Boyfriend did MDMA, the week after he feels differently about our relationship?

[acapelo_dp]

Oh shoot...I wish you lived near me..I am serious. I would have you over, we could have a slumber party... remember those? We could laugh, cry, whatevs.

 

Do you have any friends you could do that with? If not, we're here for ya.

 

It'll get better...you just had a minor setback. Just go no contact and stick to it...you'll be fine again.

 

((more hugs))

 

Thank you that made me smile.

 

I actually have become really close with my coworker and now consider her my best friend. We hang out all the time and she is going through a break up with a bf of four years so we have bonded. So it's nice to not feel so alone here in the city. I also have a couple other friends here too. Slumber party with ice cream and venting would be awesome

 

I already feel better today while I'm at work and busy. I just have to stick with NC for real this time and not have false hope that we will get back together because it's hopeless at this time. He seemed unhappy without me the past two weeks so I think he's just unhappy with his life in general and I can't help him. He has to help himself

 

I want to find some new hobbies to start doing like yoga or starting a class. Guess this is the time to start!

[Hopeful30]

My initial thought would be that he met someone else that night, or he cheated. Feelings dont just change overnight like that.

[acapelo_dp]

My initial thought would be that he met someone else that night, or he cheated. Feelings dont just change overnight like that.

 

He definitely didn't cheat or meet someone else. Throughout our entire relationship he has changed his life plans. It's not that he didn't have feelings for me or they changed he just didn't feel like he wanted to take the next step because he didn't know what he wanted in life. He said he has no interest in meetng anyone else and I believe him. He just wants to be alone and finds relationships stressful.. He said that his friends have offered to hook him up with some single friends he was like Um no that's the last thing I want lol. So I don't feel as bad as I could I guess...