Ex bf showing off our intimate photos

[aloneinaz]

OP,

 

 

Don't beat yourself up over what you did. EVERYONE these days sends nude pics or makes video's of sexual things when they date. Yes, a small percent of people may not but I can tell you that dating in my 40's, it was very common for women to send over suggestive pictures and short videos.

 

 

I worked with a VERY attractive woman that was a friend. She had sent pictures of her nude to her then BF. He broke up with her and I asked if she worried about what he'd do with the pictures of her. She said "who cares", I have other, more important things to worry about. I loved her attitude about it.

 

 

There's been plenty of women I've dated over the last several years that have nude pics of my junk or a short video of us having sex. I could care less if any of these women shared it with their friends. Usually the novelty wears off and they get deleted down the road anyway.

[Chi townD]

I've been thinking about doing this. This is the most realistic approach I can think of. He lives in another city though, a much bigger city. But yes, I can do this. I am just so ashamed to bring this up to my lawyer, especially, the lawyer is a family friend. I don't want this issue to spread in my city like a wildfire. Those friends who saw our photos are from the other city, a 3.5hr drive from my city. My family is known in our city and I don't want to ruin them because of this stupidity. I meant, I live in a small city where almost everyone know each other.

 

 

Don't worry about that. I'm sure lawyers have had to deal with situations like this before.

[jen1447]

I've been thinking about doing this. This is the most realistic approach I can think of. He lives in another city though, a much bigger city. But yes, I can do this. I am just so ashamed to bring this up to my lawyer, especially, the lawyer is a family friend. I don't want this issue to spread in my city like a wildfire. Those friends who saw our photos are from the other city, a 3.5hr drive from my city. My family is known in our city and I don't want to ruin them because of this stupidity. I meant, I live in a small city where almost everyone know each other.

 

Given the circumstances, I do think mightycpa's idea is best. Lawyers operate under confidentiality obligations btw, so by the law they can't share out the details of your affairs.