Author Rochelle95 Posted July 27, 2014 Author Posted July 27, 2014 Well we had a nice long talk about everything that has been going on and it was very eye opening, there was a lot of self discovery, and in the end we ended up totally on the same page. I had a bit of a complex that I didn't want to be known as 'that woman' but have now come to realise that if that is who I really am why should I run and hide from it? I am a bi-sexual woman, that is who I am. I would like on the very odd occasion to share another woman with my boyfriend, that is who I am. If people want to judge me for who I am then that is on them, I am being true to myself. My boyfriend totally understands where I am at. He will not ever push any agenda regarding us being with others. He says he is comfortable in the knowledge that it may never happen again, he just cares that we are together. He admits he got a little overexcited after the first time and that's why he was pointing out others that we could share. He knows it was wrong, it wont happen again. I'm not sure I could have hoped for more. He understands me and how I feel about all this. He is totally in sync with me on this now. I am grateful for him not only because he understands me but because he helped me understand myself a little better. I truly do have my perfect match. 2
SummerDreams Posted July 27, 2014 Posted July 27, 2014 I'm really happy for you. This conversation you had which had truth and honesty is really the essence of the human being: the ability to discuss things and find solutions, come to conclusions, share thoughts and feelings. I feel really proud that you have such a strong relationship where you can do this. You have to know this is rare, so cherish it as much as you can. Of course you should be proud for who you are, let people judge as much as they want, you do what you enjoy and feel good with. Good luck
Author Rochelle95 Posted July 28, 2014 Author Posted July 28, 2014 I'm really happy for you. This conversation you had which had truth and honesty is really the essence of the human being: the ability to discuss things and find solutions, come to conclusions, share thoughts and feelings. I feel really proud that you have such a strong relationship where you can do this. You have to know this is rare, so cherish it as much as you can. Of course you should be proud for who you are, let people judge as much as they want, you do what you enjoy and feel good with. Good luck Thanks for the kind words. Yes I do feel like I have found someone special with my boyfriend, honestly I was preparing for the worst, I had a feeling that I had opened a dangerous door. After his reassurances I now know that we can try new things and not have them rule our lives. I am positive we are meant for each other (and the occasional third )
camillalev Posted July 28, 2014 Posted July 28, 2014 Awesome Rochelle that is how a RESPECTFUL boyfriend acts. He doesn't leave an amazing relationship just to get a few jollies off.
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