LookAtThisPOst Posted April 11, 2015 Posted April 11, 2015 Something I've noticed from single women as of late is that if they give a guy their # and he calls, leaves a message...and stops there, and she doesn't return his call...he only wants her for sex and nothing meaningful. I have heard from women that they'll return a man's call if he calls and leaves message 3 or maybe even 4 times before she'll call him back as this assures some kind of genuineness with his intentions. Yes...no?
Imajerk17 Posted April 11, 2015 Posted April 11, 2015 (edited) I did some thinking back. Almost every date that I went on, the girl returned my *first* phone call. And yes, I have had made it a point in the past to try a woman more than once if she didn't return my first phone call. When a woman is into you dude, it's EASY. At any rate, I am sure that out there somewhere, there are indeed some women who feel the need for 3 phone calls or something, but it certainly isn't a healthy/realistic expectation to have, so why worry about it. I mean, if someone is having you jump through all those silly hoops so early on, what is the rest of the relationship likely to be like. Meanwhile, it looks like this topic has been covered before. A few times already in fact, and in a couple different angles too! You might want to check out the following: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/transitioning/search/502449-making-repeated-attempts-asking-woman-out http://www.loveshack.org/forums/transitioning/search/491677-he-doesn-t-pursue-much-earnest-so-he-s-just-wanting-get-laid http://www.loveshack.org/forums/transitioning/search/518750-why-men-keep-pursuing-even-after-being-friendzoned http://www.loveshack.org/forums/transitioning/search/490550-giving-up-too-easily-woman Edited April 11, 2015 by Imajerk17 2
Author LookAtThisPOst Posted April 11, 2015 Author Posted April 11, 2015 I'm sure this site has had many topics that had been covered from many angles for as long as this site has been around. I typically have a 3-strikes rule....but I've known people to admit this dirty little secret. I did some thinking back. Almost every date that I went on, the girl returned my *first* phone call. And yes, I have had made it a point in the past to try a woman more than once if she didn't return my first phone call. When a woman is into you dude, it's EASY. At any rate, I am sure that out there somewhere, there are indeed some women who feel the need for 3 phone calls or something, but it certainly isn't a healthy/realistic expectation to have, so why worry about it. I mean, if someone is having you jump through all those silly hoops so early on, what is the rest of the relationship likely to be like. Meanwhile, it looks like this topic has been covered before. A few times already in fact, and in a couple different angles too! You might want to check out the following: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/transitioning/search/502449-making-repeated-attempts-asking-woman-out http://www.loveshack.org/forums/transitioning/search/491677-he-doesn-t-pursue-much-earnest-so-he-s-just-wanting-get-laid http://www.loveshack.org/forums/transitioning/search/518750-why-men-keep-pursuing-even-after-being-friendzoned http://www.loveshack.org/forums/transitioning/search/490550-giving-up-too-easily-woman
GemmaUK Posted April 11, 2015 Posted April 11, 2015 If I wasn't that keen on the guy or there was something putting me off then I might not bother calling back after he had tried to call. There will always be a pattern to it for me though and reasons why I didn't call back - things like normal deal breakers, whether he has attempted any sexual talk in the past, what his behaviour is like, what his online behaviour is like (if on a site like FB or a forum such as this). It's never been because I was waiting for three calls to prove to me it's genuine interest. There will be several other or one big reason. I recall one time I wasn't immediately responsive initially and ended up dating the guy and I remember the reasons why also. He pursued further and I went against my initial thoughts and made a mistake in doing so. Other people I have dated those where I really remember the what happened as they were actually pretty good/long/significant relationships I was right there and communicative.
guest569 Posted April 12, 2015 Posted April 12, 2015 Ummm no. If he calls and i like him i call back.
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