Gloria25 Posted October 12, 2015 Posted October 12, 2015 I sorta am asking this cuz of the recent thread here: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/552622-you-low-value-man I know that sometimes you can't judge a person's past cuz some of us, like grow up, become more worldly, gain confidence, etc. But, a guy's history of women he's dated/found interesting attractive a big issue for you? Do you think if he dated so-and-so of trash and/or dumb, and/or bleh, is he capable of seeing better for himself or is a lost cause. Especially if he's in his 30's and still making stupid/unsavory choices in women? I mean, I've dated some idiots - but I believe that I've learned a thing or two and strive to do better for myself. Praying that's the case with some guys:confused: I mean, I dated a guy a while back who had two bad marriages under his belt but was acting funny towards me. Sometimes I wonder if he felt uncomfy cuz I wasn't either of his exes (both terrible women).
chumble Posted October 12, 2015 Posted October 12, 2015 Hmm, so women will wonder about a guy who dated below his potential? (Yea, I understand if was really trashy...) Yet they also wonder about a guy dating above, or who (worst of all) did not date at all. I feel the need to lie about my lack of relationships, or just say it's a topic for much later.
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