I'm about go take that leap into being the OW

[Sub]

Just remember this isn't just about your feelings for the MM. As has been stressed by a handful of posters: you NEED to talk to your Husband.

[Got it]

Island - here are some books that may help you.

 

Uplift: Secrets from the Sisterhood of Breast Cancer Survivors: Barbara Delinsky: 9781451654677: Amazon.com: Books

 

http://www.amazon.com/Breast-Cancer-Husband-Diagnosis-Treatment/dp/1579548334/ref=pd_sim_b_2?ie=UTF8&refRID=0RBD38SFJGPHWP4MHJKS

 

http://www.amazon.com/Let-Get-This-Off-Chest/dp/0615812511/ref=pd_sim_b_1?ie=UTF8&refRID=0RBD38SFJGPHWP4MHJKS

 

The Mayo Clinic Breast Cancer Book: By the breast-health experts at Mayo Clinic Cancer Center: 9781561487721: Amazon.com: Books

[William]

I'll have another moderator take a look at this later. It appears the thread starter has received a wide variety of perspectives and can reflect upon them during this brief hiatus. Thanks for your input!