Black Cement Posted December 15, 2014 Share Posted December 15, 2014 Here's whats going on, this girl who've I been dating off and on says my ex blocked her on Instagram. They don't even know each other and its obvious my ex has been spying on me. I don't get it. If She's getting married, & to some douchebag after a couple months of dating, why is still lurking on me, and why block the girl I'm dating if your Instagram is private anyways?? Doe's she still have feelings for me? Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted December 15, 2014 Share Posted December 15, 2014 Disconnect from your EX on all social media & have anybody you date do the same. Who cares why she's lurking on you? Isn't that her FI's problem? 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Black Cement Posted December 15, 2014 Author Share Posted December 15, 2014 Disconnect from your EX on all social media & have anybody you date do the same. Who cares why she's lurking on you? Isn't that her FI's problem? Because I still want her. She's making a big mistake marrying this guy just for his money. I'm just driving myself crazy thinking maybe she's having second thoughts about us. Link to post Share on other sites
No Limit Posted December 15, 2014 Share Posted December 15, 2014 She's not having second thoughts. She just sees if you'd be willing to have sex with her because that's how selfish people work. Although I'll always give the advice "don't stick your dick in crazy". 3 Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted December 15, 2014 Share Posted December 15, 2014 It doesn't matter that you still want her. You have a GF. How is wanting your EX fair to your GF? Your EX is getting married! Stupid choice or not, it's still her choice. If you can't respect her, at least try to respect the institution & walk away from her while she is with him. If you ever learn they broke up then you can try again but not now. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Satu Posted December 15, 2014 Share Posted December 15, 2014 If you want a great relationship that will make you happy, go total no contact with your ex. That includes any direct, or indirect contact and social media. Don't let the past ruin the present. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Black Cement Posted December 15, 2014 Author Share Posted December 15, 2014 It doesn't matter that you still want her. You have a GF. How is wanting your EX fair to your GF? Your EX is getting married! Stupid choice or not, it's still her choice. If you can't respect her, at least try to respect the institution & walk away from her while she is with him. If you ever learn they broke up then you can try again but not now. She's not my GF, just a girl I date occasionally. It's like those stories you here all the time. Couple breaks up, girl is about to marry the wrong person, realizes that she still loves her ex. Or ex breaks up wedding and they run away together. If only I could just talk to her. Link to post Share on other sites
SycamoreCircle Posted December 15, 2014 Share Posted December 15, 2014 I feel sorry for your gf. New Thread: I Really Don't Care About My GF. (Sigh) Why can't people be nice to each other? 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Black Cement Posted December 15, 2014 Author Share Posted December 15, 2014 If you want a great relationship that will make you happy, go total no contact with your ex. That includes any direct, or indirect contact and social media. Don't let the past ruin the present. I've had zero contact for almost a year. Everyone in my life tells me these things, her getting married, her social media drama... I still love her, she's getting married. I always get hints that she still feels the same. Link to post Share on other sites
Satu Posted December 15, 2014 Share Posted December 15, 2014 She's not my GF, just a girl I date occasionally. It's like those stories you here all the time. Couple breaks up, girl is about to marry the wrong person, realizes that she still loves her ex. Or ex breaks up wedding and they run away together. If only I could just talk to her.[/QUOTE] You can if you want, but no good will come of it. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Black Cement Posted December 15, 2014 Author Share Posted December 15, 2014 She's not my GF, just a girl I date occasionally. It's like those stories you here all the time. Couple breaks up, girl is about to marry the wrong person, realizes that she still loves her ex. Or ex breaks up wedding and they run away together. If only I could just talk to her.[/QUOTE] You can if you want, but no good will come of it. I mean, I can't talk to her then. I just want your guy's input on why she still keeps tabs on me? Link to post Share on other sites
Satu Posted December 15, 2014 Share Posted December 15, 2014 It doesn't matter why. What matters is that you get your head straight and move on. Or do you want to live in the past and think about what might have been? Link to post Share on other sites
Simon Phoenix Posted December 15, 2014 Share Posted December 15, 2014 She's not my GF, just a girl I date occasionally. It's like those stories you here all the time. Couple breaks up, girl is about to marry the wrong person, realizes that she still loves her ex. Or ex breaks up wedding and they run away together. If only I could just talk to her. Yeah, that doesn't happen in real life. The movies it does, which is where it sounds like your head is at. You certainly aren't in reality at this point. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Black Cement Posted December 16, 2014 Author Share Posted December 16, 2014 Yeah, that doesn't happen in real life. The movies it does, which is where it sounds like your head is at. You certainly aren't in reality at this point. I beg to differ, happend to my parents! Link to post Share on other sites
coolheadal Posted December 16, 2014 Share Posted December 16, 2014 Here's whats going on, this girl who've I been dating off and on says my ex blocked her on Instagram. They don't even know each other and its obvious my ex has been spying on me. I don't get it. If She's getting married, & to some douchebag after a couple months of dating, why is still lurking on me, and why block the girl I'm dating if your Instagram is private anyways?? Doe's she still have feelings for me? Sounds like she's jealous of who your dating on and off still. Women do the strangest things today. Now she's getting married to someone she loves. You need to just get on with your life and move on. Your ex is your ex for a reason. The trust is broken and betrayed with both of you. No turning back now. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Black Cement Posted December 16, 2014 Author Share Posted December 16, 2014 Sounds like she's jealous of who your dating on and off still. Women do the strangest things today. Now she's getting married to someone she loves. You need to just get on with your life and move on. Your ex is your ex for a reason. The trust is broken and betrayed with both of you. No turning back now. Women do do the strangest things today, marry a rebound because he has money & because her and her girlfriends had a stupid pack to all get married in 2015 and have babies at the same time. Link to post Share on other sites
Satu Posted December 16, 2014 Share Posted December 16, 2014 Women do do the strangest things today, marry a rebound because he has money & because her and her girlfriends had a stupid pack to all get married in 2015 and have babies at the same time. It's only strange or stupid if you're not them. If you are them it makes perfect sense. Link to post Share on other sites
No Limit Posted December 16, 2014 Share Posted December 16, 2014 There's no point in arguing Black Cement. Believe what you want; if you really think she's marrying the wrong one just because you still love her and believe that her breadcrumbs are the ultimate proof that she still loves you, then the only way to find that out is if you talk to her. Just don't have too big expectations, she will probably have a little mini-affair with you and then go fetch her wedding dress. Have fun. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
NoLeafClover Posted December 16, 2014 Share Posted December 16, 2014 ...or perhaps she just doesn't give a f@ck That's why I delete my ex after **** hits the fan 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Black Cement Posted December 16, 2014 Author Share Posted December 16, 2014 I forgot to mention this... she broke up with me last year, me being spiteful messed around with a girl she didn't like. She found out, told me "wow, f you! I really loved you! BYE!" The next week goes by, has this new boyfriend already. We have this back and forth war, trying to make each other jealous, then after a couple of months, she's engaged. Rubbing it in my face. "I'm getting married and your not!!!" Her engagement is a joke! Yeah me & her fight like crazy, but its only because we still care for each other. Link to post Share on other sites
organizedchaos Posted December 16, 2014 Share Posted December 16, 2014 I forgot to mention this... she broke up with me last year, me being spiteful messed around with a girl she didn't like. She found out, told me "wow, f you! I really loved you! BYE!" The next week goes by, has this new boyfriend already. We have this back and forth war, trying to make each other jealous, then after a couple of months, she's engaged. Rubbing it in my face. "I'm getting married and your not!!!" Her engagement is a joke! Yeah me & her fight like crazy, but its only because we still care for each other. Oh, right. She breaks up with you. Yep, she really loved you! Lol. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Halcyon Posted December 16, 2014 Share Posted December 16, 2014 This sounds like a non-toxic, healthy relationship that will last the ages! ... oh wait... 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Satu Posted December 16, 2014 Share Posted December 16, 2014 I forgot to mention this... she broke up with me last year, me being spiteful messed around with a girl she didn't like. She found out, told me "wow, f you! I really loved you! BYE!" The next week goes by, has this new boyfriend already. We have this back and forth war, trying to make each other jealous, then after a couple of months, she's engaged. Rubbing it in my face. "I'm getting married and your not!!!" Her engagement is a joke! Yeah me & her fight like crazy, but its only because we still care for each other. I really didn't know it was even possible to be as deep in denial as you are. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
NoLeafClover Posted December 16, 2014 Share Posted December 16, 2014 I really didn't know it was even possible to be as deep in denial as you are. Yeayyyyy..Wtf black cement..girl bonning some other dude and you are still thinking she cares about you? Dude come here lemme check..is there a backbone in your body? 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Black Cement Posted December 16, 2014 Author Share Posted December 16, 2014 We were on a break! She claims that we needed time alone, and when our paths crossed again, we can try it again. I didn't buy it at first, so i f_cked around. Yes I was immature, didn't think things through. I thought that was it for us, so i did what single guys do. I admit I did it to hurt her and wanted her to find out, but I realized i made a mistake, when her friends and family told me she was crying for days. Link to post Share on other sites
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