Popsicle Posted November 19, 2015 Share Posted November 19, 2015 oh.........um......... so both sexes should be very experienced before making any commitment? to be fair and square? I was trying to stress the idea that they THINK of themselves as inexperienced. Or even that they think about it at all. I believe that many inexperienced people don't think about themselves being inexperienced at all. They just live their life. Thinking about it is the problem. Link to post Share on other sites
loveflower Posted November 19, 2015 Share Posted November 19, 2015 I was trying to stress the idea that they THINK of themselves as inexperienced. Or even that they think about it at all. I believe that many inexperienced people don't think about themselves being inexperienced at all. They just live their life. Thinking about it is the problem. Thanks for the explanation. I have a problem with very experienced men. I think that's yucky. so after this post, actually that's a good thing? I am inexperienced because I am very old-schooled and picky, not because I don't have the needs or nobody wants me. I am wondering if I will have the same issue as OP down the road? I shouldn't have problem 'gaining' experience, I supposed? as it seems I am OK in look. Link to post Share on other sites
Author natwilliams Posted November 25, 2015 Author Share Posted November 25, 2015 Thanks everyone for all the feedback. I decided not to fool around with anyone, and really be a good boyfriend. If things don't go well when I visit her this winter, that's one story. But I would rather channel all my pent up sexual energy to her, which is more loyal and more exciting that way anyway. Thanks for letting me think this through! 5 Link to post Share on other sites
Imported Posted November 25, 2015 Share Posted November 25, 2015 (edited) You are not serious if you think about cheating. Edited November 25, 2015 by Imported unless you have no morals Link to post Share on other sites
dichotomy Posted November 25, 2015 Share Posted November 25, 2015 Its hard to equate quality and quantity and loss of experiences. My fist major love - turned out to be all the "sexual" experiences I would ever need or want - but I did not see it. Some how I figured all women would be like her or better sexually. I was wrong. It was not about her body, but about her sexual appetite and how strongly she felt about me. Gasoline on a fire. Good plan you have to wait a while longer and see how it pans out. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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