Author Eighty_nine Posted September 11, 2014 Author Posted September 11, 2014 ^ thank you. I know, this whole thing is crazy. I want to get to that part of my life where I realize how terrible he is and don't miss him at all! I've never had trouble meeting guys, who knows what great people I may have overlooked while obsessing and being heartbroken over this asshat. We don't live together anymore, thank god.
Author Eighty_nine Posted September 16, 2014 Author Posted September 16, 2014 I'm on day #7 of NC and am feeling MUCH better than say, day #2. This is also the longest I've gone without contact since we broke up on 8/19. I'm still in emotional pain (especially regarding his new 'relationship') but I can finally say with confidence that I'm feeling a little better.
Author Eighty_nine Posted September 30, 2014 Author Posted September 30, 2014 Today is 3 weeks. I'm definitely feeling better; I mainly fret about his new relationship. Nothing I can do about that tho. I have realized, at least, that there weren't many things I actually LIKED about him.
CaliBabe Posted September 30, 2014 Posted September 30, 2014 Today is 3 weeks. I'm definitely feeling better; I mainly fret about his new relationship. Nothing I can do about that tho. I have realized, at least, that there weren't many things I actually LIKED about him. I am on the same boat, my ex is flaunting his new relationship all around social media. Its embarassing. Keep it movin girl, you got this.
broken2828 Posted October 1, 2014 Posted October 1, 2014 Just because a guy texts all day doesnt mean he cares, it just means hes lining up sex. A guy who cares will want to call to hear your voice, drive all night just to see you, do things to make you smile. A guy will send a lot of texts to get laid.
Mark-e-Mark Posted October 1, 2014 Posted October 1, 2014 Yes, this man seemed like a real piece of work... its been 4 months for me, there has been back and fourths... Arguments, good talks, etc.... But I have finally gone 7 days of NC and going to continue it. I agree with you... It is hard at first, especially when you have children! But it is best for dignity and emotional healing. Good Job!
Author Eighty_nine Posted October 31, 2014 Author Posted October 31, 2014 I just want to update that it's been over 7 weeks since I've made contact with this person and I feel SO. MUCH. BETTER. I can see him for the POS he really is, now. I still miss him now and then, but I know I'm full-force ahead toward moving on. Dating other people who I genuinely like, too. So no contact = works. It's the only way!
Seeker12 Posted October 31, 2014 Posted October 31, 2014 Good to hear, im in 10 days NC and the miss mobile hits pretty bad when it comes round!
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