ktya Posted June 23, 2014 Share Posted June 23, 2014 Going off of ktya different topic but how do you all feel about your other going through your phone? I usually don't mind when I have nothing to hide but after a while it's not cool I didnt mind her seeing my stuff because i had nothing to hide other than some nasty porn. But when she was going through unsent deleted emails on my tablet and grilling me about emails that were never even sent i had had enough. Not completely off topic i was sleeping the weekend on my boat, drunk and awake at 4am and i emailed some escort. Woke up in the morning and was like WTF i shouldnt have done that. Went to delete it noticed it was unsent and said thank god and deleted it. She was deep treasure troving through whatever she could find, my friends were saying i was online on facebook and she found and read my journal on my computer and was grilling me about my venting rants abojt her and our problems. I mean if i was stupid enough to be emailing or talking to girls on facebook and my computer was still logged in and she saw it go ahead let me have it. But to be deep scanning all of my devices for years eventually i changed all my passwords and told her why. I forgot to change my gmail after she left and she. Was still skimming it for a few weeks, i had my LS password here reset and she found out my nickname here and read everything i said about the breakup too. Nuts. Nucking futz. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Purepony Posted June 26, 2014 Author Share Posted June 26, 2014 I didnt mind her seeing my stuff because i had nothing to hide other than some nasty porn. But when she was going through unsent deleted emails on my tablet and grilling me about emails that were never even sent i had had enough. Not completely off topic i was sleeping the weekend on my boat, drunk and awake at 4am and i emailed some escort. Woke up in the morning and was like WTF i shouldnt have done that. Went to delete it noticed it was unsent and said thank god and deleted it. She was deep treasure troving through whatever she could find, my friends were saying i was online on facebook and she found and read my journal on my computer and was grilling me about my venting rants abojt her and our problems. I mean if i was stupid enough to be emailing or talking to girls on facebook and my computer was still logged in and she saw it go ahead let me have it. But to be deep scanning all of my devices for years eventually i changed all my passwords and told her why. I forgot to change my gmail after she left and she. Was still skimming it for a few weeks, i had my LS password here reset and she found out my nickname here and read everything i said about the breakup too. Nuts. Nucking futz. Oh man that doesn't sound too good Link to post Share on other sites
Chi townD Posted June 26, 2014 Share Posted June 26, 2014 Thank you April wine.. I mean April moon I assume you meant April Whine...not, Wine. I'm not the best speller either...carry on. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
me85 Posted June 26, 2014 Share Posted June 26, 2014 (edited) Believe me, no one despises a cheater more than I do... but everyone vents about their wrong doings (especially on LS) and I'd much rather the person at least not be married if they do cheat. Infidelity in marriages is all over this site and reading about it has contributed to my change of heart regarding marriage. It's really disturbing seeing these forums titled "the other woman/man." I'm far from naive. I was fully aware that people cheat before reading people's testimonies on here, but still, the depth of people's stories are absolutely frightening. I've been cheated on and it's one of the worst things I ever went through and that's saying a lot because I've been through many tribulations in my life. As if people don't struggle enough with having low self esteem already. Cheating is terrible. Crimes of passion are committed because of it, families are torn apart because of it, people have commited suicide because of it, kids grow up in seperate households and suffer because of it...I mean, the list goes on and on. Purepony, you should never cheat no matter what the situation. One day the tables might be turned around on you and you'll get a taste of your own medicine and I promise you, you won't enjoy it. Maybe next time try to think more along the lines of how you would feel if it happened to you. Edited June 26, 2014 by me85 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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