She has not seen her menstruation for 3 days and threatens to break up if pregnant

[iselectu]

My Fiancée has not seen her menstruation for 3 days now, she thinks she is pregnant, and she said she will dump me after abortion ..advice needed

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[Diezel]

All you can do now is wait.

 

But for obvious reasons, call off the wedding once you have settled whether her period has come or not.

[TabbyHearts]

you want to marry this woman why? Not that I'm getting into an abortion debate, but she doesn't want your child and then all the blame is on you for getting her pregnant?

 

Two to tango my friend

[evanescentworld]

You mean, this "girlfriend"....?

 

Break up with her now, immediately.

I would bet she is NOT pregnant, but even if she is, and she is intent on aborting the child, she has no respect for you.

It is clear from your other thread that she is using you.

If this is a genuine situation, then you need to end this now.

She clearly does not want to be with you, and may be using this as an invented excuse to break up with you anyway.

 

Suggest she buys a pregnancy test kit and you look at it together.

That should expose any deceit.

[Light Breeze]

My Fiancée has not seen her mensuration for 3days now, she thinks she is pregnant, and she said she will dump me after abortion ..advice needed

 

She'll breakup with you for getting her pregnant? Does she realize she participated in it?

 

Wow, I'm speechless, never heard such crap before.

[iselectu]

yes, she is the same girl.

[iselectu]

You mean, this "girlfriend"....?

 

Break up with her now, immediately.

I would bet she is NOT pregnant, but even if she is, and she is intent on aborting the child, she has no respect for you.

It is clear from your other thread that she is using you.

If this is a genuine situation, then you need to end this now.

She clearly does not want to be with you, and may be using this as an invented excuse to break up with you anyway.

 

Suggest she buys a pregnancy test kit and you look at it together.

That should expose any deceit.

 

 

 

yes, same girl..

[Light Breeze]

yes, same girl..

 

I've read your other thread.

 

I think she's not that into you. She isn't even trying to assimilate you into her life (i.e. Meeting her parents).

 

There are others out there who will want to be with you no matter what. Who wil cherish your willingness to be with her. Who will love you as you love her.

 

It seems she's not the one. However, your situation is complicated because it will possibly include a child (if she wants to continue with the pregnancy).

 

Anyhow, what are your thoughts on your GF terminating her possible pregnancy?

[iselectu]

I've read your other thread.

 

I think she's not that into you. She isn't even trying to assimilate you into her life (i.e. Meeting her parents).

 

There are others out there who will want to be with you no matter what. Who wil cherish your willingness to be with her. Who will love you as you love her.

 

It seems she's not the one. However, your situation is complicated because it will possibly include a child (if she wants to continue with the pregnancy).

 

Anyhow, what are your thoughts on your GF terminating her possible pregnancy?

 

There are 2 things to it. 1. before a child is born, the two persons involve must agree to it. Since i have spoken to her about keeping the baby and she refused that now is not the right time. and i agree for us to do her wish. if it will make her more free and comfortable.

 

2. I dont even know if she is actually pregnant. because she is only worried that she has not seen her Period. i said to her maybe it is a Delayed or changed in Menstrual Cycle. since she is 32 years old, she should know about menstrual cycle. but all she keep saying is she will dump me after an abortion if it turns out that she is pregnant