ForHer Posted June 23, 2014 Posted June 23, 2014 I was in a long term Relationship and we had a baby, the stress was crazy and my hormones all over the place, Me and my boyfriend got in a fight and he said he's moving out for good. Our daughter was only 6 weeks old(he still sees her) I cried I begged I got mad Went back to crying At first he said it will work out he needs time to think I pressured is to get back together Cried ,begged etc Now he says "he dosnt want to be together" After 3 weeks of not being together I find out he's now dating a girl he JUST met two weeks ago. Our daughter is now 9 weeks old If I start lC and gaining control of myself and try an act like I'm moving on will he miss the three of us being a family. I've acted EXTREMELY in control of myself around him ever since he got a new girlfriend. Please help. Do you think it's rebound. Do you think he'll question leaving? Will he want a family. He said he never picture it like this until the day of our fight (Fight being about him needing to help out more and put other activities on the back burner) Help...please
d0nnivain Posted June 24, 2014 Posted June 24, 2014 It doesn't matter if it's a rebound. The reality is he isn't ready for fatherhood but biology makes you responsible. You need to do what's best for your daughter. Talk to a lawyer about child support. If you aren't ready to be a single mom, talk about adoption. Your EX will also have to relinguish his parental rights.
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