AnnieAddicted Posted June 20, 2014 Posted June 20, 2014 (edited) I started talking with this guy some months ago. I never dated any guy before even if I am 21. This guy seems really smart, he is studying for his masters degree and also working as an engineer. So far our discussions online are interesting so I never get bored while talking to him. He REALLY shows me how interested he is, he is very understanding and has a cute face. Here comes the problem. I always told myself that dating will never be for me. My plans on having a boyfriend were nonexistent. In my opinion, having a relationship, while having 0 experience would be a lot of burden and I would most likely suffer a lot and be really immature while in a relationship, so I would rather not do that. His personality tho, makes me question my previous thoughts regardless relationships. Study related, I will be out of the country for 6 months, not to say that I already planned to get an Internship abroad during next summer holiday, so I would be only for a few months in my country. I don't want to hurt his feelings. The idea of going on a first date, seems quite exciting. If I would decide to go on a date, would it be selfish for me to hope that he will hate my guts and not ask for another date? (because that's exactly how I feel). I am honestly very confused. He insisted and waited for me to go on a date with him all these months so he seems very serious, yet I don't want to create more drama if something happens because I will be away. To be honest, it seems pointless to me. Yet I somewhat feel like I should give him a chance. What should I do? Thanks to everyone who took the time to read everything and help! Edited June 20, 2014 by AnnieAddicted
todreaminblue Posted June 20, 2014 Posted June 20, 2014 give the guy a chance dont break his heart, to do that, be honest and take it one date at a time............deb 1
Smilecharmer Posted June 20, 2014 Posted June 20, 2014 If we all didn't do anything because of inconvenience and in experience, we would all miss life. Take it slow and don't stress out. 1
Author AnnieAddicted Posted June 20, 2014 Author Posted June 20, 2014 give the guy a chance dont break his heart, to do that, be honest and take it one date at a time............deb Alright, I guess I will go! I am quite scared, but I will grow some ba**s and go! Thanks
Author AnnieAddicted Posted June 20, 2014 Author Posted June 20, 2014 If we all didn't do anything because of inconvenience and in experience, we would all miss life. Take it slow and don't stress out. You are right~ I should stop making excuses! Thanks!
Author AnnieAddicted Posted June 20, 2014 Author Posted June 20, 2014 Is this the crush guy from your other thread? No, it's another guy, but our discussions are interesting and he is attractive. Yet I don't like like him because I didn't meet him and get to talk to him face to face
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