Blanco Posted October 7, 2015 Share Posted October 7, 2015 Then end it? Life is too short to waste time in relationships you KNOW aren't going anywhere. Link to post Share on other sites
Mrlovahlovah Posted October 8, 2015 Share Posted October 8, 2015 yeah, well, as i said, you can go the extra mile on your part but if you've tried so many times before and you utterly have no belief this guy is going to change and he's comfortable just repeatedly accusing you of emotional cheating. then there's no point to this is there? you could try a last resort approach, some sort of ultimatum, telling him you love him but you're tired of having to prove it on daily basis, and if he's not going to accept it you might as well break up. maybe the fear of breaking up will set some sort of change in motion. anyway, good luck. don't let this drag. Link to post Share on other sites
thunder777 Posted October 8, 2015 Share Posted October 8, 2015 he feels threatened by the notion that a previous stronger love (stronger cos it went for many years) is still connected to you. your ex still has instant access to your current life by still being friends on fb and he can indulge his curiosities and spy on you anytime he pleases your current bf probably hates this idea, and believes your his girl and no other man whos been intimate with you should have any piece of your pie. no matter how small it is in reality, id say your current bf, is protective, loves you very deeply, and doesnt want to lose you in anyway, like he has lost badly by the former girlfriend. free his mind so he doesnt have to feel that he is competing against ex-boyfriends who he believes are still in your life the photos in the cupboards, he needs to grow up and accept those are your memories and happy times in your life but i think you should sit him down and say youre willing to compromise, and deny ex-lovers into your current world, remove them from your fb, but you refuse to throw away treasured memories, because those moments made you who you are today Link to post Share on other sites
Author treehugger101 Posted October 8, 2015 Author Share Posted October 8, 2015 he feels threatened by the notion that a previous stronger love (stronger cos it went for many years) is still connected to you. your ex still has instant access to your current life by still being friends on fb and he can indulge his curiosities and spy on you anytime he pleases your current bf probably hates this idea, and believes your his girl and no other man whos been intimate with you should have any piece of your pie. no matter how small it is in reality, id say your current bf, is protective, loves you very deeply, and doesnt want to lose you in anyway, like he has lost badly by the former girlfriend. free his mind so he doesnt have to feel that he is competing against ex-boyfriends who he believes are still in your life the photos in the cupboards, he needs to grow up and accept those are your memories and happy times in your life but i think you should sit him down and say youre willing to compromise, and deny ex-lovers into your current world, remove them from your fb, but you refuse to throw away treasured memories, because those moments made you who you are today I NEVER HAD MY EX-BOYFRIEND AS A FRIEND ON FACEBOOK. I blocked him and then unblocked him. The only thing I ever did was "LOOK" at his page. WE HAVE NOT TALKED SINCE WE BROKE UP 4 YEARS AGO. Link to post Share on other sites
thunder777 Posted October 9, 2015 Share Posted October 9, 2015 well your bf is a wack job then id be hiding them photos or if this argument doesnt find a solution he might end up burning them haha Link to post Share on other sites
Author treehugger101 Posted October 10, 2015 Author Share Posted October 10, 2015 Well him and I talked everything over and all is well. Link to post Share on other sites
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