running4life Posted May 15, 2015 Posted May 15, 2015 (Oh it's me again and Mac and Sara) So I love a guy (Mac) and he's trying to get back with his ex (Sara) Mac's mother and step father lives 2 blocks from me. I worked with Mac's biological dad for over 4 years, worked with his uncle for over 4 months, his mom tried to get me a state job...one of Mac's friends just started working with me...I'm surrounded by Mac....and I love Mac alot..Sara is a fantastic girl. I can't hate her because she's beautiful, athletic, and positive...I offered Mac a hiking trip with another friend and he agreed and asked to bring sara...we're all hiking together....before Mac returns to college for the summer I'm thinking of telling him a speech of how inspiring he is and if he needs help with anything I'll do what I can to my abilities....I'll confide to Sara how wonderful of a women she is and how Special Mac is...I'm learning that you can't hold love too tightly because it will suffocate......this is utterly painful. I want all of us to be happy. I want Mac to know that I think he's important and Sara to know that she's a wonderful woman and understand why and how much Mac loves her.....
madjac74 Posted May 15, 2015 Posted May 15, 2015 Please don't hike by any steep cliffs. This sounds like a Dateline episode waiting to happen 3
ExpatInItaly Posted May 15, 2015 Posted May 15, 2015 No, don't do any of this. In particular, do not go giving any speeches to either of them. It's just going to cause you pain and it's a bit weird, to be honest. 4
luno Posted May 15, 2015 Posted May 15, 2015 (Oh it's me again and Mac and Sara) So I love a guy (Mac) and he's trying to get back with his ex (Sara) Mac's mother and step father lives 2 blocks from me. I worked with Mac's biological dad for over 4 years, worked with his uncle for over 4 months, his mom tried to get me a state job...one of Mac's friends just started working with me...I'm surrounded by Mac....and I love Mac alot..Sara is a fantastic girl. I can't hate her because she's beautiful, athletic, and positive...I offered Mac a hiking trip with another friend and he agreed and asked to bring sara...we're all hiking together....before Mac returns to college for the summer I'm thinking of telling him a speech of how inspiring he is and if he needs help with anything I'll do what I can to my abilities....I'll confide to Sara how wonderful of a women she is and how Special Mac is...I'm learning that you can't hold love too tightly because it will suffocate......this is utterly painful. I want all of us to be happy. I want Mac to know that I think he's important and Sara to know that she's a wonderful woman and understand why and how much Mac loves her..... I agree sorry, this doesn't serve any real purpose. Unrequited love is the worst, I know. If you love Mac so much why do you want to tell Sara how much Mac loves her? It's only going to make you feel worse and might come across a bit weird. It sounds like you're all good friends, I know it's hard but keep it that way and try and move on and find another nice guy. Good luck 1
CarrieT Posted May 15, 2015 Posted May 15, 2015 Just like I said in your thread: Keep Your Mouth Shut. Nothing - NOTHING - is to be gained by this drama.... 1
katiegrl Posted May 15, 2015 Posted May 15, 2015 To the OP -- I hope to god Mac and Sara aren't their real names, because I do have a guy friend "Mac" who is trying to get back with his ex, "Sara," and I don't think they would appreciate your airing their dirty laundry on a public forum such as this.. Always best to not use proper names, or if you do, make sure you emphasize they are not their real names... Just sayin..
smackie9 Posted May 15, 2015 Posted May 15, 2015 Wasn't this thread posted the other day? OCD.....this is getting out of control OP. You can't always get want you want, and the key to moving on is acceptance. 1
CarrieT Posted May 15, 2015 Posted May 15, 2015 Wasn't this thread posted the other day? OCD.....this is getting out of control OP. You can't always get want you want, and the key to moving on is acceptance. Yes - in this thread. Not sure why the OP thinks starting another thread will garner different answers.
d0nnivain Posted May 15, 2015 Posted May 15, 2015 If you make this speech it will have the exact opposite effect of what you want. You want Mac to like you back. (BTW you don't love him; you are infatuated with him, there's is a difference). When you make this grand speech he will conclude that you are socially inept. He will stop interacting with you on all levels. He will tell his family you are weird & everything will be incredibly awkward for the rest of your life. This is at best an unrequited love scenario. They happen. One person pines from afar (you) and the other person (Mac) never notices. He wants Sara. Until and unless he gets over that you have absolutely no chance. Sorry But you are young . . .high school maybe early college. You have no experience. You are living in a romance novel not the real world & you have yet to understand that the world doesn't wok like the movies. As you mature when you look back you will understand why we are all encouraging you to do nothing. If you do what you plan you will be embarrassed forever. This will become the most humiliating thing you have ever done & it will be for naught because it won't get you the guy. 2
caringsister Posted May 15, 2015 Posted May 15, 2015 (Oh it's me again and Mac and Sara) So I love a guy (Mac) and he's trying to get back with his ex (Sara) Mac's mother and step father lives 2 blocks from me. I worked with Mac's biological dad for over 4 years, worked with his uncle for over 4 months, his mom tried to get me a state job...one of Mac's friends just started working with me...I'm surrounded by Mac....and I love Mac alot..Sara is a fantastic girl. I can't hate her because she's beautiful, athletic, and positive...I offered Mac a hiking trip with another friend and he agreed and asked to bring sara...we're all hiking together....before Mac returns to college for the summer I'm thinking of telling him a speech of how inspiring he is and if he needs help with anything I'll do what I can to my abilities....I'll confide to Sara how wonderful of a women she is and how Special Mac is...I'm learning that you can't hold love too tightly because it will suffocate......this is utterly painful. I want all of us to be happy. I want Mac to know that I think he's important and Sara to know that she's a wonderful woman and understand why and how much Mac loves her..... Abort mission. So not a good idea. Check your motives. Why would you want to do this? What are you hoping will come from it? You want Max, Max wants Sara and you insert yourself into the picture to give this grand speech ... it's all a little wierd and twisted. Best to back off and let it be. Max is not available as he wants Sara. I'm sure he doesn't need a cheering team or someone trying to sell how wonderful he is to Sara. Sorry don't mean to sound harsh. This is a hot oven Don't touch it
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