johnsonracer Posted June 19, 2014 Posted June 19, 2014 me and my girlfriend are supposed to go to lunch today but she has been complaining about her wisdom teeth , saying tehy hurt should i make her go away to lunch, even though she said she can hardly eat, or just back down and say its ok we will go another time ?? is that me being weak if i say ok we will go another time?
central Posted June 19, 2014 Posted June 19, 2014 Are you thinking that she's lying about her wisdom teeth to avoid you? If anything, you should be strongly encouraging her to see a dentist and find out if there's a serious problem. Forget lunch - it's not important if she's hurting.
ktya Posted June 19, 2014 Posted June 19, 2014 Dont make her go for lunch. Its cruel and there's no way she will have a fun or even enjoyable time. She will barely be able to eat, cold drinks will bring her pain as well hot ones, there's nothing in it for her. Shift gears and offer to go to her house and watch a movie with her. Dont expect her to put out because she's in pain (never know though she might want to to take her mind off her teeth) and you will score mega brownie points for next time.
Zahara Posted June 19, 2014 Posted June 19, 2014 Is this the girl that cheated on you or the girl that in your last thread you couldn't stop pestering about going over to your place?
Author johnsonracer Posted June 19, 2014 Author Posted June 19, 2014 Is this the girl that cheated on you or the girl that in your last thread you couldn't stop pestering about going over to your place? nope new gf i got
d0nnivain Posted June 19, 2014 Posted June 19, 2014 Are you sadistic? Unless you don't actually like her, why on earth would you expect her to endure pain just so you can have a lunch with her that will cause her agony? If my BF tried to "make" me do anything especially while I was sick or in pain, he wouldn't be my BF much longer. Be more sensitive her plight. Instead of whining about her cancelling lunch ask if you can drive her to the dentist. 2
Zahara Posted June 19, 2014 Posted June 19, 2014 You move fast! In any case, wisdom teeth hurt. If you had any care or empathy for your girlfriend, you would tell her that if she needs anything to let you know, maybe get her some soup if that helps her feel better or just let her know that you can meet her when she's feeling well again.
Els Posted June 19, 2014 Posted June 19, 2014 How do you even 'make' someone go to lunch with you if they don't want to? I'm sure several guys here would love that information... 2
Grumpybutfun Posted June 19, 2014 Posted June 19, 2014 Make her? Break up with her immediately so she can find a compassionate man who doesn't make all life's issues about him. You don't make grown women do anything unless you are some insecure control freak. If she is in pain, why is it about you? G 1
bubbaganoosh Posted June 19, 2014 Posted June 19, 2014 Rather than take her to lunch, take her to a dentist. What good is it when she can't enjoy eating her lunch? Although I take it she's old enough to know that if her wisdom teeth are hurting that bad, she shouldn't need anyone to tell her that she needs a to see a dentist. Why don't you bring her a box of peanut brittle?
MidwestUSA Posted June 19, 2014 Posted June 19, 2014 Why don't you bring her a box of peanut brittle? Excellent! If the teeth are just trying to poke thru the gums, Fritoes have an awesome effect as well. (I know) 1
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