shybutnotshy Posted August 26, 2014 Posted August 26, 2014 I posted a thread here about a dude that I used to see. Let's call him Mr.JerkyFlake http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/472068-too-busy-care-silent-treatment It's been four months since I deleted his phone number and all of his text messages from my phone. I told myself and felt that I was over him and moved on . But, lately, I find myself thinking and wondering about him. These idiotic thoughts are so not ME! It is pissing me off. This is so embarrassing. I was not open to dating this summer because I supposedly still had feelings for Mr.JerkyFlake. I felt that this would have been unfair to other guys. At the same time, I thought that going out on dates and meeting new people would vanish him from my thoughts. Anyway, here I am, 4 months later, still thinking about him. It's so sudden and irrational. It's embarrassing that I miss him so much because he used to be anxious and worry about the facts that I might go on dates with other guys. Now, he does not have to worry about a thing. I am doing all the worry for him gratos!! For Christ's sake, this is pissing me off.
Requiem4Dreams Posted August 26, 2014 Posted August 26, 2014 You will find that you will think of your ex from time to time. The thoughts while prevalent in the beginning will dissipate with time until you rarely think of him at all. Be kind to yourself in your thoughts, because everyone has this happen to them at some point.
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