Author smg15 Posted April 1, 2015 Author Share Posted April 1, 2015 And how had this been working for you? Last time you've had a long-term relationship? Last time you seriously dated? What others have said: WAY TOO HARSH. And I am going to tell a complete stranger this because?????????????????????????????????? Link to post Share on other sites
CarrieT Posted April 1, 2015 Share Posted April 1, 2015 And I am going to tell a complete stranger this because?????????????????????????????????? Because you are on a relationship site, ostensibly to get assistance and not just spout banal complaints of telephone conversations. Link to post Share on other sites
Author smg15 Posted April 1, 2015 Author Share Posted April 1, 2015 Because you are on a relationship site, ostensibly to get assistance and not just spout banal complaints of telephone conversations. I am on here to have discussions about dating situations Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted April 1, 2015 Share Posted April 1, 2015 I am on here to have discussions about dating situations I think she hurt your ego when she didn't give you her undivided attention in the first phone call. It obviously bothers you a great deal. But you decided you're done. Seems like more of a power game to you than an actual dating situation. Link to post Share on other sites
LexiB Posted April 1, 2015 Share Posted April 1, 2015 Did she give a reason why she needed to take the call? Link to post Share on other sites
CarrieT Posted April 1, 2015 Share Posted April 1, 2015 I am on here to have discussions about dating situations And thus the conversation has begun; care to answer my questions to further the "discussion" or do you want these to be one-way vents on your "situations" that seem dysfunctional, at best... Link to post Share on other sites
Diezel Posted April 1, 2015 Share Posted April 1, 2015 I am on here to have discussions about dating situations Apparently you aren't... hold up, I got to go, got another call. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
neowulf Posted April 1, 2015 Share Posted April 1, 2015 Someone gave me their number to call them tonight and I called so we can touch base. So we seemed to be hitting it off the first 5 mins and laughing a little and then all of sudden after 10 mins she says "Can I call you back, I really need to take this call" So of course I said yeah and don't have any intentions on speaking to her again. I don't often have someone click over during the first ten minutes of our conversation so she just made it real easy for me to delete her number. I would never click over when I am speaking to someone for the first time. This is so rare that I can't even remember the last time this happened to me. I know for a fact it wasn't in 2014 or 2013. I can just imagine what a woman would be saying if a GUY did that lol. When I ended conversations I just make up a lie to get off the phone not CLICK OVER to take another call. Eh, I had a first date with a girl got up and left me sitting there for 10 minutes while she went over to say "hi" to some friends of hers she'd noticed at another table. Needless to say, I gently pointed out to her at the end of the date it wasn't good manners to wonder off and just leave people on your first meeting. So yeah, some people be clueless. Link to post Share on other sites
Author smg15 Posted April 2, 2015 Author Share Posted April 2, 2015 Did she give a reason why she needed to take the call? No she didn't Link to post Share on other sites
Author smg15 Posted April 2, 2015 Author Share Posted April 2, 2015 Eh, I had a first date with a girl got up and left me sitting there for 10 minutes while she went over to say "hi" to some friends of hers she'd noticed at another table. Needless to say, I gently pointed out to her at the end of the date it wasn't good manners to wonder off and just leave people on your first meeting. So yeah, some people be clueless. If that was me the date would have been OVER. Link to post Share on other sites
minimariah Posted April 2, 2015 Share Posted April 2, 2015 smg15, girl... it's just not that serious. you know? no one should be this butthurt & dramatic over someone else taking another REALLY IMPORTANT call. no one. Link to post Share on other sites
neowulf Posted April 2, 2015 Share Posted April 2, 2015 If that was me the date would have been OVER. Yeah, initially I thought it was only going to be a quick "Oh hey" or whatever, but as the time dragged on I thought ".. this could be going better" lol. But hey, that's why they invited smart phones and coffee. I can be the bigger person *shrug*. Link to post Share on other sites
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