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I am falling in love with girl that I've made out 8 months ago. Should I write her?

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That is the weirdest situation I've ever had till now. I don't know wtf is happening.

 

Me and my buddies went to Europe last october and had so much fun. I've met this amazingly cute and sexy redhead which had a boyfriend. We had great time having conversation, laughing, dancing etc and then at our last night, she came with us to club with her girl friends. It was a fun night and we made out twice. It was amazing. That time I wasn't caring anything at all. That time, my ex broke up with me couple of months ago and I just decided to give no damn to girls by hooking up with them. Player mode on. Anyway, after the club, I left her to bus and she kissed me again and did a heart shape with her fingers while driving away.

 

Next day when I was at airport with my buddies waiting our flight, she sent me a text that she has so much fun and she is sure that she will see me again.

 

Anyway, she is so social and everyone loves her apparently. So, 1.5 months ago she told me that she is coming to my city because one of his guy friends had some extra miles to use and he invites her. She said when she is in my city, she would be happy if I can just spare my one hour and see her. I was happy to hear that but the situation that she will stay with a guy but not me kind of dissappointed me and I felt weird, so I told her I have feelings for her and she is staying with that guy instead of me, so I think I won't meet her. This was very childish but she said she is sorry to hear that and she said she is kind of hurt by it.

 

After she returned to her city, I wrote her I am sorry that I was a jerk etc. She said yes I was a jerk and just for me to know, she had nothing with that guy. Guy wanted to kiss her but she didn't do it because she has a bf and she loves him so much.

 

Anyway, she is in my mind lately a lot and I see her photos on facebook. I feel like I have feels for her. I am thinking of her a lot lately. Due to my masters studies and work, I've been very asocial lately but it was worth it because I accomplished my goals but on the otherhand I am very asocial. I am no player anymore, and I have no self-esteem.

 

I am planning to write her now how I feel. She lives in another country and she still has her bf but I want to be with her.

 

This is a very weird feeling. What should I do LS?

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we made out twice. It was amazing.

she told me that she is coming to my city because one of his guy friends had some extra miles to use and he invites her.

she had nothing with that guy. Guy wanted to kiss her but she didn't do it because she has a bf and she loves him so much.

 

She lives in another country and she still has her bf but I want to be with her.

 

This is a very weird feeling. What should I do LS?

 

Okay. This girl makes out with u ? (Cheats on her BF) and she travells miles to see another guy and lies that she had nothing with the guy ?? After driving miles ??? She has a BF that she truly loves ??? Why do u want her ? She's a liar and a cheater. Maybe you just like the drama she possess ?

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tell me more. i find this fascinating. a guy invites her to his city and pays for her and she friendzones him. hes a beta!but then she tells him she cant kiss him cos she has a bf but then she kissed u before?

 

 

can girls explain this please

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tell me more. i find this fascinating. a guy invites her to his city and pays for her and she friendzones him. hes a beta!but then she tells him she cant kiss him cos she has a bf but then she kissed u before?

 

 

can girls explain this please

 

Exactly......

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Okay. This girl makes out with u ? (Cheats on her BF) and she travells miles to see another guy and lies that she had nothing with the guy ?? After driving miles ??? She has a BF that she truly loves ??? Why do u want her ? She's a liar and a cheater. Maybe you just like the drama she possess ?

 

She is pretty damn cool and cute and sexy. I don't know but I kind of hooked up with her emotionally. I am pretty sure she already forgot about me.

 

I guess lately I am too lonely, so I am thinking of her.

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She is pretty damn cool and cute and sexy. I don't know but I kind of hooked up with her emotionally. I am pretty sure she already forgot about me.

 

I guess lately I am too lonely, so I am thinking of her.

 

Time to go NC mate...

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Time to go NC mate...

 

I wish there is such a thing like "mind control" etc and make her write me and meet me.

jbelle6 Established Member

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tell me more. i find this fascinating. a guy invites her to his city and pays for her and she friendzones him. hes a beta!but then she tells him she cant kiss him cos she has a bf but then she kissed u before?

 

 

can girls explain this please

 

 

 

Sure. Men think with their penises and let cute girls get away with murder just for her to grace them with her presence. They do this until they are burned badly enough to learn their lesson.

 

What are you doing OP? Why waste your time?

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