Buddhist Posted December 11, 2015 Posted December 11, 2015 She saw me at the gym today. She stopped and said “Hi” as she was walking I said “Hi” back friendly and energetic. She said “how’s it goin’?” she stopped pivoted back at me and did a double take at me. I think she was surprised and the positivity. She looked like she wanted to talk. It went well and felt really good. I think it is savable. No negativity at all. It gave me an adrenaline spike. I look forward to catching up on the Twilight drama next year when the staring contest continues. 2
Author Sdives Posted December 11, 2015 Author Posted December 11, 2015 You've been a jerk, you know that and she knows that. I dont understand why she still likes you ? No I haven't she is still positively responding to me.
Author Sdives Posted December 11, 2015 Author Posted December 11, 2015 I look forward to catching up on the Twilight drama next year when the staring contest continues. Im going to turn this around.
Author Sdives Posted December 11, 2015 Author Posted December 11, 2015 What makes this girl so special that you cant let the poor thing alone?If its her body, the gyms are packed with them ! She's not being harassed by me. My goal is to fix this, I will drop it then come after her
Glitters Posted December 12, 2015 Posted December 12, 2015 She's not being harassed by me. My goal is to fix this, I will drop it then come after her Not saying that you are harassing her ! You are confusing her to no end. While women mature faster than men but if she is inexperienced then she has no clue as to whats happening between you two, if at all. If you really feel that you rejected her accidentely, then you have to re attract her , treating her special , respectful and since you are older and probably more experienced than her, your behavior should itself erase the past mistakes you did. Since she is still entertaining your advances, she really does like you but will have a hard time trusting you and your intentions. What are your intentions,anywho?
TheTraveler Posted December 12, 2015 Posted December 12, 2015 What are your intentions,anywho? He's a 35 year old man wanting to bang a 21 year old.
Scarlett.O'hara Posted December 12, 2015 Posted December 12, 2015 Actually she is still 20 according to what he said. 20 almost 21.Immature somewhat yes. A 15 year age gap is significant age gap at her age, not to mention she said she is dealing with some mental health issues. It would be wrong to play games with her. He is right to back off and let her set the pace she is comfortable with. 1
Author Sdives Posted December 12, 2015 Author Posted December 12, 2015 Actually she is still 20 according to what he said. A 15 year age gap is significant age gap at her age, not to mention she said she is dealing with some mental health issues. It would be wrong to play games with her. He is right to back off and let her set the pace she is comfortable with. It might not be mental health. It could be a line Im not sure
Author Sdives Posted December 12, 2015 Author Posted December 12, 2015 Not saying that you are harassing her ! You are confusing her to no end. While women mature faster than men but if she is inexperienced then she has no clue as to whats happening between you two, if at all. If you really feel that you rejected her accidentely, then you have to re attract her , treating her special , respectful and since you are older and probably more experienced than her, your behavior should itself erase the past mistakes you did. Since she is still entertaining your advances, she really does like you but will have a hard time trusting you and your intentions. What are your intentions,anywho? She seems really good overall. My intentions are to do the best I can. But this was a mistake it was no intentional to hurt her. If I knew it would I wouldn't not have done it. Yes, I want to re-attract her. Thats the whole point of this thread. Last we spoke, she said hi I said hi and I was super nice and outgoing-like manner.She stopped pivoted back to me it looks she was going to say something then did a double take at me and continued off. I say this because it wasn't negative body language. I dont have a history of messing with people/ women or doing a 180 on people I just don't. This was a complete accident. Nothing happened that would change my mind about her.
Author Sdives Posted December 12, 2015 Author Posted December 12, 2015 He's a 35 year old man wanting to bang a 21 year old. Sure, But I genuinely want to get to know her. Im not just trying to sleep with her. She was really enthusiastic about me and I was about her too.
Author Sdives Posted December 12, 2015 Author Posted December 12, 2015 Not saying that you are harassing her ! You are confusing her to no end. While women mature faster than men but if she is inexperienced then she has no clue as to whats happening between you two, if at all. If you really feel that you rejected her accidentely, then you have to re attract her , treating her special , respectful and since you are older and probably more experienced than her, your behavior should itself erase the past mistakes you did. Since she is still entertaining your advances, she really does like you but will have a hard time trusting you and your intentions. What are your intentions,anywho? I am not trying to confuse her. Again- this was an accident and I want to get this back on the right track. I had no intentions of hurting her none and I still don't. I'm super attracted to her and she has some great personality qualities so far.She's far better than others I have met in the past from what I know so far about her.
truth_seeker Posted December 12, 2015 Posted December 12, 2015 Actually she is still 20 according to what he said. A 15 year age gap is significant age gap at her age, not to mention she said she is dealing with some mental health issues. It would be wrong to play games with her. He is right to back off and let her set the pace she is comfortable with. I'm in my 30s and do not feel comfortable messing with women who could still be in school. I say 25 is fine as usually women are mature at this age.
winny Posted December 13, 2015 Posted December 13, 2015 I seriously hope the girl finds someone close to her age soon 1
Author Sdives Posted December 13, 2015 Author Posted December 13, 2015 Actually she is still 20 according to what he said. A 15 year age gap is significant age gap at her age, not to mention she said she is dealing with some mental health issues. It would be wrong to play games with her. He is right to back off and let her set the pace she is comfortable with. I'm not making this up I honestly want to fix this. I don't think she wants to bail just yet. Her body language the other day was blatant. I can match her pace its no problem for me.
Author Sdives Posted December 13, 2015 Author Posted December 13, 2015 I seriously hope the girl finds someone close to her age soon Its not like I killed the dog or hooked up with her sister. I have no negative intentions with her.
Author Sdives Posted December 13, 2015 Author Posted December 13, 2015 Not saying that you are harassing her ! You are confusing her to no end. While women mature faster than men but if she is inexperienced then she has no clue as to whats happening between you two, if at all. If you really feel that you rejected her accidentely, then you have to re attract her , treating her special , respectful and since you are older and probably more experienced than her, your behavior should itself erase the past mistakes you did. Since she is still entertaining your advances, she really does like you but will have a hard time trusting you and your intentions. What are your intentions,anywho? I never stopped liking her, but she might think I have and am constantly changing my mind on her. I need to fix this.
kitty12345 Posted December 13, 2015 Posted December 13, 2015 Dude, I'm on holiday and since you said you have posted this on many other forums, I googled and found you ! You have been posting the same exact thing since 2008 on the other forum ! 1
Buddhist Posted December 13, 2015 Posted December 13, 2015 Dude, I'm on holiday and since you said you have posted this on many other forums, I googled and found you ! You have been posting the same exact thing since 2008 on the other forum ! So.....she's 29 now? Oh the twilight saga continues.... But I have to commend her dedication to staying with the same gym all that time.
kitty12345 Posted December 13, 2015 Posted December 13, 2015 I cant send you PM for some reason its not enabled for me , but you google the same exact title of his post
Buddhist Posted December 13, 2015 Posted December 13, 2015 I cant send you PM for some reason its not enabled for me , but you google the same exact title of his post I believe you. :bunny: Now watch this thread go radio silent. I'm quite disappointed the OP has no new material since 2008. 1
Author Sdives Posted December 13, 2015 Author Posted December 13, 2015 Dude, I'm on holiday and since you said you have posted this on many other forums, I googled and found you ! You have been posting the same exact thing since 2008 on the other forum ! No that was years ago. I moved a few times. I live in a new city bought a new place, found a new job. Things have changed. This is totally unrelated to that. That was a different city, that was a different person. This person is not that person.
kitty12345 Posted December 13, 2015 Posted December 13, 2015 Come on dude ! Then also it was a girl working in gym and even now a girl working in gym.Then also you were trying to make a rapport, even now you are trying to make a rapport. They 'both' are sitting at the same desk even ! Both are looking at you. Stop it man !
Author Sdives Posted December 13, 2015 Author Posted December 13, 2015 Come on dude ! Then also it was a girl working in gym and even now a girl working in gym.Then also you were trying to make a rapport, even now you are trying to make a rapport. They 'both' are sitting at the same desk even ! Both are looking at you. Stop it man ! This is not the same person. This is a totally different thing altogether . This is very real, I do want to get this girl back. Back in 2008 in a different city I was hesitant but I knew I was going to move the next year so I did not bother in the end.
winny Posted December 13, 2015 Posted December 13, 2015 Wow interesting turn of events here... Haha 1
Author Sdives Posted December 13, 2015 Author Posted December 13, 2015 Wow interesting turn of events here... Haha Not really Its just another gym crush. This one I like the most of all. I hope I can swing it around. Her body language is very friendly still.
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