tito1501 Posted June 9, 2015 Posted June 9, 2015 (edited) I just found out that my girl is still talking to her ex on facebook. If you want more details you can see the link of my post below. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/cheating-flirting-jealousy/530890-she-still-talks-her-ex-going-his-house-get-her-stuff-ok In short terms, I found it out and I think it is unacceptable; she is not willing to change this behaviour and I took her to the train station then she headed home. So far I just said a sad good bye to her as she kind of froze in conversation, asking to go home. It has been three days since then and we did not talk to each other. She just sent me a message saying: "I really like you, trust me." I replied : "I do". Then no more talking. My question is: should I just keep silent, assuming it is over or should I go to her place to break up ? Calling would also be an option but I don't feel like doing it. Thank you Edited June 9, 2015 by tito1501 I posted it unfinished
minime13 Posted June 9, 2015 Posted June 9, 2015 http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/cheating-flirting-jealousy/530890-she-still-talks-her-ex-going-his-house-get-her-stuff-ok Depends. What is leading you to the break-up? Have you gotten additional info to make you believe she's fooling around with her ex, or have you not been able to gather more info since this last thread? 1
Author tito1501 Posted June 9, 2015 Author Posted June 9, 2015 Depends. What is leading you to the break-up? Have you gotten additional info to make you believe she's fooling around with her ex, or have you not been able to gather more info since this last thread? The way she explains me, makes me really believe that she is being honest by telling me that the guys is trying to explain to her why he cheated on her. At the same time, I think it is not fair and I prefer to be myself than be always concerned as to wether she is talking to this guy or not. She told me so many times she likes me so much, she was crying saying I was incredible and that she felt sorry for involving me in this situation but the cheating on her was so harmful that she cannot drop it, she needs to understand what happened. I just cannot deal with it.
minime13 Posted June 9, 2015 Posted June 9, 2015 The way she explains me, makes me really believe that she is being honest by telling me that the guys is trying to explain to her why he cheated on her. At the same time, I think it is not fair and I prefer to be myself than be always concerned as to wether she is talking to this guy or not. She told me so many times she likes me so much, she was crying saying I was incredible and that she felt sorry for involving me in this situation but the cheating on her was so harmful that she cannot drop it, she needs to understand what happened. I just cannot deal with it. She's not over her ex yet, which isn't fair to you. Do it in person.
DexterLS Posted June 9, 2015 Posted June 9, 2015 She's not over her ex yet, which isn't fair to you. Do it in person. ^This. Being cheated on is hard but YOU don't have to go through what she is going through. Do it in person, wish her well and go No Contact asap.
ravfour4 Posted June 9, 2015 Posted June 9, 2015 Lol I kind of hope something similar is going down with the guy my ex is with. The entire time they've been together she's been talking to me, sleeping in my bed, bashing him, hanging out with me without telling him etc. but he's a chump just like I was and wants this woman at any cost. Damn, why is she so attractive and manipulative....haha.
d0nnivain Posted June 9, 2015 Posted June 9, 2015 Don't just go silent. Do formally end things. In person is the most gracious & courteous way to to it but in this instance because the bulk of your communication seems to be by text (ugh) and she had to take a train to get to you, by phone wouldn't be the worst thing in the world. Do not do it by text
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