rocketman122 Posted June 26, 2014 Posted June 26, 2014 Ive said it to my exgf before. but I think its hot and I told her not to shave. and I meant it. I love hairy girls that have it running from front to back. so hot. I may be one of the few but thats what I like. just dont like shaved. TMI, I know but I love the hair around her hole. HOT!
preraph Posted June 26, 2014 Posted June 26, 2014 Asking for one thing like this and agreeing to also do it himself isn't a big deal in itself, but what's worrisome is according to your other posts, he's got this whole bucket list. So at least some of it is doable, but WTF happens when you turn 40 and he feels nothing is right about you anymore? It's likely he may never adjust because he's a little too carried away with changing you into that ideal girl he keeps in his head that he probably got from porno and media. I'd watch for other red flags. 2
SugarLips72 Posted June 27, 2014 Posted June 27, 2014 Time to wax. Honestly waxing that area does not hurt at all, but it may be a little uncomfortable in the vaginal area. you might as well trim up the whole area. In general men do not like much hair down there especially around the butt. It is really hard to shave so don't bother. Invest in waxing and I would ask him what his grooming preferences are down there maybe really turn him on and get a brazillian . All women have hair down there. When I am dating someone I am good about getting a wax every 4 weeks.
soccerrprp Posted June 27, 2014 Posted June 27, 2014 I literally had to sign out of my usual account and register with a new one to post this thread because to me it's just embarrassing. I just got a random text at about 1am from my boyfriend, telling me that although I do turn him on, recently while being with me he has noticed some body hair around my "booty area." He means the type that you find on some girls in the crack (so not all over the thing). He said it can be somewhat "displeasing" but that he's got some too, and offered to smooth it out if I do the same. My first thought: "I can't believe he just texted me about butt hair. Why couldn't he gently bring this up in person? This is a poster example of things not to text your girlfriend." My next thought: "Do I really have that much hair?" I go to examine it. I've always known it was there and even shaved it once or twice, but it's what I'd consider a "normal amount" (i.e. no other man has complained or ever mentioned it). And do I really need to explain just how terrible butt stubble is???? (experience) So I text him asking why he had to TEXT MESSAGE this? And he responded that he wanted to avoid embarrassing me in person about it. I tell him that it was actually waaayyyy more embarrassing to get a text description of "displeasing booty hair" on my phone that I can re-read all day if I want. Would have much preferred it being gently brought up in person, if he felt so inclined. Now my issue: First, I guess I should trim the hair??? And second, at the same time I'm feeling a bit turned off by the text. As in, I kind of want to not answer the phone for a couple days or something to that effect, not exactly to play games… but because I'm actually turned off by how he brought it up and said it! I mean, it was just a random text about my a$$ hair after only a couple other totally normal texts during the whole day. Am I too sensitive? Has your partner ever made a similar request? Girls, do you shave the hair in the crack!!?? Enlighten me... Ha ha! Lol! I am sorry, but this post is/was hilarious! Lot's, if not most, have it. I can't believe he texted you on this! Sorry, no helpful insight into this.
Author whatisthiss Posted June 27, 2014 Author Posted June 27, 2014 OP in the house. I'm armed with some cool razors and shaving cream. The task will be complete tonight. We also had a talk, and he said that for him it's just a preference, but if I didn't feel like doing it all the time then it's ok with him. Actually he even said if I didn't end up doing it at all, my other qualities well overcompensate for any hair. So that's good enough for me for now. And I figure i'll try shaving it anyway and see what happens. 1
MidwestUSA Posted June 27, 2014 Posted June 27, 2014 OP in the house. I'm armed with some cool razors and shaving cream. The task will be complete tonight. We also had a talk, and he said that for him it's just a preference, but if I didn't feel like doing it all the time then it's ok with him. Actually he even said if I didn't end up doing it at all, my other qualities well overcompensate for any hair. So that's good enough for me for now. And I figure i'll try shaving it anyway and see what happens. Awesome!! You said razors, plural. I sure hope you don't need more than one to get thru the task! Seriously, I got to the point where I could do it without looking. No biggie. 1
Author whatisthiss Posted June 27, 2014 Author Posted June 27, 2014 Awesome!! You said razors, plural. I sure hope you don't need more than one to get thru the task! Seriously, I got to the point where I could do it without looking. No biggie. Lol, plural because I went for a pack of three
Omei Posted June 27, 2014 Posted June 27, 2014 Bummmm bum buh ba buh ba bummm bum buh ba buh ba bummm bum buh ba buh ba bumbumbumbumbum.... Sorry this is the best post ever.
lollipopspot Posted June 27, 2014 Posted June 27, 2014 Asking for one thing like this and agreeing to also do it himself isn't a big deal in itself, but what's worrisome is according to your other posts, he's got this whole bucket list. So at least some of it is doable, but WTF happens when you turn 40 and he feels nothing is right about you anymore? It's likely he may never adjust because he's a little too carried away with changing you into that ideal girl he keeps in his head that he probably got from porno and media. I'd watch for other red flags. Seriously at some point if someone was picking apart tiny little features of my body, I'd tell them to keep it to themselves and accept me or not. He's just too obsessed with it, and I wouldn't want to soak that in. My best relationships have been with guys who think I'm great as I am and don't cause me to feel self conscious about my body. All women have hair down there. So it shouldn't be "disgusting" to people that it exists. Or natural women are disgusting, according to a culture oversaturated with porn. Actually he even said if I didn't end up doing it at all, my other qualities well overcompensate for any hair. How big of him 2
Els Posted June 27, 2014 Posted June 27, 2014 OP in the house. I'm armed with some cool razors and shaving cream. The task will be complete tonight. We also had a talk, and he said that for him it's just a preference, but if I didn't feel like doing it all the time then it's ok with him. Actually he even said if I didn't end up doing it at all, my other qualities well overcompensate for any hair. So that's good enough for me for now. And I figure i'll try shaving it anyway and see what happens. Okay, good luck. I really hope he stops nitpicking about the other things too, for your sake. Just remember to hold your ground if he starts off on your eyebrows or something again... 1
Emilia Posted June 27, 2014 Posted June 27, 2014 OP in the house. I'm armed with some cool razors and shaving cream. The task will be complete tonight. We also had a talk, and he said that for him it's just a preference, but if I didn't feel like doing it all the time then it's ok with him. Actually he even said if I didn't end up doing it at all, my other qualities well overcompensate for any hair. So that's good enough for me for now. And I figure i'll try shaving it anyway and see what happens. Really? That's so generous of him. I think I would have got up and left at that stage. 6
Allumere Posted June 27, 2014 Posted June 27, 2014 This thread has been great with my morning coffee.....can't stop laughing 1
blueskyday Posted June 27, 2014 Posted June 27, 2014 Coffee in hand, I'm smiling. Awesome subject. Hey, I shave it all down south, save for a small triangle so I still look like a woman and not a child. It's easy to shave in the buttock crack region. I do it without looking now! Point is, it's a personal choice. Unless he's going there during oral, it's not necessary (unless you are unusually hairy and it sticks out between cheeks?) I am also a bit concerned that he is acting controlling. A few little requests, ok. Everyday harping and tearing apart your appearance, not ok. Shave it and make sure he shaves his. But I'll bet he wants a bit more play from you in his area there. May be his motivation. I'm kind of a brat so I would probably point out a few things he needs to take care of. Hairy toes, a few back hairs, messy sideburns, errant eyebrow hairs. See how he likes it! Oh and comment on some clothes you want him to wear. 1
MidwestUSA Posted June 27, 2014 Posted June 27, 2014 This thread has been great with my morning coffee.....can't stop laughing How many people who read this got a mirror and inspected their honey hole after they stopped laughing? 2
Stumble Posted June 27, 2014 Posted June 27, 2014 I literally had to sign out of my usual account and register with a new one to post this thread because to me it's just embarrassing. I just got a random text at about 1am from my boyfriend, telling me that although I do turn him on, recently while being with me he has noticed some body hair around my "booty area." He means the type that you find on some girls in the crack (so not all over the thing). He said it can be somewhat "displeasing" but that he's got some too, and offered to smooth it out if I do the same. My first thought: "I can't believe he just texted me about butt hair. Why couldn't he gently bring this up in person? This is a poster example of things not to text your girlfriend." My next thought: "Do I really have that much hair?" I go to examine it. I've always known it was there and even shaved it once or twice, but it's what I'd consider a "normal amount" (i.e. no other man has complained or ever mentioned it). And do I really need to explain just how terrible butt stubble is???? (experience) So I text him asking why he had to TEXT MESSAGE this? And he responded that he wanted to avoid embarrassing me in person about it. I tell him that it was actually waaayyyy more embarrassing to get a text description of "displeasing booty hair" on my phone that I can re-read all day if I want. Would have much preferred it being gently brought up in person, if he felt so inclined. Now my issue: First, I guess I should trim the hair??? And second, at the same time I'm feeling a bit turned off by the text. As in, I kind of want to not answer the phone for a couple days or something to that effect, not exactly to play games… but because I'm actually turned off by how he brought it up and said it! I mean, it was just a random text about my a$$ hair after only a couple other totally normal texts during the whole day. Am I too sensitive? Has your partner ever made a similar request? Girls, do you shave the hair in the crack!!?? Enlighten me... I don't like shaving or waxing much but when I wax, I always wax where the butt hair is. If I was a guy I wouldn't want to see any hair around there. It's not the same as hair around the vagina. I would not shave that part off as you said, she stubble would be painful. Waxing that part is better, no stubbles. I think he tells you that because he cares, doesn't matter how he is telling you, text or face to face. Either way it would still cause the same reaction.
rns4lyfe Posted June 27, 2014 Posted June 27, 2014 I use veet down there when I feel like it. Butt hair is normal and you can trim it if it bothers him that much
Emilia Posted June 28, 2014 Posted June 28, 2014 How many people who read this got a mirror and inspected their honey hole after they stopped laughing? I had a little check in the shower this morning 1
Ninjainpajamas Posted June 28, 2014 Posted June 28, 2014 I had a little check in the shower this morning Annnd? did you slay the beast?
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