OnlyHonesty Posted March 28, 2015 Share Posted March 28, 2015 Deleted, didn't realise how old the OP post was. Link to post Share on other sites
Lion Heart Posted March 28, 2015 Share Posted March 28, 2015 (edited) Lion Heart, you're wiser than Aslan! No, seriously, you offer LW very sound advice. Gosh thankyou. I'm blushing. Lol. Aslan? imagery, big strong lion. I've read all of CS Lewis stuff including his biography. An idol plus Covey, Jesus the man not the rest, Buddha. Real time idols are here now on LS. Life is one. You too, merrmeade, Confused, SO many girls. NoLimit, BetrayedH, badkarma, gosh SO many men. I guess I'm sad for Life (STILL REFUSE the w part). So many things I want to say to him. Having this situation occur in a person's life not once but twice with DIFFERENT people? Makes one question what THE F*** is THIS all about? I know NOTHING! Nothing makes sense AT ALL! We question EVERYTHING about OURSELVES! From our mind, to our body, to our looks, to our .....face. The most beautiful thing a mother could ever see...their baby's face the moment they're born. Kissed and loved and cherished. Well SOME mothers. Not mine. That's ok. Definitely my 4 babies and 1000s of other babies I've held too. Yep lots. Life's knocked him self. His face. His looks. Sure! It's his to knock. Not only is it totally irrelevant to another woman who loves the man who's got that face but hey, LOVE THE FACE you have. Be appreciative of that incredible face! I know I'm deep but it's depth that Life has. I wanted to say to Life to start looking after that Face. Didn't want to at the time but it's important. Pamper himself. Visit out of town to a beautician and get treatments. This has knocked Life's self esteem and I want to roar out NO!!! LOUD. Someone ELSES f***ed up, screwed up, sexual nut case behaviours have made LIFE question HIMSELF? No. Stand by your amazing values Life. It's incredible that there are ANY of us left! Keep with the Life Team here. You're incredible. Sure Life and I need to make more assertive decisions, words and actions in our intimate relationships. But ALWAYS remembering that WE ARE WORTHY OF A GOOD PERSON TO LOVE US. We are. End of. Lion Heart. NB: The next girl is out there Life. Wanting you. Only you. Because you're you. She might even be the beautician! I've got a fake tan Life - they're AWESOME! Ha ha. Hugs (non-sexual one there). One of my favourite old fridge magnets was "So many men, so little time!" And it's an affirmation. I'm right. Same with women. Edited March 28, 2015 by Lion Heart 3 Link to post Share on other sites
cgiles Posted March 28, 2015 Share Posted March 28, 2015 This could be me. I never could understand men who could go to work and act all nice and polite and treat their clients and co-workers so great, and then come home and beat the wife and scream at the kids like they were dogs. That was my dad. Maybe I overcompensate. I always treat my family members and partners well. Broken home, and not wanting to repeat the pattern, is one of the reasons the Doctor Glover thinks men become NG But I have my dad's temper and his brute strength. I could have easily knocked my xWGF through a wall with just a bat of my arm...no problem. I could have pummeled her sex-buddies to within inches of their lives. But its not worth it. I will most likely all this anger stew inside and die from a heart attack at 60. And you didn't do it, you didn't hit them. Now don't let this anger rots you. Find a way to control it, without keeping it inside. Get help for this. Do you ask easily for help ? I wonder if it behooves a man to keep his wife or girlfriend in a little fear of bodily harm? Not actually hit them or abuse them, but let them know in a very subtle way that he could seriously lay waste to them if they pull any crap. Ladies what do you think? I'm not a woman, but for what I know, if you are ready to lay waste the relationship, walk away of it if you are not respected, and let your partner knows that, the possibility to be disrespected are very low. Like the saying said "The one who is ready to walk away of the relationship, controls it" It doesn't mean you should invest in the relationship, just let know you will walk away without looking back, even if it will hurt you as hell, make you lead the dance and be respected. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Author LifeWasted Posted March 28, 2015 Author Share Posted March 28, 2015 Thankyou everybody for the good feelings. I won't be getting another girlfriend. I. Going to work and drink and drink and work till,I die. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Author LifeWasted Posted March 28, 2015 Author Share Posted March 28, 2015 I'm not a woman, but for what I know, if you are ready to lay waste the relationship, walk away of it if you are not respected, and let your partner knows that, the possibility to be disrespected are very low. Like the saying said "The one who is ready to walk away of the relationship, controls it" It doesn't mean you should invest in the relationship, just let know you will walk away without looking back, even if it will hurt you as hell, make you lead the dance and be respected. Already did thanks 1 Link to post Share on other sites
I_Give_Up67 Posted March 28, 2015 Share Posted March 28, 2015 Thankyou everybody for the good feelings. I won't be getting another girlfriend. I. Going to work and drink and drink and work till,I die. I like to tell people, "my right hand will never cheat on me" 4 Link to post Share on other sites
Author LifeWasted Posted March 28, 2015 Author Share Posted March 28, 2015 I like to tell people, "my right hand will never cheat on me" Ha ha ha ha! I new a guy back home who divorced his wife when he was in hififties and never remerried. he stayed single until he died in his eighties last yearand he was the nicest, happiest old man I ever knew. Everyone loved him Nd I'll bet there were a hundred people at his funeral. Except his ex of course!!! 4 Link to post Share on other sites
Author LifeWasted Posted March 28, 2015 Author Share Posted March 28, 2015 I won't ever remarry. I don't need a woman sexually, emotionally or financially. A dog is what I jeed. When I get a house I'll get me a good dog 6 Link to post Share on other sites
Hope Shimmers Posted March 28, 2015 Share Posted March 28, 2015 I won't ever remarry. I don't need a woman sexually, emotionally or financially. A dog is what I jeed. When I get a house I'll get me a good dog I think you need to sleep it off. A dog would be fine, too. Link to post Share on other sites
dreamingoftigers Posted March 28, 2015 Share Posted March 28, 2015 I won't ever remarry. I don't need a woman sexually, emotionally or financially. A dog is what I jeed. When I get a house I'll get me a good dog I just hope the two parts in bold are not connected 4 Link to post Share on other sites
AprilTears Posted March 28, 2015 Share Posted March 28, 2015 (edited) It does make me think that something could be wrong with me. I'm in good health, not really fat and I'm extremely strong, but I am also uglier than a rusted bolt. Maybe I'm just not good looking enough. I don't know. I know its not how I treat these women... Could I be boring? Uglier than a rusty bolt? Well Clearly you intrigued her and others as well so stop being so hard on yourself! Edited March 28, 2015 by AprilTears 6 Link to post Share on other sites
sandylee1 Posted March 28, 2015 Share Posted March 28, 2015 I won't ever remarry. I don't need a woman sexually, emotionally or financially. A dog is what I jeed. When I get a house I'll get me a good dog Life, You're faith in women has been destroyed by these women. That's such a shame. I'm thinking they were goldiggers, especially the WGF. 5 Link to post Share on other sites
Author LifeWasted Posted March 28, 2015 Author Share Posted March 28, 2015 Sorry guys. Too many Mad Russians last night. Holy carp those things are tasty. But I need to lay off the booze. I'm sorry for my rants. I was just feeling sorry for myself. I love women. No way in hell I'm not going to find a better one soon. 7 Link to post Share on other sites
No Limit Posted March 28, 2015 Share Posted March 28, 2015 Alcohol is a depressant, you know. Stash some juice in your fridge the next time you feel down and feel like drinking something. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Author LifeWasted Posted March 28, 2015 Author Share Posted March 28, 2015 He he he. She wrote me a letter and mailed it to my office. I just now opened it. It's a doozy. Link to post Share on other sites
I_Give_Up67 Posted March 28, 2015 Share Posted March 28, 2015 He he he. She wrote me a letter and mailed it to my office. I just now opened it. It's a doozy. Let me guess... "can we still be friends?' or "Can you please finish remodeling my house?" 3 Link to post Share on other sites
writergal Posted March 28, 2015 Share Posted March 28, 2015 re: did you decide to attend the barbeque? If so, how did it go? If not, I hope you were able to meetup with your friend and have a nice time. re: the letter she mailed to your work address. Do you plan to respond or will you just leave it alone? Link to post Share on other sites
CarrieT Posted March 28, 2015 Share Posted March 28, 2015 It's a doozy. Oh, please share! I'd love a weekend giggle! 3 Link to post Share on other sites
No Limit Posted March 28, 2015 Share Posted March 28, 2015 He he he. She wrote me a letter and mailed it to my office. I just now opened it. It's a doozy. By all means never respond. Task one of your co-workers to beat you with rolled up newspapers should you ever think of writing a response. 6 Link to post Share on other sites
Author LifeWasted Posted March 28, 2015 Author Share Posted March 28, 2015 re: did you decide to attend the barbeque? If so, how did it go? If not, I hope you were able to meetup with your friend and have a nice time. re: the letter she mailed to your work address. Do you plan to respond or will you just leave it alone? It's tonight. I'm getting ready. Just took a shower and laying nude by a fan evaporating. I'm going to dress nice and be nice and happy, even though her letter infuriated me. I actually hope she shows. Im psyching myself up. I'm going to treat her like a piece of furniture. 180. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Author LifeWasted Posted March 28, 2015 Author Share Posted March 28, 2015 Oh, please share! I'd love a weekend giggle! I'll load it up tomorrow. Tonight I get drunk again. Maybe start a fight. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
CarrieT Posted March 28, 2015 Share Posted March 28, 2015 Tonight I get drunk again. Maybe start a fight. I believe you will be better off if you stay sober (one of the few, probably!) and regain composer... 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author LifeWasted Posted March 28, 2015 Author Share Posted March 28, 2015 I believe you will be better off if you stay sober (one of the few, probably!) and regain composer... I think I deserve to make an a$$ of myself. But I'll behave. Don't worry 3 Link to post Share on other sites
beach Posted March 28, 2015 Share Posted March 28, 2015 What did her letter say? Link to post Share on other sites
autumnnight Posted March 28, 2015 Share Posted March 28, 2015 It's tonight. I'm getting ready. Just took a shower and laying nude by a fan evaporating. I'm going to dress nice and be nice and happy, even though her letter infuriated me. I actually hope she shows. Im psyching myself up. I'm going to treat her like a piece of furniture. 180. She's a dumbass. Please don't judge all southern women by her. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
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