i thought heartbreak was the worst that can happen?

[timmy2120]

my girlfriend and i dated for exactly 1 year. she had done some stuff that i just was not able to overcome. i tried my best and told her how much energy i would put into forgiving but just counldnt. i ended up breaking it off. i told her out of respect that i took the relationship and her seriously i wouldnt date for a while. i wanted her to know that i respected us enough to deal with the heart break. we both knew i cared more about her than she cared about me but what happened next was the most hurtful things possible. it was really hard on me to let her go but i had to. she wanted to work things out but i couldnt anymore. i was hoping she would also deal with the pain like i was. i come to find out she was all ready texting someone she met on instagram 2 days later. in the back of my mind i knew she would do this since she would text her ex when we would fight. i decided to text her if she could block me from instagram just out of respect that i gave it my best to make it work. then she decided to text me back that she wasnt going to cause it wasnt her problem. i know i am not strong enough now to not check hence why i told her to block me but its almost as if i never meant anything to her. its almost as if i must endure 2 heartbreaks at one time. its by far the hardest time of my life.

[David87]

Why dont you block her? Lots of girls start to date immediately after the bu, thas how tey cope with the ''pain'' . Don't take it personal, it wasn't meant to be.

[timmy2120]

I did from my end but its only common nature to want to want to go look at her instagram. i've been wanting to check all day but i havent. im trying to be as strong as possible and now one day ill properly heal.

[Bito]

It's going to hurt and will for some time. The best thing you can do is just try your best to move on. You will think about her but avoid learning new info about what she is up to or who she's daiting. No good comes from that.