Hugo112211 Posted June 22, 2014 Posted June 22, 2014 There is a girl I have hung out with twice already. We are planning on hanging out again but it is pretty unclear since the girl's schedule is a bit packed and not flexible. When I decided to make the first move on her by asking her to hangout for the first time over text, she acknowledged that I was making the first move and agreed without a doubt. It was apparent it would be only us two since I asked if she wanted to hangout with ME but other than that, I didn't mention directly would be only us two. Then she asks me if her sister can come too. She made it clear that she did not invite her sister but her sister found out about our plans and wanted to come too. I let her come. Her sister also invited her friend to prevent being a third wheel (good thing because me and the girl can be paired up). However, her sister changed her mind and didn't come so it was us 3 that went. Regardless of that, all of us still had a great time chatting and sharing information about ourselves. I also eventually bought her candy. It seemed rude to only buy her candy so I bought both of them candy. When I asked to hangout for the second time, she asked me if it was only going to be us two. I said yes and she responded with "Can't like other people come too?" I agreed since she and I aren't very talkative and on the first hangout her sister's friend was the one who prompted us to talk. I was pretty nervous considering it was the first time hanging out with the girl I like. I'm pretty sure it was the same for her. Anyways, during our second hangout, we went to go eat with 4 other people. Me, my male friend, her, and her sister and her sisters friend. During this time, the girl was talking mostly to me and flirting with me a lot while we were eating. I also secretly caught her staring at me when I was talking to my friend and other numerous times. It went well. Now, we're planning our third hangout since school ended for our summer vacation (high school) and this time, it seems like we might be alone together since none of us mentioned bringing anyone yet. I will accept anyone's opinion. Thanks.
Assasda Posted June 22, 2014 Posted June 22, 2014 This sounds good man. You handled everything like a boss. The reason the girl wants to bring someone along is because THE GIRL is insecure, and she thinlks that she'll mess up and she wants the windfall of having someone else there to take the pressure off her. Once she becomes comfortable with you she might lose some of her insecurity and spend time with you. She doesnt seem like a brave girl, Kinda like a follower, but anyway, take it for what its worth 1
ExpatInItaly Posted June 22, 2014 Posted June 22, 2014 She sounds very nervous and inexperienced, but I also read you're in high school so it's kind of understandable. I think next time you need to be clear that you'd like to get to know her a bit better and you hope to be able to spend some time alone together doing so. If she again wants to bring other people on your third date, I'm not sure I would bother arranging a fourth.
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