van smack Posted December 13, 2015 Posted December 13, 2015 If an ex girlfriend who I broke up with a few months ago is always logged in on an online dating site, and when she broke up with me she said had another guy she wanted to date more than me, do you think I should contact her over Xmas by phone call or text to see if she might be interested in meeting up again?
Samhain Posted December 13, 2015 Posted December 13, 2015 If an ex girlfriend who I broke up with a few months ago is always logged in on an online dating site, and when she broke up with me she said had another guy she wanted to date more than me, do you think I should contact her over Xmas by phone call or text to see if she might be interested in meeting up again? No. Not at all.
Scarlett.O'hara Posted December 13, 2015 Posted December 13, 2015 If you are referring to this girl, http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/559818-online-dating-breakup-how-get-girl-back she wasn't actually your girlfriend was she? She was a girl you went on one date with. It was her decision to not take things further with you. If you were to contact her, you would be appear desperate. I'm sorry to sound harsh but that is the honest truth. You don't want to be used as an in between guy while she looks for a better option. You sound like a decent guy, and deserve better than that. If she regrets her decision to not see you again then she has to be the one to contact you and ask for another chance. I personally think it would be unwise to go there again, but if you do I wish you all the best. Keep your options open. I think there is a better match out there for you.
Author van smack Posted December 13, 2015 Author Posted December 13, 2015 Actually it was someone else not the girl I was referring to in a previous post.
Scarlett.O'hara Posted December 13, 2015 Posted December 13, 2015 She texted me saying she had been with another guy ALLEGEDLY(but she's always signed on to match.com it seems like when i've seen her on there) and she wanted to date him exclusively Sorry, my mistake. I read the above in the previous thread and it sounded like the situation you described in this one so I thought it was the same woman. My advice remains the same for either woman. She needs to indicate genuine interest in you and make the effort. I still think you can do better though.
Wewon Posted December 13, 2015 Posted December 13, 2015 If an ex girlfriend who I broke up with a few months ago is always logged in on an online dating site, and when she broke up with me she said had another guy she wanted to date more than me, do you think I should contact her over Xmas by phone call or text to see if she might be interested in meeting up again? No, she's not interested and you will likely regret putting yourself out there.
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