sanne Posted April 26, 2005 Posted April 26, 2005 as a guy i'd say his behavior shows he doesn't really care that much. i mean that is just unacceptable how he could just not call you like that. maybe he enjoys playing games with you, i don't know, but he doesn't sound like a good catch at all. i'd say you deserve better than that.
Author Merin Posted April 26, 2005 Author Posted April 26, 2005 Originally posted by sanne as a guy i'd say his behavior shows he doesn't really care that much. i mean that is just unacceptable how he could just not call you like that. maybe he enjoys playing games with you, i don't know, but he doesn't sound like a good catch at all. i'd say you deserve better than that. Thanks Sanne... and I agree, I deserve betta!
beejsea2 Posted April 26, 2005 Posted April 26, 2005 Merin, Sorry to hear about the crap that you had to endure. Since I've been here on LS(since Oct) your advice to everyone has been great and thoughtful. I know that you're going to feel crappy for a while but I also know that you are a strong woman and a survivor and you'll make it through this bump in the road!! Hang in there!!
Author Merin Posted April 26, 2005 Author Posted April 26, 2005 Originally posted by beejsea2 Merin, Sorry to hear about the crap that you had to endure. Since I've been here on LS(since Oct) your advice to everyone has been great and thoughtful. I know that you're going to feel crappy for a while but I also know that you are a strong woman and a survivor and you'll make it through this bump in the road!! Hang in there!! thanks!
tiki Posted April 26, 2005 Posted April 26, 2005 Just be honest Merin. I know this is on your mind, sure. But seven pages and a couple of days later, do you feel like it just keeps getting re-thrown back in your face? Like just when you almost forget about the assclown, we re-post to your thread? Then you have to blab about it and feel 'down' again? Everyone here loves you. And we all support you - no matter what you decide to do. But I just couldn't help but wonder....jeeze....poor gal....she's never gonna heal if we keep bringing up the fact that he is such an assclown. Or is it therapeutic for you to continue to talk and receive consolation from us? Tell us how ya feel about this. Just don't let anything pull you down. Why am I being so deep today????
Author Merin Posted April 26, 2005 Author Posted April 26, 2005 Originally posted by tiki Just be honest Merin. I know this is on your mind, sure. But seven pages and a couple of days later, do you feel like it just keeps getting re-thrown back in your face? Like just when you almost forget about the assclown, we re-post to your thread? Then you have to blab about it and feel 'down' again? Everyone here loves you. And we all support you - no matter what you decide to do. But I just couldn't help but wonder....jeeze....poor gal....she's never gonna heal if we keep bringing up the fact that he is such an assclown. Or is it therapeutic for you to continue to talk and receive consolation from us? Tell us how ya feel about this. Just don't let anything pull you down. Why am I being so deep today???? I'm all okay... and I have really appreciated everyones comments and support. I know he's an assclown... I just updated what had happend, because... uh.. LOL I dunno I guess so no one stays in suspense? I'll be okay regardless of what does or doesn't happen.. Thanks you guys for listening... I'll update if or when anything good happens.
Naive Posted April 26, 2005 Posted April 26, 2005 Originally posted by tiki He's so doing this on purpose. He's trying to keep you hanging on. I totally agree with tiki. He is doing it on purpose. Don't fall for it girl!!! I am sorry that you have to go through all of this You are such a great person and you definitely don't need all this drama. You know we are all here for you Merin and we all love you girl!!!
tiki Posted April 26, 2005 Posted April 26, 2005 I just didn't wanna keep talking about it if it was beginning to get old for ya. Especially if you're already in the healing process (may be too soon). I didn't know if us bringing it up (by continuing to re-post here) would hurt you more. You so know we're here for you. Even if you didn't take us to Mexico.
Author Merin Posted April 26, 2005 Author Posted April 26, 2005 Originally posted by ~Naive~ I totally agree with tiki. He is doing it on purpose. Don't fall for it girl!!! I am sorry that you have to go through all of this You are such a great person and you definitely don't need all this drama. You know we are all here for you Merin and we all love you girl!!! Thanks Sweetie... I know you've got my back like that... and I appreciate it so much
Author Merin Posted April 26, 2005 Author Posted April 26, 2005 Originally posted by tiki I just didn't wanna keep talking about it if it was beginning to get old for ya. Especially if you're already in the healing process (may be too soon). I didn't know if us bringing it up (by continuing to re-post here) would hurt you more. You so know we're here for you. Even if you didn't take us to Mexico. Nah... it doesn't bother me. Trust me you didn't want to be in that sh*t storm in mexico... LOL I'll update if anything good, bad, or stupid happens... So far... quiet day... had a lot of amazing people I love lot's Pming me making me feel mo betta...
alicia24 Posted April 26, 2005 Posted April 26, 2005 Merin, so sorry to hear about your break up. Thats aweful, but from what you wrote, you are better off. Chin up
Author Merin Posted April 26, 2005 Author Posted April 26, 2005 Originally posted by alicia24 Merin, so sorry to hear about your break up. Thats aweful, but from what you wrote, you are better off. Chin up Thanks darlin... I'm hangin in there
blind_otter Posted April 26, 2005 Posted April 26, 2005 Originally posted by tiki I just didn't wanna keep talking about it if it was beginning to get old for ya. Especially if you're already in the healing process (may be too soon). I didn't know if us bringing it up (by continuing to re-post here) would hurt you more. You so know we're here for you. Even if you didn't take us to Mexico. The fry guy is making you all deep and shyte. Wow. Merin is supported to the extreme!!
Author Merin Posted April 26, 2005 Author Posted April 26, 2005 Originally posted by blind_otter The fry guy is making you all deep and shyte. Wow. Merin is supported to the extreme!! LMAO I LOVE YOU GUYS!!!!! Damn! I would date all of you in a freakin minute!
bubblygrl5 Posted April 26, 2005 Posted April 26, 2005 Hey Girl, He probably figured in the beginning he could break it off, but still get to have you, minus the committment. But you said nah-uh...and now he's crapping in his pants cause "this wasn't what was supposed to happen." Good for you for not accepting less than you deserve. Seriously, if he rethought it, he shoulda been at home on your porch waiting for you to get home from work - telling you he made a mistake. Not texting you cause he was busy with this and that. That's B.S...and not the sign of a man who's ready to make things right again. In the long run, it's a lot less pain this way. But I know how the empty feeling is, and it still hurts. Take care! Bubbly
blind_otter Posted April 26, 2005 Posted April 26, 2005 Originally posted by Merin LMAO I LOVE YOU GUYS!!!!! Damn! I would date all of you in a freakin minute! I....I....I love you, too, Merin! (in my bed)
Author Merin Posted April 26, 2005 Author Posted April 26, 2005 Originally posted by blind_otter I....I....I love you, too, Merin! (in my bed) LMAO OMG I'm laughin so hard I'm in a coughing fit! I'm doing that add on line this weekend in your honor girl!
Author Merin Posted April 26, 2005 Author Posted April 26, 2005 Originally posted by bubblygrl5 Hey Girl, He probably figured in the beginning he could break it off, but still get to have you, minus the committment. But you said nah-uh...and now he's crapping in his pants cause "this wasn't what was supposed to happen." Good for you for not accepting less than you deserve. Seriously, if he rethought it, he shoulda been at home on your porch waiting for you to get home from work - telling you he made a mistake. Not texting you cause he was busy with this and that. That's B.S...and not the sign of a man who's ready to make things right again. In the long run, it's a lot less pain this way. But I know how the empty feeling is, and it still hurts. Take care! Bubbly Thanks Bubbles Honestly I don't give a sh*t how he thought things would go... for real he should've had his sorry a** on my porch telling me he's a retard.. LOL it just doesn't come across as good on text! He CAN'T make things right again.. I'm actually not feeling empty... the sh*t he pulled yesterday was sucky for real... BUT it was also exactly what I needed to *see* because now I just don't give a crap what he does or doesn't do.. just makes me look at who he is.. one of those guys who thinks they have the hammer and are gonna beat ya with it... hell no! LOL he f'cked with the wrong girl!
FolderWife Posted April 26, 2005 Posted April 26, 2005 Wow! Finally! A beautiful, strong woman who isn't afraid to walk away from a jerk Merin, I love you more every day. You're my hero!
Author Merin Posted April 26, 2005 Author Posted April 26, 2005 Originally posted by Monday Wow! Finally! A beautiful, strong woman who isn't afraid to walk away from a jerk Merin, I love you more every day. You're my hero! I Love ya back Monday
blind_otter Posted April 26, 2005 Posted April 26, 2005 Originally posted by Merin LMAO OMG I'm laughin so hard I'm in a coughing fit! I'm doing that add on line this weekend in your honor girl! Are we talking a personals thing? Because that's how I met my Scottish guy. And we've been seeing each other longer than anyone I've dated since I broke up with psycho. Onwards and upwards. Literally. Physically and mentally. Or should I say..... fresh meat.??
Author Merin Posted April 26, 2005 Author Posted April 26, 2005 Originally posted by blind_otter Are we talking a personals thing? Because that's how I met my Scottish guy. And we've been seeing each other longer than anyone I've dated since I broke up with psycho. Onwards and upwards. Literally. Physically and mentally. Or should I say..... fresh meat.?? LOL I meant I'm going to use "In My Bed" after everything all this weekend... I'm heading out this weekend with my Friends so yeah.. maybe that will help in finding some *excitement* this weekend uh?
blind_otter Posted April 26, 2005 Posted April 26, 2005 Ok, I get it. Try to do five things at once..... Yeah the "in my bed" thing was getting out of HAND last weekend amongst my friends and myself. "Wow, these new spicy hot cheetos really ARE spicy hot" (in my bed) "God is there a starbucks nearby?" (piping up from backseat - "in my bed!")
Mz. Pixie Posted April 26, 2005 Posted April 26, 2005 I'm glad you updated earlier. Work has been busy! Anymore text messages from El Jerko?
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