ascendotum Posted October 28, 2014 Posted October 28, 2014 Go to a bar by yourself, buy yourself a drink and camp yourself out on a stool at the far end so as to make it obvious you are by yourself. I guarantee you will get approached. Maybe not at the hottest club in the city, but any average dive/Irish bar, you should get approached many times. I can only see your headshot, but even if you were overweight, you should still get approached if you are alone. I guarantee her approach rate will rocket up if she walked into the same venues on her own, even if if she had a tired/aloof/stern look on her face. I wonder how much she is smiling and gives of the vibe she is enjoying herself there or acknowledging just a little with a small smile or sexy eye look back to some of the guys she's noticed looking at her. Is she sitting/standing in the middle of a pack of her friends. Is she always engaged in deep conversation with them or playing with her phone leaving less openings for a guy to come up and start a conversation. Is she slightly huddled over clutching her drink up close to her chest avoiding eye contact (sub-conscious protective gesture). The bars near my place, guys out number women 3-2 to 1 and the women generally show up in packs. Its easier to approach a woman in the group if they are spread out a little instead of congregated in a booth or huddled around a table. Also easier if you have another few guys with you to entertain the other women.
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