preraph Posted November 23, 2014 Share Posted November 23, 2014 I doubt most of these escort dates lead to rape. She can meet them in public places, there are cctv everywhere these days and she ask to see their drivers license up front and the site will have his IP logged. I agree though that the girts who do this sort of work who say they are making great $ for no sex, many will be lying. Its just one little step more to escalating from the no sex gf experience to a lil bit extra for cash. The majority of these guys will temp the girl with offers of more $ to get a little more intimate (vanilla or kinky no intercourse stuff like discipline), and I bet many do it. I remember reading about about Paul McCartney's 2nd wile the model and how she would go to the middle east to do modelling shows, some in exclusively private functions for wealthy arabs and would come back home with her case stuffed with foreign currency. Oh no it was not for sex, she got paid extra to model lingerie and be a hostess to some sheik. lol. Not saying most of them lead to rape. Saying it's bringing a really seedy element into your life and can lead to all kinds of problems: drugs, rape, assault. But the main issue is going to be that regardless of what it says on the website, an escort really means one thing. I saw some of these girls on television, some talk show, and mostly it was men with some weird fetish who masturbated in front of them, that sort of thing. This girl is 19 years old. She doesn't need to be out getting a taste of the trade. She has a future ahead of her if she avoids this type of thing. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Tayken Posted November 23, 2014 Share Posted November 23, 2014 Is this the new way women are shattering those glass ceilings? 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Noproblem Posted November 23, 2014 Share Posted November 23, 2014 (edited) Have you heard of Financial aid or you are too good to take financial aid and federal loans seriously, are we going to be prostitutes just so we can finish an education How about working at Walmart and MacDonald, they are too easy to hire Oh wait I remembered, you are too good to work there Why eating pizza, when you can prepare your own food for a lot cheaper. You can live with 3 roommates you can take federal loans and finincail aid and seriously if your grades are too low to get the aid then you shouldn't bother studying anyway! How about going to community college, and then to a four years university I don't get it You want to be a prostitute in order to study What kind of world we live in! Just skip the studying and go do it anyway, you might hit the jack pot and appear on some expensive porn movie! Edited November 23, 2014 by Noproblem 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Noproblem Posted November 23, 2014 Share Posted November 23, 2014 Just to be clear I understand some people with extreme hard conditions become prostitutes, and I always defend these kind of people But when someone is a student who is 19 and she just wants the easy way out it's really maddening 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Els Posted November 23, 2014 Share Posted November 23, 2014 I don't think it's either clever or wrong - it's just a trade, like prostitution. I'm pretty certain that the majority of 'bidders' are not looking for a woman solely to have dinner and converse with, so if you do go into it, bear that in mind. They may not necessarily want intercourse straight off the bat but they will want SOMEthing. Also, Dominos pizza is not that great for saving money. If you really want to, you can cook for cheaper than that. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
ascendotum Posted November 23, 2014 Share Posted November 23, 2014 Not saying most of them lead to rape. Saying it's bringing a really seedy element into your life and can lead to all kinds of problems: drugs, rape, assault. But the main issue is going to be that regardless of what it says on the website, an escort really means one thing. I saw some of these girls on television, some talk show, and mostly it was men with some weird fetish who masturbated in front of them, that sort of thing. This girl is 19 years old. She doesn't need to be out getting a taste of the trade. She has a future ahead of her if she avoids this type of thing. Its not that dissimilar to using conventional OLD sites or hookup sites or even more risky, just meeting a guy out at a party or club and going home with him, like I bet most of the women on here have at some time. If anything bad goes down she will be able to go to the cops as she will be able to claim she was not a prostitute, and the deal was for dinner & drinks. Even if she goes back to his place with him she can still file charges as it would be classified as a date rape. Have not read of many stories about infamous online date site serial axe murderers like some women on here worry about, though dates can go bad with some weirdos for sure. My guess if it involves an old guy who is skipping the regular prostitute he might be looking for the gf experience even with no sex because he is not that horny anymore but still gets a kick out of having a sweet young thing spend 1 on1 time with him as a dinner escort. Yes there will be those that skip intercourse but will seek other stuff like spanking/discipline/femdom, etc. It could be easy/fine for the right girl but really there are other ways to make a buck and its corny to say I'm forced to do this because I'm a poor student. I read on article on these sites and it seems they do good business though. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
skyblue707 Posted November 23, 2014 Share Posted November 23, 2014 It is an awesome site! And for obvious reasons, I would know. Link to post Share on other sites
Ruby Slippers Posted November 23, 2014 Share Posted November 23, 2014 You're not a bad person for considering it. But I would imagine that taking part in these kinds of arrangements could be a slippery slope, possibly to some compromising places. I considered being a phone sex operator in college, or working at the sex shop. My roommate and I used to joke about it while browsing the university classifieds, but the fact is that both of those jobs paid quite a bit more than the "normal" jobs we had, and they were often advertised. I knew I could do either of those jobs well and probably make much better money. But I just didn't want to expose myself to that particular energy... the sex trade energy. Most men who pay for such services as these "dates" are going to want something sexual out of it. Sex will be the primary motivator for most of them. That's where the compromises come in. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
MrNate 2.0 Posted November 23, 2014 Share Posted November 23, 2014 Hey now. Let's leave Domino's out of this. ... I love Domino's. Link to post Share on other sites
acrosstheuniverse Posted November 23, 2014 Share Posted November 23, 2014 Hey now. Let's leave Domino's out of this. ... I love Domino's. Maybe it's different here in the UK but it sure isn't a dollar a slice, I could feed myself for the entire week shopping smart for the price of a single pizza from those guys. Nothing against people buying takeout if they can afford it I just thought it odd that the OP used Domino's as an example of how poor she is, that she's having to eat there. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Cakess Posted December 2, 2014 Author Share Posted December 2, 2014 Why is the Domino's thing such a big deal? Lol. They advertise for $1 a slice here since it's right in the middle of campus and my dorm doesn't have a kitchen and doesn't permit heating appliances besides a mini-microwave so I usually just chow down there and continue to study and ish. I do have a part-time, but obviously I thought one could see the appeal in making $200 in one day going on a date with someone instead of working a week at Wendy's for minimum wage (which is what I do). I'm not looking for an easy way out, I'm in a tight position. I owe $10000 at the end of this semester because my application for in state tuition is being dragged out, I'm living with relatives because my family is homeless, everyone is encouraging me to "stay in school" but no one wants to help pay and every relative I have has **** credit so I can't get a private loan--federal loans only afford me so much, and I'm already a 2nd year student. It was just a thought I was considering, I don't know why that makes me lazy or stupid. I did stay in the site and got some nice offers, but most were looking for a long-term sugar baby type thing. Link to post Share on other sites
Els Posted December 2, 2014 Share Posted December 2, 2014 but obviously I thought one could see the appeal in making $200 in one day going on a date with someone instead of working a week at Wendy's for minimum wage (which is what I do) Come on now. Do you REALLY think most guys on that site are going to be paying you $200 to only take you out for dinner and converse? I did stay in the site and got some nice offers, but most were looking for a long-term sugar baby type thing.Good that you realize that. Look, it's your prerogative if you want to trade sex (or related sexual favours) for money. Your body, your life, your choice. But please just don't be naive and think that all they will expect from you is 'going out on a date' with them. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Cakess Posted December 2, 2014 Author Share Posted December 2, 2014 I guess you're right, and I'm not looking to escort either, so I guess I'll just drop it. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Tayken Posted December 2, 2014 Share Posted December 2, 2014 Most men who pay for such services as these "dates" are going to want something sexual out of it. Come of it...really? Link to post Share on other sites
Els Posted December 3, 2014 Share Posted December 3, 2014 I guess you're right, and I'm not looking to escort either, so I guess I'll just drop it. Good on you! I hope you find a suitable part time job. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
MrNate 2.0 Posted December 3, 2014 Share Posted December 3, 2014 Come on now. Do you REALLY think most guys on that site are going to be paying you $200 to only take you out for dinner and converse? Good that you realize that. Look, it's your prerogative if you want to trade sex (or related sexual favours) for money. Your body, your life, your choice. But please just don't be naive and think that all they will expect from you is 'going out on a date' with them. You got that right. You think money grows on trees? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Leigh 87 Posted December 3, 2014 Share Posted December 3, 2014 Why are you eating Domino's Pizza if you're so poor right now? That stuff is crazy expensive. You should invest into teaching yourself how to properly cook on a budget. I can make a huge six-portion veggie Shepherd's pie for £1 per portion. Homemade soup is pence per bowl, and you can freeze it, not to mention it's actually good for you. Anyway, be aware that the men paying you for your company are likely expecting something else, unless you as a person really are just THAT engaging, beautiful, witty, interesting, and willing and able to make them feel like a King. Otherwise, most men aren't going to pay a woman to spend time with them when they can find that for free. Don't be fooled into think it's just 'escorting'. It's a legal, less embarrassing and less unsavory way of discussing prostitution. Now, I have absolutely nothing against prostitution if both parties are consenting. But you seem to think you can earn money without taking your clothes off, and I'd hate to see anyone in a situation where they're too naive to realise it's what's expected of them until they're in a very difficult situation. I worked 70 hours per week for two years to get my MA, and volunteered and had an awesome social life and relationship on top. If it's what you want hard enough, you'll find a way to make it work. Now I'm earning double the cash for half the hours (not even earning national average, but still much more of a comfortable wage than the amount I was on before), not delivering pizzas anymore, and enjoying the fruits of my labour. It honestly feels incredible. It is worth it if you push on through. Don't do anything now that you will look back on and regret. Have you explored other avenues for financial support? Hardship loans? Taking on one or two other jobs? Night shifts? Tutoring other people or proofreading essays for money? Asking for a small loan from your parents, if they're in the position to help? Economise. Sorry but it is not normal to work 70 hours a week AND study full time around a 70 hour working week. You should NOT be advocating that as most people cannot be healthy maintaining such a hectic schedule. 25 hours - 30 hours tops with full time study is all one should ever do if you are doing a hard full time degree. Link to post Share on other sites
Leigh 87 Posted December 3, 2014 Share Posted December 3, 2014 If you are attractive you could do modelling, I did it in early 20's/late teens and I am not beautiful - but I am merely attractive but not strikingly so at all. You don't have to be that great of a looker, I sure am not, but if you are in your 20's and have a nice smile and you are slim enough you can likely get modelling jobs. I got $50 per hour for the most small, low paid jobs! Try it out? It is better than being an escort! Link to post Share on other sites
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