thorin Posted February 19, 2015 Posted February 19, 2015 I'm 22, she's 20, and we're in a relationship for about 9 months. Lately she's became pretty cold and distant, can I consider this an end of this relationship? I mean, we've always been meeting ~4 times a week, she was always texting me, calling me on skype everyday, she was pretty needy and I kind of liked it this way. But about two weeks ago, after I left her house, she became really distant. She was texting me less and less, since then we've met like 3 times only. She's irritated by almost all my messages, it takes her 2 hours to respond while I know she's sitting on her phone. When I talk to her about this, she says I'm strange, and shouldn't worry about such bull****. It's just that I feel like she can easily ignore me for the whole day, doesn't care about it, while I'm sitting on my phone hoping she will call/text me. Today she told me she goes out for a party tomorrow, with her friends, and she didn't invite me. During our meetings she's also quite distant, but still behaves like nothing happens. How should I solve this?
Satu Posted February 19, 2015 Posted February 19, 2015 It seems likely that she's developed an interest in somebody else, but is uncertain about it. Prepare for the worst, but hope for the best.
Author thorin Posted February 19, 2015 Author Posted February 19, 2015 Well, I'm not sure, I can't know that, and she won't tell me. What do I do right now? I can't tell her "feel something more to me or we're done". Should I ignore her completely?
SearchingForMyself Posted February 20, 2015 Posted February 20, 2015 She lost interest in you. I'm not going to say there is something else, but come on, dude. I know this is going to be hard to accept, but girl ain't into you anymore. Better just suck it up, cause eventually, she's going to dump you.
Satu Posted February 20, 2015 Posted February 20, 2015 Well, I'm not sure, I can't know that, and she won't tell me. What do I do right now? I can't tell her "feel something more to me or we're done". *Should I ignore her completely? *I would say so. She might reach out to you, but she seems to have already checked out of the relationship.
mightycpa Posted February 20, 2015 Posted February 20, 2015 Read this one: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/516223-broke-up-my-ultimatum-who-goes-back-who see if you want to be that guy. I'd say stick it out for a while and pay attention. You might be right, you might be wrong. Maybe she just wants you to be the bad guy in this.
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