sickandtiredOfex Posted August 29, 2015 Share Posted August 29, 2015 I've many things the man I was seeing had done to me post breakup The worst was showing me a video on his phone of him having sex with his new girlfriend. Horrible! My hearts breaking and he does something like that.. Not before taking money from my purse. So what's the worst an ex has done to you? Link to post Share on other sites
StalwartMind Posted August 29, 2015 Share Posted August 29, 2015 Nothing, I've actually only had relationships with decent women. So why am I posting, well everyone needs someone to dislike at times, so bring it on ya chums! I'm terribly sorry your ex did that, people have an amazing ability to do the most hurtful things, no one decent deserve to be experience such. Link to post Share on other sites
Unlucky_I_Guess Posted August 29, 2015 Share Posted August 29, 2015 Got pregnant 3 months after the breakup by the guy she left me for. Not done against me directly, but it did show me how little of a sh*t our 5 year relationship meant to her. Link to post Share on other sites
Clarence_Boddicker Posted August 29, 2015 Share Posted August 29, 2015 Lied. Tried to convince me I did & said things I didn't in the relationship. Conned me for money. Tried conning me for more money after I cut her off. Link to post Share on other sites
DexterLS Posted August 29, 2015 Share Posted August 29, 2015 Sent me photos of her with the other guy. Refused to give my engagement ring back until 5-6 months out, and I only got it after I lawyered up. Link to post Share on other sites
Marc878 Posted August 29, 2015 Share Posted August 29, 2015 I've many things the man I was seeing had done to me post breakup The worst was showing me a video on his phone of him having sex with his new girlfriend. Horrible! My hearts breaking and he does something like that.. Not before taking money from my purse. So what's the worst an ex has done to you? Damn! I think we have a winner here. Link to post Share on other sites
jen1447 Posted August 29, 2015 Share Posted August 29, 2015 Wasn't me but a friend of mine was publicly mocked by her exBF when she was down for the count. (He dumped her and she took it really bad, and the mocking was pretty extensive.) He got some re-education and then there was no more mocking. OP, sounds like you ex needed some of the same. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
DexterLS Posted August 29, 2015 Share Posted August 29, 2015 Sent me photos of her with the other guy. Refused to give my engagement ring back until 5-6 months out, and I only got it after I lawyered up. Oh and in the case of my ex, when I lawyered up, she lost her job which she loved so dearly. I felt really guilty about it, but I do think she totally deserved it. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Gloria25 Posted August 30, 2015 Share Posted August 30, 2015 The guy who left me for the town ho? He took e-mails and IMs (yes, he saved IMs I had with him) and gave it to people I worked with. Jerk... 1 Link to post Share on other sites
newmoon Posted August 30, 2015 Share Posted August 30, 2015 spread lies to my co-workers about our relationship, knowing full-well they'd get back to me... because.. dumb me.. i had a relationship with a co-worker. Link to post Share on other sites
lollipopspot Posted August 30, 2015 Share Posted August 30, 2015 I've many things the man I was seeing had done to me post breakup The worst was showing me a video on his phone of him having sex with his new girlfriend. Horrible! My hearts breaking and he does something like that.. Not before taking money from my purse. So what's the worst an ex has done to you? Actually, he just did something worse to his new girlfriend than he did to you. Any chance you can contact the new girlfriend and let her know he's showing porn of her to people? She really ought to know, and I hope that he doesn't have any porn of you too. This is how exes wind up on porn sites against their knowledge and will. Link to post Share on other sites
Woggle Posted August 30, 2015 Share Posted August 30, 2015 She shot at me. Link to post Share on other sites
Marc878 Posted August 30, 2015 Share Posted August 30, 2015 She shot at me. Uh maybe I jumped the gun a bit??? Wow 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Gloria25 Posted August 30, 2015 Share Posted August 30, 2015 She shot at me. Oh gosh, I forgot about your ex - the doughnut store bandit... BTW, not sure if "liking" a post here would be proper message board manners:confused:- mean, this is a tread about the worst someone did to you 1 Link to post Share on other sites
craw Posted August 30, 2015 Share Posted August 30, 2015 Oh and in the case of my ex, when I lawyered up, she lost her job which she loved so dearly. I felt really guilty about it, but I do think she totally deserved it. What the hell were you going to do with an used engagement ring? You sounded like a nightmare to break up with and she lost her job. Jeez. Link to post Share on other sites
regine_phalange Posted August 30, 2015 Share Posted August 30, 2015 They convinced me to reconcile. 5 Link to post Share on other sites
The Poster Posted August 31, 2015 Share Posted August 31, 2015 They convinced me to reconcile. Ha! I was going to say something like this too. My first gf broke up with me, then some months later begged for reconciliation. Then walked away again a few weeks into it. Completely screwed me up. I was feeling fine until the "second chance" came and went. I was a zombie for a long time after that. Link to post Share on other sites
The Poster Posted August 31, 2015 Share Posted August 31, 2015 What the hell were you going to do with an used engagement ring? You sounded like a nightmare to break up with and she lost her job. Jeez. Seriously? Do you know how expensive engagement rings are? I think any guy would want it back so they can sell it and get some money out of it. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Vercetti Posted August 31, 2015 Share Posted August 31, 2015 Got shocked I did not fall for thier games, then astounded how quickly the gloves come off...finally try something pathetic after I've beyond moved on. Lol like a snarky wow married already from ex or a bitchy congratulations when I moved to a new city and she is stuck in a dump. The horror the horror...wait, I'm the bad guy....never mind. Link to post Share on other sites
Vercetti Posted August 31, 2015 Share Posted August 31, 2015 Seriously? Do you know how expensive engagement rings are? I think any guy would want it back so they can sell it and get some money out of it.[/quote What 5% - 10% what they the greater fool paid. Link to post Share on other sites
njoylife Posted August 31, 2015 Share Posted August 31, 2015 She was blackmailing me with something that could have cost my job, she was threatening to bring it to the company I work for. It lasted an entire week. Link to post Share on other sites
todreaminblue Posted August 31, 2015 Share Posted August 31, 2015 threatened to take the girls away from me and i would never seen them again that i was a ****e mum and dont deserve them...that i was mental.....i was in a psyche ward at the time battling clinical depression...he told me that over my designated phone call...he has since said he should never have said that and apologised for all the crappy things he has said to me....so .....i forgave him..and i feel much better with having forgiven him..deb Link to post Share on other sites
sportygirl89 Posted August 31, 2015 Share Posted August 31, 2015 All I wanted was closure. He moved here to essentially be with me. He walked out on me while I was sick. Then refused to tell me the reason of the break up. He essentially humiliated me every way possible. Trashing me on Facebook (friends told me that) when all I wanted was closure. Three days before the break up my EMT agency was near potentially an explosive fire had anything happened it would have caught my agency on fire. He ignored me when I told him I was safe ( break up had not happened yet). He actually went on a guys weekend. Still to this day I'm pretty certain his best friend ( bachelor type of guy) convinced him to be single. Night before break up we were supposed to go out to dinner with this couple and he stood me up, no text to even tell me he wasn't coming. Waitor felt so bad he gave me one of their summer glasses for free. I told my ex he needed to come over. Next day he came over and just ended things. When I asked him why he would not give me a reason. Then after break up he became a vindicative person. Literally called me every name in the book. Needless to say I've gone out on dates but can't seem to date anyone seriously because of what my ex did. Funny thing he said he a person couldn't fall in love in four months. He is engaged to a girl who he had only dated for four months. My guess is she's pregnant. So so glad it is not me. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
craw Posted September 1, 2015 Share Posted September 1, 2015 (edited) Seriously? Do you know how expensive engagement rings are? I think any guy would want it back so they can sell it and get some money out of it. There's absolutely no reason to be spending an obscene amount of money on an engagement ring. This is the result of brilliant brain washing brand marketing by advertising. A simple gold or silver band is sufficient. Also, from what I've read recently there isn't a huge resale value on it. Who would want an used engagement ring? It's carrying bad energy. If any woman questions it, clearly shows her values. If you can't afford the value of the ring. Don't buy it. Edited September 1, 2015 by craw 1 Link to post Share on other sites
MissBee Posted September 1, 2015 Share Posted September 1, 2015 (edited) For the most part most of my relationships have ended without anything really bad happening after. One ex though, he called me after we broke up (I still wanted to get back together) and asked if I wanted to have a 3some with him and his ex wife as a birthday present TO HIM! I was in shock, but at the time I wanted to be with him again so I was a little foggy and desperate so I told him I'd think about it. My grief was speaking and thank God for good friends who talked me out of it and I eventually told him no, and he sulked about how he never gets what he wants. He was such an ASSS!!! But yea, that's about the worst thing. Edited September 1, 2015 by MissBee Link to post Share on other sites
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