Zippy2000 Posted November 26, 2015 Posted November 26, 2015 How many dates do I go on a year? It depends if they say YES when I ask them out.
Shanex Posted November 26, 2015 Posted November 26, 2015 Depends how actively you use dating sites. When it comes to OLD I get tired/jaded of it every few months... Because of rejection and even more flakiness... My record in a year must be set at 10/12 and consider Im rather selective and not desperate. If there was a ratio Id say 1/4 to 1/5 of these end up on Relationship or casual/fwb or One night stand if you are up for these. On a bad year Ill get 2/3 dates leading to nothing. (Again only mentioning OLD and not real life dates/encounters)
littlez360 Posted November 27, 2015 Posted November 27, 2015 It's difficult for me to answer this... When I'm single, I end up on a lot of dates just because I like meeting new women and playing the field. But sometimes I get caught up in something special. I guess I typically "date" on average of like 5 girls between serious relationships. I may "sleep" with 10 or so between serious relationships. LOL, its really hard to say. It's inconsistent. There's been months where I went crazy at that clubs and bars. Then there's been months where I just wanted to be single and go fishing. I would hate to try to think of a total number of dates I've been on, and I would really hate to try to think of a total number of women I've slept with just to divide those numbers by the number of years I've been dating women.
littlez360 Posted November 27, 2015 Posted November 27, 2015 The last time I tried to count how many girls I slept with I became very disturbed and knew I was only remembering about half of them...
Xiomn Posted November 27, 2015 Posted November 27, 2015 The last time I tried to count how many girls I slept with I became very disturbed and knew I was only remembering about half of them... Share the tips brah.
littlez360 Posted November 27, 2015 Posted November 27, 2015 Share the tips brah. Lots of confidence and lots of trial and error. In a way it becomes just natural after you've learned all the signals. Women are very complex, but you can keep it simple and just show them a good time, make them laugh, keep them interested and your golden... It certainly helps to take care of your appearance and hygiene. But being honest, upfront, and confident are the keys... Stand out at the bar. Be the social butterfly. Take up a lot of space when you are with multiple people. Appear to be the Alpha male in every situation. Again "brah", confidence, trial and error.
littlez360 Posted November 27, 2015 Posted November 27, 2015 You'll sometimes feel like a douchebag in the eyes of guys around you, but when the hot blonde at the bar that night is wrapped in a sheet the next morning looking around YOUR room for her clothes, you don't really care what other guys think.
shoplocal Posted November 28, 2015 Posted November 28, 2015 Wow! Lots of active daters here. I attract almost no men. Last year I went on 1-2 dates, ditto for the year before. 2015 I've been on no dates. Largely because I still don't attract men, but partially also because I'm really sick of the dating game. (Most likely because I'm unable to play it, hah.)
AspenBaldwin Posted November 28, 2015 Posted November 28, 2015 This year? Honestly?... ..Zero Umm, lol, yes honestly. Bare with me I'm from another country.
littlez360 Posted November 28, 2015 Posted November 28, 2015 OLD? What is that? Is it like LSD? OLD= Online dating (I didn't catch this at first either) I love the relation to LSD though... lol 1
AspenBaldwin Posted November 28, 2015 Posted November 28, 2015 OLD= Online dating (I didn't catch this at first either) I love the relation to LSD though... lol Thank you (hug) I feel so silly now for asking.
littlez360 Posted November 28, 2015 Posted November 28, 2015 I can see the confusion... *Guy meets girl on LSD and is totally confused... *Poster's responses "This can be expected" All adds up LSD=Something like OLD
brokengirl85 Posted November 28, 2015 Posted November 28, 2015 I don't really remember, but my guess is about 10/15 dates. First dates. If I were more active and less selective, I could have 2 dates every weekend, but this is with guys I might not be that interested. Overall, I could have 4 a month if I'd were really looking. I consider myself a little over above average in looks.
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