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Hi Guys!

 

Now honestly I'm not sure where this post would properly belong, but I'm found at times here in the Coping threads.

 

Earlier today, a mutual friend of mine informed me and my girlfriend that my ex from two years ago...apparently is still talking smack about my relationship. That same mutual friend also told me that my ex states that her husband and child are top priority then everything else but is actually a hypocrite because she talks more about my relationship. Neither my GF or I reacted to her actions, and to top it off, we never even browsed through her Facebook profile or talked smack about her on my or my GF's profile page.

 

Here's the thing though, she cheated on me for another guy and blamed me for it and it was a whole mess 2 years ago. They got married and had a kid. But growing up, she was treated kinda bad and always got the end of the stick in life when receiving things (simple example: if you were given a one-scoop ice cream and shown off, she would want two scoops with sprinkles AND show it off as the better thing).

 

I kinda put some thought into it and well...out of all the relationship's she has had, this is the only one she's doing it to (We roughly lasted 10.5 months!).

 

My questions to you guys is: how the heck do you deal with someone like this? How can someone have so much hatred?

 

Honestly, if she grew up and matured a bit - I could be friends with her - but kinda keep a distance from her.

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Why are you on here if you are happy with your new gf and neither of you reacted to this? Mmm Im not sure this is quite as over for you as you might think x

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