Found Out girlfirend of 3 years was an escort during our relationship!

[Friskyone4u]

I believe she continues to escort even though we are making amends.

 

Maybe I am misreading this or I am too stupid to understand it. You believe she is still selling herself online to other men, and at the same time you also believe you are making amends.

 

I think you need to slow down, and get yourself in to some serious therapy to figure out why you are even having to ask us what we think is going to happen.

 

Your girlfriend is a hooker, she is still doing it, she also has other men she cheats on you with that may not even have to pay her, AND YOU THINK YOU ARE MAKING AMENDS AND ARE ON THE WAY TOP A REAL RELATIONSHIP.

 

Now, if you do not know what being a cuckold is, you might want to google it to see if it appeals to you.

 

I may be wrong, but I seriously doubt if you are going to get too many folks here to project a great outcome for you. You have listed a good number of reasons already that the smartest thing you could do is not even remain on the same continent with her.

 

Good luck.

[Writingonthewall]

I guess I got my answers which are quite predictable. I appreciate your responses even the rude ones some times tough talk is needed I guess. I know you are saying what you need to help me. But Im a type of person that needs to understand her behaviour so I know where to go.

 

I need to understand her behaviour, for me to move on if you see where Im coming from. Ofcourse you guys dont know her but other people perspective are sometimes a big eye opener. Especially in my situation as I haven't told anyone. I find it humiliating not only what she done but how I cant let her go.

[Clarence_Boddicker]

Just out of curiosity, what is she getting from you? Are you her sugar daddy? Explain how you met her & the dynamics of the relationship besides the cheating & escorting.

[Gus Grimly]

Im a type of person that needs to understand her behaviour so I know where to go..

What's clarity is it that you think you will gain by understanding her behavior? The difference between a prostitute and an escort is four letters. That's all you really need to know.

[MrBojangles]

I guess I got my answers which are quite predictable. I appreciate your responses even the rude ones some times tough talk is needed I guess. I know you are saying what you need to help me. But Im a type of person that needs to understand her behaviour so I know where to go.

 

I need to understand her behaviour, for me to move on if you see where Im coming from. Ofcourse you guys dont know her but other people perspective are sometimes a big eye opener. Especially in my situation as I haven't told anyone. I find it humiliating not only what she done but how I cant let her go.

 

 

You are in love with the idea of the woman that you thought she was, not with the woman that she actually is. Can you ever accept that you GF sleeps with other men for $$$, and then comes home to kiss and cuddle with you? What will happen when your family, friends and colleagues find out who she is?

 

How would you react if she ever gets pregnant? Will you be 100% sure it's your child? Remember, she fell in love with one of her clients previously, and that should prove to you that she is capable of real intimacy with some of her clientele. If she is capable of that level of intimacy with some of her clients, then what will she have left for you at the end of the day?

[turiax]

Not sure if you're serious. End it now, block her on every social media site, and block her number. Do not ever see her again or talk to her. Time to move on that's the most messed up thing I've ever heard of. Show some respect for yourself.

[HandsomeBoh]

I'm actually inclined to believe it's possible for people to make a genuine change in their life. Of course, you shouldn't trust her blindly, but if you really do love her and want to spend your life with her, give her the chance to be who she claims she wants to be.