Datdude984 Posted December 19, 2014 Share Posted December 19, 2014 Well, I though things were goin ok. My ex-gf went to Florida to stay with her aunt for a while. I told her that was great because she was living with a friend while staying here and I was still in the midst of getting my own place so that we could live together so I figured great what a wonderful opportunity, she could see family and I could get things squared away on this end. She would call, text, say how much she loves me and misses me and couldn't wait to see me. I even said I wanted to come to Florida and take a trip to Disney. Well about a week ago she didnt call or text much for a few days, said she was so busy watching her cousins and her aunt was feeling very sick and needed to go to the hospital. I understood that it's family. Well one day I texted " what's up? haven't heard from you?". She just replied, " I don't think the long distance thing is gonna work.". I was puzzled I said well " You said once I got things established you were coming back". She says "Well I was at first but now I dont want to I'm sorry". WTF? I got angry and said how messed up it was and I thought things were going slow but sure and I just couldn't believe it. I begged and asked what could I say or do? Do I just move on and forget you or what? She said yeah you can move on, I just want you to mail me some of my stuff I don't need the rest in storage. She didnt have a car, a job or a license but proceeds to tell me she has all that now and she even got a new phone..after she asked me to get her one weeks before. Im hurt and confused and pissed off.. seems like everywhere I go there is a reminder of her and our special times together and there were a lot of them! I was so close to setting the perfect life, I got promoted, money started rolling in etc. Now I don't know what to do. Just go no contact and leave her be? I asked her should I just lose her number and don't ever contact her and she never answered, maybe that was her answer. I feel like I was watching a movie that cut off without warning and said "The End". She knows I love her and she said she did too, then all of sudden she didnt. I did so much for her, typed resumes, applied for jobs for her. Sent her love letters and care packages. Now Ive done all this stuff and no one to share it with. Please help. I know somebody on here has been what I'm going through Link to post Share on other sites
Ieris Posted December 19, 2014 Share Posted December 19, 2014 What a b***h! You have dodged a bullet there! This person is a waste of your time. After all that you did for her, she just let you go like you were nothing...?! I am honestly shocked. NC all the way. Don't even send her stuff, send it all down a trash can or give it all to charity. I know you feel lost and helpless right now, your emotions are all up in the air that's all, don't do anything or say anything while you are feeling erratic. When the dust has settled, take away the emotions and think with a clear head to see her for what she is. Yes you may have set up lots of things that you were planning with her but she is not worthy of all that, save all your love and energy for another girl. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted December 19, 2014 Share Posted December 19, 2014 Somehow she found financial support in Florida that she didn't have will she was with you. Money is more important than love to her. Be grateful that she will not have the chance to leech off you. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Chi townD Posted December 19, 2014 Share Posted December 19, 2014 Donnivan is right. She was dead weight and using you until things got better for herself. Once she got established, she had no more use for you. Start NC, dude. Do not respond to a thing she sends. BLOCK HER ON FACEBOOK!!!! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Datdude984 Posted December 19, 2014 Author Share Posted December 19, 2014 I really needed that pick me up guys. Still in a bit of a daze...three years almost we were together, she would leave me and then I would be a pitiful sack of S**T! and beg. She broke up with me before because she said I wasn't working toward changing the situation for the better for us. I was..it was just moving slow. Then when I actually got it all together she kicked rocks on me...I don't do fb or instagram or any of that stuff. She's not on my Twitter I don't think she knows I have an account. One day at a time. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Datdude984 Posted December 27, 2014 Author Share Posted December 27, 2014 Well she attempted call Dec 23rd, I didnt answer. Then the next morning she leaves an email saying she guesses calling me was pointless but she wanted to know how much it would cost her for me to ship some of her stuff. Then she says Merry Xmas eve and have a great day? WTF? Have a great day and you just dumped me? Is this a game? Then in that same email she says " oh also, I'm taking a trip up there to get my stuff". If she is coming to get her stuff anyway, why does she need me to mail anything? Is she just doing to get a reaction out of me and rubbing the break up in my face? Im not going to beg her for anything. Just doesn't make sense Link to post Share on other sites
broken77 Posted December 28, 2014 Share Posted December 28, 2014 she's an idiot. you are pretty well positioned now with promotion, new place, etc to find someone deserving Link to post Share on other sites
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