over her boobs, while talking to me. I suppose the behaviour could have been coincidence, but it definitely distracted me and got me thinking about certain things!
Jane_Tee_11 Posted December 26, 2015 Posted December 26, 2015 No.... or hardly never. I am a 34DDD, and I can tell you, too many men have thought this over the years, so the answer is: No, I do not buy my cloths with you in mind, I buy them based on style and comfort No, I do not pick things up off the floor, etc. with you in mind No, my mammary glands did not reach that size with you in mind Breasts are designed for feeding offspring, if they have been sexualized, then it is men who have sexualized them, and hence, men who "read into" what and why women do what they do with their breasts. Again, its not about you. I'm short, and I've caught men looking down my shirt before and straight up ask what they are doing, and get the answer "well, if you are going to put it out there, I'm going to look at it". Again, this is an attitude of male privilege, that the entire world is there for men's taking. That would be like me getting into a man's benz and saying, "well, if you are going to put it out there, I expect a ride to my boyfriend's house". The logic is just plain silly. 8
losangelena Posted December 26, 2015 Posted December 26, 2015 No.... or hardly never. I am a 34DDD, and I can tell you, too many men have thought this over the years, so the answer is: No, I do not buy my cloths with you in mind, I buy them based on style and comfort No, I do not pick things up off the floor, etc. with you in mind No, my mammary glands did not reach that size with you in mind Breasts are designed for feeding offspring, if they have been sexualized, then it is men who have sexualized them, and hence, men who "read into" what and why women do what they do with their breasts. Again, its not about you. I'm short, and I've caught men looking down my shirt before and straight up ask what they are doing, and get the answer "well, if you are going to put it out there, I'm going to look at it". Again, this is an attitude of male privilege, that the entire world is there for men's taking. That would be like me getting into a man's benz and saying, "well, if you are going to put it out there, I expect a ride to my boyfriend's house". The logic is just plain silly. Haha! Think I will try that next time.
Brapting Posted December 26, 2015 Posted December 26, 2015 No.... or hardly never. I am a 34DDD, and I can tell you, too many men have thought this over the years, so the answer is: No, I do not buy my cloths with you in mind, I buy them based on style and comfort No, I do not pick things up off the floor, etc. with you in mind No, my mammary glands did not reach that size with you in mind Breasts are designed for feeding offspring, if they have been sexualized, then it is men who have sexualized them, and hence, men who "read into" what and why women do what they do with their breasts. Again, its not about you. I'm short, and I've caught men looking down my shirt before and straight up ask what they are doing, and get the answer "well, if you are going to put it out there, I'm going to look at it". Again, this is an attitude of male privilege, that the entire world is there for men's taking. That would be like me getting into a man's benz and saying, "well, if you are going to put it out there, I expect a ride to my boyfriend's house". The logic is just plain silly. If all of this were true, wouldn't it be logical that some savvy women would use their 'assets' to their advantage. For example, woman likes man, woman knows that man probably likes boobs and cleavage, woman shows/draws attention to her boobs and cleavage to encourage the man/flirt with him/get noticed sexually by him. A woman wouldn't have agree with the man's interpretation of boobs and cleavage...she would just have to recognize it and know how to use it to her advantage. 1
Author bluefeather Posted December 26, 2015 Author Posted December 26, 2015 see a lot of guys answering for women, but you are only guessing. I am looking for real confirmation from ladies...
Brapting Posted December 26, 2015 Posted December 26, 2015 Well, duh. Most things women do is to garner male attention. ...within the context of talking to a male that they are interested in/attracted to
newmoon Posted December 26, 2015 Posted December 26, 2015 the only guys who would ask this, or think this, are guys who are very young, immature, or think every little movement a woman makes is a sexual one directed right at them for the purpose of seduction. no doubt some women use this as a tactic, but i'd venture a guess that most mature women aren't bending down just for your viewing pleasure. 6
Amalyn Posted December 26, 2015 Posted December 26, 2015 Well, duh. Most things women do is to garner male attention. Only the ones with low self-esteem and zero confidence. 1
losangelena Posted December 26, 2015 Posted December 26, 2015 the only guys who would ask this, or think this, are guys who are very young, immature, or think every little movement a woman makes is a sexual one directed right at them for the purpose of seduction. no doubt some women use this as a tactic, but i'd venture a guess that most mature women aren't bending down just for your viewing pleasure. Really, though? Even if it's a guy you like or one you're seeing? You've never sort of bent over playfully? I mean obviously, I wouldn't do that to some random dude in a coffee shop or something, but as a flirty tactic to someone I'm dating? I knew that without fail, if I bent over in front of my ex, I'd get a playful little slap in the rear. That was fun. I don't think it's immature at all to appreciate someone's body. 2
smackie9 Posted December 26, 2015 Posted December 26, 2015 Only the ones with low self-esteem and zero confidence. Oh hell no that is so not true. All women do all kinds of different moves to get a man's attention....it's in our genetic code. One of them is called the bend and snap. We also do the hair flip, mirroring, etc. 3
Amalyn Posted December 26, 2015 Posted December 26, 2015 Oh hell no that is so not true. All women do all kinds of different moves to get a man's attention....it's in our genetic code. One of them is called the bend and snap. We also do the hair flip, mirroring, etc. I was more or less referring to the fact they said everything women do is for men's attention. Not referring to flirting.
alphamale Posted December 26, 2015 Posted December 26, 2015 Do some of you ladies do this to us guys on purpose? of course they do, women are much more aware of their bodies than men are
CarrieT Posted December 26, 2015 Posted December 26, 2015 \ All women do all kinds of different moves to get a man's attention....it's in our genetic code. One of them is called the bend and snap. We also do the hair flip, mirroring, etc. Oh, puleeeeeze. Not all of us do this. Some of us are just genetically well-endowed and short of wearing turtlenecks, can't HELP but show cleavage. It doesn't mean we are trying to get mens' attention - it may just mean we are warm and don't want to wear body armor to hide our bodies. :rolleyes: 3
newmoon Posted December 26, 2015 Posted December 26, 2015 Really, though? Even if it's a guy you like or one you're seeing? You've never sort of bent over playfully? I mean obviously, I wouldn't do that to some random dude in a coffee shop or something, but as a flirty tactic to someone I'm dating? I knew that without fail, if I bent over in front of my ex, I'd get a playful little slap in the rear. That was fun. I don't think it's immature at all to appreciate someone's body. i did say some women use it as a thing. have i? no. with a boyfriend? sure. with a random cute guy or just for some attention? no.
Wewon Posted December 26, 2015 Posted December 26, 2015 That would be like me getting into a man's benz and saying, "well, if you are going to put it out there, I expect a ride to my boyfriend's house". The logic is just plain silly. A better (and less angry, foaming at the mouth) analogy would be the assumption that a guy bought a fancy car in hopes of getting women's attention. The closest analogy to what you're proposing (actually physically climbing into that car) would be some version of assault. People go to great lengths to me noticed, you still should keep your hands to yourself.
losangelena Posted December 26, 2015 Posted December 26, 2015 i did say some women use it as a thing. have i? no. with a boyfriend? sure. with a random cute guy or just for some attention? no. OK, me too. I was just asking for clarification, not tryna jump down your throat. 1
Brapting Posted December 26, 2015 Posted December 26, 2015 Lets not turn this into a discussion of feminist theory with a commentary on its influences on today's society.
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