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Justaguy30 Established Member

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I have posted in different areas about this but trying to get some different perspectives. My GF cheated on me I am guessing 100 times IDK for sure with 50 guys maybe more or less in the numbers on either side. I mean she is obviously mentally ill but has anyone done anything like this or had it done to them?

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I have posted in different areas about this but trying to get some different perspectives. My GF cheated on me I am guessing 100 times IDK for sure with 50 guys maybe more or less in the numbers on either side. I mean she is obviously mentally ill but has anyone done anything like this or had it done to them?

 

If my girlfriend cheated on me with 50 guys and I stayed, I would be mentally ill. Are you still with her? The best thing you can do is destroy anything she ever gave you, eliminate her memory from your life and don't hold her actions against other women. You were never in a relationship with her, you were supplying a lifestyle and that is all. Sorry you had to go through such a farce of a relationship, not all women are capable of such deceit.

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How is she even finding time to cheat with 'tons of different guys' almost every day, while maintaining a job/studentship, and a relationship? Is she into gangbangs or something? :o

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If my girlfriend cheated on me with 50 guys and I stayed, I would be mentally ill. Are you still with her? The best thing you can do is destroy anything she ever gave you, eliminate her memory from your life and don't hold her actions against other women. You were never in a relationship with her, you were supplying a lifestyle and that is all. Sorry you had to go through such a farce of a relationship, not all women are capable of such deceit.

 

Get

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Your gf must been a very busy woman. But seriously when did she find time to do this? Were you two in a LDR? I really hope you got yourself tested for STDs.

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Yes OP how on earth does a gf manage to cheat almost every day with tons of guys?

 

I think it must have been done either in MFM threesomes or in gang-bang thing. Either way, seriously get tested. She's a prolific cheater and the most disgusting of all.:sick::sick:

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She may be mentally ill but what's wrong with you that you'd stay with someone like this? :confused:

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Dude, walk away from this one.

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Dude, break up, get tested for STDs and go full no contact. For life. :sick:

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.... And why are you still with her?

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Walk away and forget her existence. Also get yourself tested.

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I am not with her, we have been broken up for a few months. It took me a long time to piece it all together and her admitting somethings. She would go screw someone before work, after work, in the middle of the night she would sneak out or sneak people into our house. She used Facebook and i assume online dating sites to find people. She is a sick puppy

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Also she is into group sex and MWM but I didn't know that at the time. I think sometimes she would go sleep with someone in the morning and then someone else after work or in the middle of the night. She is crazy and I don't think I really care anymore and it feels good.

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Sounds to me like she actually suffers from low self-esteem and thus, she seeks excessive external validation from men. The sex makes her feel valued.

 

But at the same time, she knows it's deviant behavior and so she clings to the facade of a normal boyfriend and life.

 

I'm glad you don't care much because it really isn't about you. She's a broken person. The impact to you is probably a few rounds of STD testing and some wasted time. At least you didn't have 20 years invested and 2 young kids with their lives hanging in the balance. This kind of thing really teaches you to watch for red flags early in the relationship.

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I had 13 years and my best friend. I lost everything literally

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Sorry man, this really stinks...especially with that amount of time invested in someone. She literally put your life in danger by having all of these sexual partners. Don't accept any of her excuses! She actually sounds like a sociopath. The impulsivity, blatant disregard for your feelings or health, the lying and manipulative behavior, superificial relationships, and her inflated ego (being desired by so many men, yet keeping you around as a safety net). Personality disorder or not, she knew what she was doing! Has she tried to contact you? If so, don't answer. She sounds like she is ready for her debut on "Snapped"!

 

Again, sorry you had to go through this...That's no bueno!!

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I have posted in different areas about this but trying to get some different perspectives. My GF cheated on me I am guessing 100 times IDK for sure with 50 guys maybe more or less in the numbers on either side. I mean she is obviously mentally ill but has anyone done anything like this or had it done to them?

 

 

This is ridiculous. Why would you even allow such a broad to be a girlfriend to you for all this time, knowing she's acting like that?

 

 

Sounds like she's everyone's girlfriend.

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...you were with her for 13 years and didn't catch on to this????

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You guys gotta understand that sure there were signs that something is up. But how do you think mob hitmen like "The Iceman" killed people on Christmas day and went home to their families to open presents? People who act like this are detached to begin with and a lot of times are excellent liars. So two things played against our buddy here...he was blinded by love and she was good at lying/covering her tracks.

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I have posted in different areas about this but trying to get some different perspectives. My GF cheated on me I am guessing 100 times IDK for sure with 50 guys maybe more or less in the numbers on either side. I mean she is obviously mentally ill but has anyone done anything like this or had it done to them?

 

Borderline personality disorder?

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I had 13 years and my best friend. I lost everything literally

 

 

Friend, your looking at it the wrong way, you didn't loose 13 years, you saved the rest of your life. Let her be someone else's problem. You dogged a bullet, get a bottle of Champagne and rejoice because now you can meet the right woman.

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We didn't date for 13 years but we have been close for that amount of time. It always baffled me how she could go out and do things like that even on Holidays as one of you suggested and just come home like nothing even happened. I am pretty sure she went out and screwed someone on New years day. I don't know I am crazy, I am going to therapy tomorrow. I am at the point where I don't really care about her anymore but I still love her.

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We didn't date for 13 years but we have been close for that amount of time. It always baffled me how she could go out and do things like that even on Holidays as one of you suggested and just come home like nothing even happened. I am pretty sure she went out and screwed someone on New years day. I don't know I am crazy, I am going to therapy tomorrow. I am at the point where I don't really care about her anymore but I still love her.

 

Even as hard as it is to digest at this point. I think that you really need to read what Alive Again said just above. You are not necessarily losing anything here. You are simply saving the rest of your life.

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You have my sympathy. I do not know how you functioned for that many years. I look up to you.

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Justaguy30 Established Member

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I would assume its like being at war, you do what you have to do to survive and take care of your fellow warriors. When you are in the **** you keep your eyes on the prize and roll with the punches. When you are under fire you fire back. I lost tons of weight, my hair started going gray, my blood pressure was up, I was smoking a ridiculous amount of cigarettes and it almost killed me. It literally almost drove me insane and she knew what she was doing and did it anyway. Today I am not who I used to be. I am a shell of the person I once was and its a sad state of affairs. I will get through this and come out stronger than I was before.

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