matteb89 Posted September 16, 2014 Share Posted September 16, 2014 Dating can sometimes be so difficult... I've officially been dating someone for going on 2 months. We are exclusive. I'm very interested in this person, and we've chatted for about 9 months. My date was up front about wanting to "take things slow". Mainly, because of their past experiences, being in an abusive relationship prior to this, and other things. And, I am fine with that. No need to rush into things... My date is in med-school, so I understand that this takes up a lot of time and such. But we see each other about once every 10 days. My s/o goes out maybe 2-3 times a week, usually for a dinner and that's about it. With different people (friends). I don't expect to have all of their time... but once every 10 days is kind of tough, considering they go out with friends. Should I be worried about this? Because, it does bother me. We talked about it, but that did nothing. I backed off from that, and I did receive an apology. Secondly, today, we got into somewhat of a heated argument. I played a harmless prank on someone that I know. My S/O got really upset over it, saying that I don't care about people in the same way they do, and that I could have hurt the kid I played a prank on. All I did was stream gay porn across this guy's TV, who is in college with me, because he left his network without a password. This guy thought it was hilarious. He is gay, I know that, and we have a lot of mutual friends. No harm done at all. Regardless, I felt awful about it afterwards, because of the way my s/o struck out at me. Link to post Share on other sites
Lani Posted September 16, 2014 Share Posted September 16, 2014 They're not interested and you're not a good match. It all seems pretty obvious really that this is going nowhere... time to move on. Link to post Share on other sites
PegNosePete Posted September 16, 2014 Share Posted September 16, 2014 I don't expect to have all of their time... but once every 10 days is kind of tough, considering they go out with friends. Should I be worried about this? Not "worried", but it's clearly a mis-match in time expectations. You want to spend more time together, they do not. It's not a good sign for your future together. Same with the prank. You seem to have very different lifestyles and senses of humour. Again not a good sign for your future together. I would say you two are not a very good match. Link to post Share on other sites
Diezel Posted September 16, 2014 Share Posted September 16, 2014 If her sense of humor doesn't match yours, it's time to take things from "slow" to "zero". Link to post Share on other sites
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