Author Lou84 Posted June 19, 2014 Author Posted June 19, 2014 May I ask why you no longer want NC with your ex? We went through alot together in the space of 6 weeks, and nothing bad happened for it to get where it is, she even told me she loves me.
martaldn Posted June 19, 2014 Posted June 19, 2014 because people move on. once you are done with that person you dont longer care if they unblocked U or keep stay NC. you need to think the other way around about NC. it wont take your ex back but it will take your ex out of your life/head/heart 2
Sulayman Posted June 19, 2014 Posted June 19, 2014 because people move on. once you are done with that person you dont longer care if they unblocked U or keep stay NC. What does NC mean guys ?
Author Lou84 Posted June 24, 2014 Author Posted June 24, 2014 She got in contact with me last nifght, quite an angry text saying, she has delted her dating account, but has been online to check if I am on there and surpise surpise I am (we met online) she said I need to stop contacting her esp if I am back on the dating website, and that she is so angry at me for runing us. I haven't contacted her for a week. Why is she checking me up and why is she angry if she doesn't want me back?
David87 Posted June 24, 2014 Posted June 24, 2014 She got in contact with me last nifght, quite an angry text saying, she has delted her dating account, but has been online to check if I am on there and surpise surpise I am (we met online) she said I need to stop contacting her esp if I am back on the dating website, and that she is so angry at me for runing us. I haven't contacted her for a week. Why is she checking me up and why is she angry if she doesn't want me back? Did you respond in any way or not? She acts like a dog that has finished eating but doesn't like to share with the other dogs 2
Author Lou84 Posted June 24, 2014 Author Posted June 24, 2014 Yeah I said, if she wants to be friends she knows where I am, and then I said I will be at the train station tonight at 7pm, if she wants to turn up, she said she wont turn up, but I am still going to go. Do you still feel she has feelings and wants to get back? Why look me up on dating sight and why get angry at me?
David87 Posted June 24, 2014 Posted June 24, 2014 She's toxic that's why, she doesn't want you back. Ignore her is she tries to talk to you again. Start NC.
Author Lou84 Posted June 24, 2014 Author Posted June 24, 2014 toxic why do you think this? do you think she will turn up tonight?
David87 Posted June 24, 2014 Posted June 24, 2014 (edited) toxic why do you think this? do you think she will turn up tonight? It doesnt mater anymore what I think , what matters is the fact that she doesn't want to be in a relationship with you but you keep hoping that she will change her mind...... Read this http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/481730-what-dumper-thinking-feeling-after-break-up Edited June 24, 2014 by David87
Author Lou84 Posted June 24, 2014 Author Posted June 24, 2014 so why is she contacting me and getting annoyed I am on dating website?
David87 Posted June 24, 2014 Posted June 24, 2014 so why is she contacting me and getting annoyed I am on dating website? Because she still thinks that she owns you.....prove her wrong.
Author Lou84 Posted June 24, 2014 Author Posted June 24, 2014 Nooo as she isn't like that I think she is just confused, I dunno, we will see if she turns up
harley90 Posted June 24, 2014 Posted June 24, 2014 Nooo as she isn't like that I think she is just confused, I dunno, we will see if she turns up Hey, So did she turn up? My experience is kind of similar to yours actually. I met my ex online, things got very intense really quickly - even more so once we met - and our relationship gave her the courage to finally come out to her parents. We were together for 2 months (not including cyber time) Unfortunately, her parents didn't take the news very well which resulted in her completely regretting telling them, wanting to go back into the closet and pretty much blaming me for 'pressuring' her to tell them. Unbelievable.. The paranoia got all to much for me, so I suggested we take a break. She agreed, only to send me a long text the next day saying i'm looking for the easy way out, my feelings weren't sincere (both of which are completely false) and that i'm to not bother contacting her. She blocked me on everything. This was just over 2 weeks ago. Yesterday, I noticed I was no longer blocked from her WhatsApp because I could see her profile picture again (a picture of her wearing my hoodie) and her status which says: It’s funny how the person who hurts you is the one who swore they never would I haven't contacted her yet but I plan on doing so in the next few days. I miss her alot.
David87 Posted June 25, 2014 Posted June 25, 2014 Nooo as she isn't like that I think she is just confused, I dunno, we will see if she turns up Well did she ?
Author Lou84 Posted June 25, 2014 Author Posted June 25, 2014 Hey, No she didn't turn up, just as I was about to leave she texted me and unblocked me saying 'Please don't waste your time coming all this way, I have an appointment and can't be in two places at once, and I am not well' She then sent a further text saying why would you want to make me jealous and ruin us my ex used to do this and I swore I wouldn't have this again (I have never made her jealous, she thinks I have but I haven't, I am being honest here!) she said no matter what her heart tells her, she has to go with her head, as the head proects the heart, and in her head it's over. Will the heart win her thoughts in her head? She has been badly hurt by her ex, and is comparing me to him, that isn't fair as I am not him! Love to know your thoughts xx
David87 Posted June 25, 2014 Posted June 25, 2014 Of course its not fare friend but she basically told you that shes done with you and she doesnt want to give it another try, I hope now you will trust my judgement and final start NC.
Author Lou84 Posted June 25, 2014 Author Posted June 25, 2014 I know David, but her heart is telling her one thing and her head another, doesn't the heart always win?
David87 Posted June 25, 2014 Posted June 25, 2014 Only time will tell, the best thing you can do at the moment is to give her the opportunity to miss you. 1
Author Lou84 Posted June 25, 2014 Author Posted June 25, 2014 You are right. I mean when we had NC of a week, she sent me an angry message saying. 'even tho I have delted my profile of the dating website, I still went to check your on there and everytime I look your online, so why are you messaging me if you have moved on' (So why is she checking me up on dating website if she doesn't want to know?) I then said I will meet her and wait for her, she then said 'Please don't turn up I don't want you wasting yout time, and about following her head, even tho her heart is saying something else' To me it seems she still has feelings, but is fighting them and also why is she comapring me (what feels like) to her ex, as she keeps going on about how jealous I am making her feel (which I am not) and not even giving me a chance to prove I am not the person she thinks I am.
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