Will we be a family again?

[ForHer]

I was in a long term Relationship and we had a baby, the stress was crazy and my hormones all over the place, Me and my boyfriend got in a fight and he said he's moving out for good. Our daughter was only 6 weeks old(he still sees her)

I cried

I begged

I got mad

Went back to crying

At first he said it will work out he needs time to think

I pressured is to get back together

Cried ,begged etc

Now he says "he dosnt want to be together"

After 3 weeks of not being together I find out he's now dating a girl he JUST met two weeks ago. Our daughter is now 9 weeks old

 

If I start lC and gaining control of myself and try an act like I'm moving on will he miss the three of us being a family. I've acted EXTREMELY in control of myself around him ever since he got a new girlfriend.

Please help. Do you think it's rebound. Do you think he'll question leaving? Will he want a family. He said he never picture it like this until the day of our fight

(Fight being about him needing to help out more and put other activities on the back burner)

Help...please

[bflowers85]

Girl, I'm hurting for you. I went through something somewhat similar. I think he's scared of the commitment and pressure associated with having a family. He is totally horrible for treating you and your little angel so poorly. Believe my words...when someone does wrong to you they will not have good come to them. Just pray, if you're religious, and use limited contact. Try not to let him see you hurt and mourn his presence. He will realize what he's done, trust that. Believe that everything you're going through will ultimately work out for your good. Try to push him to the back of your mind. I can't be harsh and say move on because it's not always easy. Just give him the space to fall of his high horse. So sorry about this happening to you.

[SummerDreams]

I think it's time for you to act like a mother and not like a betrayed woman anymore. Get a lawyer, find out your rights and send him the papers. I bet he'll stop being a jackass and start acting like a responsible adult.

[ForHer]

Thank you and I have, and he's been paying 75 dollars. It's hard to move on know I just had a baby with this man.

[SummerDreams]

Do you have people who can support you emotionally? Friends, family? Maybe you can join a group with single moms or something? Just remember that everything will be better in time. What now seems as a nightmare one day will be a forgotten bad dream. You owe it to your baby to be strong.

[David87]

He's such a irresponsible and narcissistic human being, how can he leave you when you are the mother of this child..... he wants to date not to be a father......he makes me sick......Stop wasting your feelings on him he aint worth it...